The importance of sex life is self-evident. People with normal sexual life will have a natural sense of relaxation, will not give people pressure in life, and will be more cooperative at work. People who are dissatisfied with their sexual life are prone to anxiety, inexplicably want to lose their temper and cry, which gives people great pressure. Because they know that they will show excessive enthusiasm for others by stabbing them, but even if they are good to others, they are still time bombs in the eyes of others.

Married women are usually dissatisfied with their sex lives. They have three characteristics: 1, traditional thinking, cheating is moral corruption; 2, do not have the ability to derail; 3, can't bear the consequences of derailment. Many of them are kind, virtuous and sensible, but none of them is happy. Long-term suffering from lust, physical and mental injury, life lost its luster.

Man is controlled by lust, but lust also has its nemesis. There are two kinds of nemesis of lust: one can temporarily restrain lust without hurting its spirit; One can restrain lust for a long time and fundamentally curb lust.

There are three ways to temporarily suppress lust:

1, vent your lust through exercise. Running, yoga, dancing and fitness are all good ways, which can not only vent their lust, but also exercise and lose weight and fitness. Unfortunately, many women don't like sports, and the energy they get every day is only enough to go to work, do housework and serve their husbands and children, so this move is not popular;

2. Replace lust with appetite, material desire and excitement. This move was born to women. When her husband didn't go home for dinner, he angrily invited his friends to a high-end restaurant for a big meal, then went shopping in the mall and maxed out his card. Many women are addicted to gambling because they can't get love, and the suppression of lust is immediate.

3, use hobbies to divert attention. A woman waiting for love plays a song "The Last Rose in Summer" in the lonely dusk, and fascinates herself with music; For example, Zhang Ailing missed Hu Lancheng and wrote in her notebook: "The sound of rain is like living by a stream. I'd rather it rains every day, thinking that you can't come because of it. " Fascinate yourself with novel metaphors.

There are four ways to suppress lust for a long time:

1, enhance maternal love. Putting children first, the more you love children, the more you pay for them, the less you suffer from lust. Look around us, women who love children very much rarely cheat. Motherly love is the biggest nemesis of lust. Many women are willing to sacrifice their lust for their children. Some women are keen on keeping pets, and treating them as children can also restrain their lust.

2. Develop a cautious habit. Lust will lose sense of security, fear of trouble, fear of entanglement, fear of being cheated, which has a very significant inhibitory effect on lust, but the side effects are also very great, which will make people feel that the scope of security is getting smaller and smaller. Some conservative parents or husbands use this trick to scare their daughters or wives in order to possess them and make them behave;

3. Cultivate strong vanity. Women who like to dress themselves up as noble strong women and feel that they should enjoy preferential treatment everywhere have weak sexual desire. Actors can't really have passion when they perform passionate scenes on the stage. Under the gaze of countless pairs of eyes, the inflated vanity left no room for the growth of lust;

4. Believe in Buddhism and religion. Believers lose themselves, and strong spiritual dependence castrates their lust. Women who consciously choose this way are eager to rely on themselves, and most of their love for men is fake love with dependence as the core, not true love with lust as the core. However, because they were forced by lust, they were taught atheism since childhood, and it was difficult for them to become true believers. In contrast, Chinese medicine meets their psychological needs, which is both mysterious and cordial. So most of them are Chinese medicine fans. Women who are superstitious about Chinese medicine do not have a good marriage, and because they fundamentally curb their lust, they have no strong demand for men. If you miss the age of marriage, you will generally choose to be single and will not remarry after divorce.

It is abnormal and should not be satisfied with sex life. However, the reality is so cruel that there are still women who suffer from lust after marriage. This kind of pain may last for more than ten years, even decades, until the lust naturally dries up, which shows that the health level and population quality of our society need to be improved urgently. Lust was beautiful and precious, but it turned into poison in many women. "Fight poison with poison" is the best way, because if you can't see one thing or another, you will always get hurt.