This afternoon, my daughter sent me several messages about Nannan's preschool education. Nannan has never attended early education or many interest classes since she was born. She only studied dance for half a year. The dance has stopped recently. Because I have to practice my waist and horse every day, I am afraid that she will get hurt. Now we learn to draw instead, and go to Guangzhou Children's Palace for two art classes every Saturday afternoon.

My daughter and I have reached a consensus. In the kindergarten stage, let Nan Nan travel more, see the world more, learn more in play, and let the children have a golden childhood. We think that nature is the best teacher, which is more conducive to children's growth than interest classes.

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Recently, Nannan's mother couldn't sit still, because in the past two weeks, Teacher Lin of kindergarten reflected that Nannan was not bold and confident, and her temper was a little impatient. Teacher Lin is very careful. I also found some changes in Nannan. Sometimes she says she is too shy to express herself. Sometimes she cries when her demands are not met, and even calls names and throws things. What is the reason?

It is understood that there is a little girl in Nannan's class who has participated in many interest classes, from English painting and singing to Taekwondo piano language art and so on. This girl named Aqi is bold and confident, and Nannan admires her. She often tells me that Archie is good at everything. She can sing English songs, tell jokes and run faster than others. She used to be behind Nannan, but now Seven always strives for the first place.

Nannan also told me that she and Archie are good friends, and the teacher asked her to help Archie because she has a bad temper and sometimes even hits people and curses. I am really worried about such playmates, because children have strong imitation ability, and good ones may not learn, but bad ones will. But Nannan admires her little friend Aki and likes to follow her ass.

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Is there any way to make Nannan confident? I think on the one hand, we should start to supplement Nannan with some extra-curricular knowledge to make her confident. On the one hand, parents should give her more time to accompany and give her enough sense of security. I don't advocate going out to class to study. It is better for the daughter and son-in-law to teach her by themselves. The reason is that going out to study is expensive and the road is tossing. Parents can teach and spend more time with their parents.

The daughter said that it is ok for us to teach ourselves, but we need a fixed time, a fixed place and a fixed process to form a habit, instead of casually fishing for three days and drying the net for two days. In other words, there must be a complete solidification period, and it is stipulated that the thunder cannot move after dinner or half an hour before dinner every day. I also want to use her Barbie doll or puppet as a classmate and have classes together.

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My daughter initially drafted a teaching plan in the WeChat message and also made a division of labor. She asked her grandparents to teach her to know Chinese characters, practice calligraphy and learn oral composition from Monday to Thursday, and her parents taught simple math and simple English on weekends. Wow, boy, you're going to burden me again. I wear several hats. Can I handle it?

The set of Oxford children's English that my son-in-law bought for Nannan finally came in handy. Teaching will start this weekend, and we will wait and see whether preschool education for families is feasible.