Many marriages always pay attention to the right match, thinking that only when family, education and talent match, the three views will be consistent and the innocence of marriage can be maintained in this impetuous society. But there are exceptions Some people insist that as long as the three views are integrated, nothing else matters. Li Kangyu, a rural guy in Hebei, is such a lucky guy. He never thought that he could meet such a wife who didn't abandon him and loved him deeply.
Being paralyzed in bed all the year round, he lost confidence in life.
Li Kangyu was born in a rural area in Tangshan, Hebei Province. When he was a child, he was very healthy. He often runs around the fields with older children in the village, climbing trees to dig nests, and going down to the river to touch small fish, just like a "Po Hou".
But it didn't last long. At the age of five, Li Kangyu, who came back from playing outside, suddenly had a high fever. At first, his parents didn't care. He found a barefoot doctor in the village to prescribe some medicine and let him lie down after eating. However, Li Kangyu did not get better after taking the medicine. He started talking nonsense at midnight, foaming at the mouth. His parents were in a hurry and rushed him to the hospital in the city. After the examination report came down, his parents were blindsided and Li Kangyu was infected.
The incidence of this disease is extremely small, and the medicine at that time was underdeveloped and could not be cured at all. In addition, Li Kangyu's condition is particularly poor, and he is in danger of death at any time. When his life was at stake, his parents had to sign the operation sheet in order to keep his son alive. The doctor performed a series of operations on him according to his condition. Although he managed to save his life, Li Kangyu said goodbye to the fields that let him run freely, to the mountains and rivers, and to the days when he was lying in bed staring at the ceiling all day.
The whole body is unconscious except for the eyes, mouth and fingers. At first, he didn't know his illness and often asked his parents when he would recover. Every time his parents answered quickly, then he silently turned his head to cry.
When she grew up, Li Kangyu understood the difference between herself and others. He is sad and helpless, and sometimes he thinks sadly that he is a cripple and has died long ago. But he can't move all over, and even asking for death is a luxury for him! With the death of his parents, he lost confidence in life and didn't say a word all day and all night.
Her sister was very anxious after seeing it, and always tried to find Li Kangyu the courage to live. One day, her sister brought back a computer and said to Li Kangyu, "Brother, look at this computer. With it, he can know the situation outside without going out. Let me teach you ... "
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Under the guidance of her sister, Li Kangyu learned to type online with three fingers that can only move. Sister also customized a computer desk for him, so that he can easily see the computer screen when lying in bed. At the same time, Li Kangyu also learned to chat with netizens with QQ. The colorful world outside gradually made him forget his situation, and many netizens encouraged him after knowing his deeds. His heart gradually brightened up and he smiled more and more.
He also wrote on his QQ signature: I have been paralyzed in bed for 28 years, but I will not succumb to the torture of fate! His strength and cheerfulness also touched a girl on the other side of the ocean.
This girl is Yan Shuying, a Chinese from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. After learning about Li Kangyu, she was particularly admired. She often gives him encouragement and language help silently. After a while, the two gradually became familiar with each other. Li Kangyu's humor also deeply infected Yan Shuying. Anything unpleasant, as long as you talk to Li Kangyu, he will solve it easily.
One day on 20 12, Li Kangyu suddenly wanted to have a video call with Yan Shuying. As soon as he turned on the screen, Li Kangyu actually wrote a big happy birthday and a bunch of lilies in front of him! When Li Kangyu's birthday song was sung slowly, Yan Shuying was moved beyond control. The boy has memorized all the words he accidentally said.
Gradually, Yan Shuying had a different feeling about the boy who was in a foreign country. Yan Shuying knows that Li Kangyu must also have love for herself. She has been waiting for Li Kangyu's confession, but after waiting for a long time, Li Kangyu has never acted. Yan Shuying couldn't help it any longer. She asked him directly on QQ: "Do you love me?" A minute passed, and Li Kangyu didn't respond for a long time. When Yan Shuying saw it, she actually went offline. This time, Yan Shuying was particularly unhappy. She decided to go to Tangshan to find it herself!
Rough road, harvest perfect love.
Yan Shuying wandered all the way and found Li Kangyu according to his previous address! However, to Yan Shuying's surprise, Li Kangyu's illness is far more serious than she thought, and she can only lie in bed every day. Li Kangyu's home is very humble. Although my sister usually takes care of me, my sister is just an ordinary migrant worker, so the economic situation is not optimistic.
As you can imagine, if you marry Li Kangyu, you not only have to support your family, but also take care of his food, clothing, housing and transportation. Not everyone can bear this hardship.
When Li Kangyu saw Yan Shuying, she couldn't believe that the girl would come all the way to find him. When Yan Shuying asked him why he ignored himself, Li Kangyu was silent for a long time and said, "I like you very much, but you came and saw my situation. I can't drag you down. " Yan Shuying was even more moved. She said, "Don't worry about anything else, as long as you love me. I am not afraid of anything. " Li Kangyu looked at Yan Shuying with affectionate eyes and cried for a long time. Yan Shuying settled Li Kangyu and immediately returned to Kuala Lumpur to prepare.
When Yan Shuying's parents knew that their daughter was going to marry a disabled person, they tried their best to stop it. They secretly hid all her passports and visas, but Yan Shuying threatened to die. In desperation, Yan Shuying's parents had to agree. When they followed Yan Shuying to Li Kangyu's house, they couldn't help crying and said to Li Kangyu, "We will give you our baby daughter, so you must be kind to her."
Li Kangyu rushed to nod. In 20 13, Yan Shuying and Li Kangyu got married, which caused a great sensation in the local area. How strange it is for a foreign girl to marry a boy who is paralyzed in bed! The media reported it, and more and more people got to know the couple.
After marriage, with the help of Yan Shuying, Li Kangyu became an inspirational speaker and established the Kangyu Foundation. In order to help more disabled people realize their dreams, they traveled through more than 40 provinces and cities together and shared their stories with many people. Everyone who knew them gave them a thumbs-up compliment. They also said that Yan Shuying made a good choice and Li Kangyu was a person worthy of being entrusted for life.
Three years later, Li Kangyu left. He walked peacefully and calmly. Although Yan Shuying has only been with him for three years, he has no regrets in his life! After Li Kangyu left, Yan Shuying did not return to China, but relayed Li Kangyu's career. She wants to carry forward Li Kangyu's strong spirit. People who have heard their stories are deeply moved. Yes, when a person with poor health works so hard, what reason do we have not to struggle!