1. Do housework together regardless of each other.

Husband and wife's attitude towards housework is the temperature of marriage. The biggest sadness in feelings is to take personal contribution to family for granted. Love is a verb, the action of love is in front, and the feeling of love is behind, so you have to love each other before you can feel love for each other.

2. Occasionally show weakness and leave it to the other party to perform.

The essence of weakness is actually an advanced "emotional value", which can make the other party feel "needed and appreciated".

Small things are given to lovers, and marriage is gentler.

Love is a need, and occasional weakness is the most direct expression of the other person's needs.

Hug each other every day

Pam Spall said, "Hugs and kisses before going to work in the morning make people remember the whole day." Hugs can enhance relationships. Studies show that hugs are more important than sex between partners.

4. Continue to share.

The happiness of life is not to have nothing to say, but to want to experience it with your lover every time you feel moved.

When I go out in the morning, I see green trees and red flowers. I took photos of them casually and sent them to my partner's workshop for a cup of milk tea. When I was happy, I chatted with my partner about surfing the Internet and saw a very funny joke. I sent it to my other half, smiling and happy. Contact at any time, and love will grow stronger and stronger.

5. Don't dig up old scores

Some people say, "90% of breakups in the world can be redeemed."

Most irretrievable things are because they like to dig up old scores and endlessly salvage sunk costs.

If you can't let go of your obsession, you can't win happiness. If you can't let go of the past, you can't open the future.

Praise each other more

Many people will think that "the more I praise the other half, the more he floats." In fact, the truly advanced praise is not to praise him to the sky, but to take him home.

Remember this formula of praise: specific events+praise of advantages+your own feelings.

"Husband ~ The red number you gave me today is so beautiful. Your eyes are really good. I like it! I love you more today! "

7. Support hobbies and really encourage them

If I like sports, it will support me to have my own exercise time;

You like watching movies, I'll watch them with you.

I like traveling, and you will take time to go out with me to see the world.

You like delicious food. Although I am clamoring to lose weight, I will accompany you to find delicious food everywhere.

True love is not to prevent you from meeting a better self, but to move towards the same future together.

8. Be kind to parents and attach importance to family.

Don't let the old people on both sides intervene in small family matters, but they know how to care and filial their parents in life.

Take them to physical examination and travel regularly, go home more often when you have time, and accompany them to teach their children filial piety.

9. Talk before going to bed

How do you sleep with your lover after marriage?

Will you wait for him to fall asleep? Or back to back, sleeping together?

Or sleep in separate rooms?

Life is not a wedding smoke for two people. Don't live a lonely life. Snuggle up with your lover, and when you are going to sleep, talk about interesting things that happened during the day and discuss their troubles.

10. Daily smile

Laughing more will bring you good luck. If you keep a straight face, your weekly use is low pressure.

Wake up, wake each other up with the brightest smile and spend a wonderful day together. When you come back from work, smile at each other and eliminate the fatigue of the day.

1 1. Give life more freshness.

The secret of keeping love fresh is to add some freshness to the plain life. I was promoted and invited my lover to the cinema: I was praised and had a romantic candlelight dinner; Send a gift to your lover on the anniversary.

When you feel that the relationship between husband and wife is dull, you may wish to seize the node of life and add some freshness.

12. Think from the other side's standpoint

Feelings are mutual, warm your heart with your heart. When you get along, you can't be too dry. Consider everything from the other side's standpoint.

A beautiful wedding smoke begins with putting each other in your heart. Start by thinking from the other side's standpoint.

final result

Jiang Yang said:

"Life is half daily necessities and half stars and seas.

Put some salt in it. It's made. Put some essence in it. It's sweet. It's up to you to taste it. "

Marriage, not a ready-made thing in life, needs the joint investment of both husband and wife.

In deep words, the long road is slow: leave people to middle age, although youth has passed. But my heart is still warm, and I can still feel that happiness.

Manage carefully, adhere to these 12 small habits, and make the home a nest where you can laugh, cry and have a sense of belonging.