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Shanshan: Why can some people get what they want and others can't?
Continuous observation day 18

The Secret of rhonda byrne is a world-famous inspirational book, which tells how 55 top talents in the United States use the law of attraction to succeed.

The law of attraction holds that a person's success is related to his mentality. When we really want to achieve a certain goal, the whole universe will open the way for us!

Therefore, it can be seen that everyone can achieve what they want, but not everyone can. Why?

There is a big gap between what we want and what we get. What caused this distance?

This distance is caused by our negative belief system.

A friend of mine often says that she envies me for traveling outside often, but I can't have family and children. The belief system that prevents her from traveling is: I have a family and children, and I can't go out if I want to play.

Is that really the case?

I met many female friends while traveling, including the mother of a 6-year-old child. Before marriage, she was a senior white-collar worker. After getting married and getting pregnant, she listened to her husband and resigned at home. She stayed for six years.

I thought a responsible husband and housewife would have a good life. As a result, she found that this was not the life she really wanted.

Their marriage was in crisis when their child was 6 years old. It happened that a friend invited her to travel for a few days. At first she was not at ease, because the child had never left her for so many years.

She thought her husband would hate her, but when she was having fun outside, she found that her husband didn't call her as expected and take good care of the children.

When she got home, she found that her husband was much gentler than usual and her children were healthy.

During these days when she was away from home, her husband finally realized the hard work of taking care of the baby and understood her difficulties. When she was traveling outside, she finally found the feeling of being herself. Only by being yourself can you be happy, and your happiness will make others love you more.

Therefore, many things you can't do are because many negative voices in your heart prevent it from being realized. Because you constantly have to set limits for yourself and always emphasize the reasons why you can't achieve it, and those are the obstacles that prevent your dream from becoming a reality.

I am 37 years old, but my skin is getting better and better, and I look younger and younger. I'm also slimming recently. I plan to lose 10 kg a month, and I have lost 6.4 kg in the past half month.

Someone told me that when I get older, my metabolism will slow down and I won't lose weight as fast as a little girl. I don't believe this statement. In my mind, the older I am, the younger I am, the more beautiful I am and the more attractive I am.

To close the distance between dreams and reality, we need to believe completely, believe completely that there is no doubt, and be happy and grateful.

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