? Of course not. In the process of children's growth, parents need to teach their children not only the truth of being a man, but also the differences between men and women. Under normal circumstances, children should not continue to live with their parents after attending kindergarten, otherwise it will hinder the child's gender identification.

? In this case, the 30-year-old son sleeps in a bed with his mother every day. Have you considered the psychological area of his daughter-in-law? In this case, the mother and son may have become accustomed to this lifestyle, which leads to their cognition, and may not realize that such behavior is wrong.

? To this end, some suggestions for parents: 1) As a mother (father), never take her son (daughter) to the public bath after the child goes to kindergarten; 2) Don't be too exposed in front of children even in very hot summer; 3) Even if children cry to sleep in a bed with themselves, they can't agree, and they should cultivate the habit of sleeping alone.

My friend's boyfriend, born at 8 1 (over 30 years old), is now working in other places. His dormitory is so small that he can only put down a bed and a desk. After putting these two things away, there is almost only a little room to walk. His family has a habit that his mother will visit him every once in a while, and each visit usually lasts for a week, and they sleep in the same bed. This time, he happened to have the opportunity to take his mother out for a trip, with a group. When arranging the room, he and his mother plan to live in a standard room. I raised an objection as his girlfriend. But he told his mother that he could not understand my request. I said what I thought. I said he's an adult and it's not appropriate to sleep with his mother. His mother said: it is normal for my son to be close to his mother. She also said that my son is her own and there is no problem sleeping together. She also asked me if I was jealous. And my boyfriend thinks it's his mother. He thinks it's okay to live together. Sisters, if it were you, would you accept it . . I cried several times these days. I don't know why a truth that I think is normal doesn't make sense in their family. I feel so tired. . .

This question is so complicated, it depends on the scene. For example, in a hospital, or during a trip, it is understandable that you have to sleep in a bed because of conditions. But if it is in daily life, it is normal to sleep together if you can sleep in two beds, which may affect two people to establish close relationships with others, especially adult sons.

If there is no one else in this family, only the mother and son live together, so they sleep together, assuming there is no physical contact between them, is that ok? I still think it depends on what kind of social environment they live in and what kind of life they want.

For example, the son is not married at the age of 3 1 year, and has no girlfriend for the time being, or even if he has a girlfriend, he does not live together, and his girlfriend does not realize that this family is different from other families. The son and mother tacitly kept the news that they slept together from anyone except them. Then, in fact, this son has been destroying his intimate relationship in the future, instead of insisting on his little secret with his mother. Because, the average girlfriend doesn't like her boyfriend sleeping with his mother at home. Hiding from his girlfriend shows that this relationship is not honest and transparent at all. To tell the truth, unless this girlfriend has special hobbies and special requirements, she will not be at ease in this state.

What if this son doesn't like women and likes men who don't intend to get married, but wants to live like this with his mother all the time? It seems that their life is not impossible without life. Just don't feel strange to your neighbors, and don't treat them as a weird family.

What if this son likes women, but for various reasons, not because he is close to his mother, he can't have a girlfriend? As long as he and his mother think that the present situation can cope with their social environment, life seems to be passable.

Seeing this topic reminds me of a Korean movie "Black Hole" (also known as "Lasso") that I once saw. The film is about a single mother's almost abnormal control and love for her son, which eventually leads to tragedy. In particular, it is disgusting to see that the mother and adult son in the film still ignore ethics and are often as close as when they were children. Later, with a daughter-in-law, the mother could not accept that her son fell in love with another woman and made a series of heinous acts. Although many years have passed, I still remember those scenes in the film, which revealed a misplaced and sad mother-child relationship.

For an adult man, you must first understand that a mother's kiss is an elder. At the age of 30, whether you are married or in love, don't sleep with your mother again. Under normal circumstances, whether boys or girls sleep in separate beds, it should be kindergarten at the latest, which is the first step to make children independent. Some families lack a correct guidance for their children's education in this area from an early age, and then they will have this incomprehensible behavior in adulthood. The saddest thing is that many of them don't realize that this is a mistake, but accuse others of not understanding their "mother's kindness and filial piety." It is nonsense to say that you are sick in special circumstances and take care of yourself. You don't have to sleep together even if you stay up all night, okay?

Obviously, this is a very inappropriate behavior, which will cause trouble and harm to other family members. As mothers and sons, we should realize in time that this is wrong and stop going it alone.

It depends on the specific situation. First of all, this question does not explain whether the mother in her 50 s has a disease or something, so it is difficult to judge.

Here I tell you a true story. In my hometown, there is an uncle who is almost 70 years old and his mother is over 90 years old. It is inconvenient to move, especially to get up at night, so this uncle sleeps with his mother and takes care of her mother. In our local area, people regard this uncle as a dutiful son.

Then, as for my son in his thirties sleeping with his mother in his fifties, I think it is necessary to find out the situation. In general, I don't think this is a good idea. After all, it is easy to attract people's gossip, cause widespread public opinion comments, and cause bad social impact.