1. Rejecting question-and-answer chat is a common problem for many people to chat with girls on WeChat. Most people like the chat mode of "you ask me and answer me", and some even like to ask questions like household registration survey. Girls hate this chat mode, so you must get rid of it, talk about some interesting topics and guide her to participate. 2, * * * * just started talking about the same topic, and talking about food can quickly warm up. Or join the food topic when the two sides are chatting happily, and it is easy to find the same topic and narrow the distance. Of course, the topic is not limited to food, and we can also start with constellations, movies, dramas, sports and so on. For example, the topic of food can be extended to the topic of figure and fitness. Here, you can remember a key word "slimming" to instantly mobilize girls' emotions. Talking about her is not a problem. The hot pot in XX is not bad "is also a common prologue, and it is also a topic of * * *. After all, "hot pot" is always a "paradise" food topic that most girls are interested in. If you want to catch his heart, grab his stomach first. This sentence applies to most girls. If you can cook, you can also use this topic, and even invite girls to taste your cooking to make excuses for the next meeting. 3. Create a chat atmosphere. Most women are emotional animals. When chatting with women, don't always talk a lot of big words, which will only make women tired of you. When chatting with women, we should guide women to say a lot about themselves. Don't just talk to women. 4. Find a topic to talk about in an indifferent manner. When you have a strong sense of demand for something, it will make you lose your mind and fight for it with the mentality of "you must get this thing". On the contrary, it will make you be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, leading to peacetime. When you are with your favorite sister, you will go crazy. If you chat with the mentality of "it doesn't matter if you can't handle her, just be happy", it will make you more natural! How to find a topic when chatting with girls 2. How to find a topic when chatting with girlfriends? The biggest headache for straight men now is how to chat with girls they like online, and there is no topic for frequent chatting. It's basically something like "Have you eaten?" "What did you eat?" "What are you doing? "Oh. I believe that no girl will want to have the idea of continuing to develop with such a chatting boy, because it is really boring. Why do girls like love rat? Because love rat knows how to express herself and the needs of girls. Here, Bian Xiao summed up three directions, hoping to help you who can't chat with girls. Get to know the real her first, and don't rush to say that you like her. You may have only seen her once or twice, but you haven't kept in touch often. Maybe you added WeChat but didn't talk to her. Your affection only comes from the perfect appearance she presents to you. Just say that you like her, and she will only think that you are sloppy because you don't know her. To understand her, she doesn't have to express her demands. Girls all have one thing in common, that is, "I hope you can understand without saying anything." "There are two things that girls want to like a boy, either love at first sight or long-term love, saving face and loving heart. Pay attention to all her social platforms as much as possible, such as WeChat, Tik Tok, Weibo, etc., and learn about her preferences and her status, because this will help you chat. If you know someone, you can ask about the places she usually likes to go, and then you can go to "meet" after asking. If she sends a picture of the scenery, you can ask where she is. I feel so beautiful and want to go. If the chat is relaxed and pleasant, you can say that you really want to go, but being alone is too boring. Ask her if she has time. You can go together. Don't start a chat with the first sentence "What are you doing?". "Just cut to the chase and ask questions, create topics and talk about things she likes, but don't worry too much, talk step by step. From the beginning, the endless chat was basically over. Don't always put pressure on girls around ambiguous topics and try to relax, but don't always ask "Did you eat in the morning?" "Did you eat at noon?" "Did you eat in the evening? "Remember not to let girls feel that you have nothing to say, so that girls will have resistance to you and will have an impact on future contact. Girls are sensitive, and you can feel your love for her. To sum up, it is to understand her life dynamics, discuss her favorite topics, have a relaxed chat atmosphere, and persist. Pay attention, don't always care through the screen. When there is a problem in love, the difference between boys and girls is that boys want to solve the problem at the first time, while girls care more about boys' attitude in this process. This is also the root cause of the contradiction between men and women. A topic that has been circulating on the Internet for a long time, "Mr. Zuo and Mr. You", goes like this: When you work overtime, Mr. Zuo will say, "Dear, you have worked hard, so remember to eat no matter how busy you are. Mr. You said: I ordered takeout for you, remember to eat; On a business trip, Teacher Zuo said: Go out alone and take care of yourself. Mr. You said: I have written down the flight number and hotel address. Remember to write down the license plate number for me before taking a taxi. Caught a cold Mr. Zuo: Drink more hot water. Mr. You said, I bought medicine and ginger. Don't take medicine until it is too serious. The netizen summed up a sentence: "You can fall in love with Mr. Zuo, but please marry Mr. Right. "When all the concerns are implemented, girls will naturally be moved. Please don't call me straight. I didn't think so much. If you like someone, you are not worth changing, which means you don't like her enough. Although girls like to listen to sweet words, what they want most is the care of putting them into action. To show masculinity and care about girls by taking advantage of their own advantages, you don't have to know her favorite scarlet size, what color clothes to wear to look good, etc., because when a girl thinks that if you know these things in particular, it means that you have contacted many girls, which will reduce your goodwill. In fact, although straight men can't sweet talk, most girls think such boys are boring, but they are very manly. What they say can't be turned, and they won't promise things easily. They promised to do it. Such boys are very attractive in the eyes of some girls. When girls think that you know her well, feel safe and responsible with you, I believe girls will be moved. How to chat with girls to find a topic 3 How to chat with girls to find the right topic. Here are six ways to find a problem 0 1 First of all, you should know the characteristics of the girl you like, such as what movies she likes to watch. Then you can find out more movies of this type and watch more, enrich your knowledge from what she likes, and then you can talk to her endlessly. 02. Ask the girl about her friends. For example, she always wants to travel somewhere, so she can collect some information about this place for her to participate in the discussion. 03, learn to praise, chat with girls must praise each other in the topic, such as clothes, eyes, cheeks and so on. It can be the object of praise, but you must pay attention to the change of the other person's expression. If the other person is not interested at all, don't continue. 04. Too many people live a real life, but they are not happy. When it comes to childhood and college, we will always miss it. When it comes to dreams, we will be very passionate. Share more previous stories and future plans. 05. Girls like shopping and fashion topics. Usually read more fashion magazines to find topics. 06. Learn to listen when a girl wants to talk. Don't interrupt her topic in a hurry. Pay attention to what the other person is interested in, which can be derived from those topics.