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If every relationship of a person is online dating, is this person mentally ill?
It's not the heart. Maybe it has something to do with your habits. Let's change it. There are many people around us who are online dating. At first, it felt good, even beautiful. However, disappointment is always the conclusion of online dating. Because it must be a rose blooming in the void. Modern life is intense, and many people feel bored, bored, stressed and even wronged in reality, dragging their tired bodies, but they can only find a kind of spiritual comfort on the Internet. Find a sheltered harbor, talk with a "he" or "she" on the Internet, gain understanding and comfort that can't be obtained in reality, and find a dream Eden and spiritual home for yourself. I hope that in the vast network, I hope to find the destined other half in my previous life. Online dating is born from this. Online dating exists in a semi-virtual world, and all the content can be completely fictional. The novel is illusory here. However, no one will play "pain and ugliness" for no reason, so there is a beautiful imagination and a beautiful lie. Online dating is naturally processed, and this beauty is full of mystery and temptation. Tap the keyboard with a delicate hand, and you can spend all your time online, making vows of eternal love ... Online love makes people feel hazy, provides an imaginary "space", and produces another kind of aesthetic feeling and unlimited free imagination. The midnight passion is more gorgeous and mysterious under the cover of night, and even the stars in the sky are hissed. Under the packaging of lies, an ugly smile can be loved like a beautiful white swan and fly freely in a space full of honey; Fifty-year-old "she" can become a girl with Chang 'e face and devil figure. Beggars can become millionaires or even emperors under the cover of night. As long as they have enough imagination, they can have three palaces and six courtyards ... Faced with such a confusing but enchanting virtual world, many people are reluctant to put Prince Charming and Snow White, true love and increasingly expensive ideas that they have not found in real life on the Internet, so the Internet has become an ideal kingdom that many people dream of. But once it comes to the real feelings in real life, that kind of beautiful fantasy is like a seven-color soap bubble, which is naturally shattered. What's more, they are extremely sincere about online dating, and it is this kind of sincerity that is pitifully rare in real life that hurts many people and rarely gets married. Online dating is a dream, an urban fairy tale. You can watch from a distance, enjoy it from a distance, and play with it, but once you are trapped, it will also lead to tragedy. What can't be located is that there is love in the network, but is this hell or heaven? Nobody knows. True love has no pattern. If love wants to be a positive result, it cannot be separated from sincerity and sincerity.