When it comes to promising children, many people define them as those who are unsuccessful. We all believe that children who can tolerate beating and cursing will have stronger anti-frustration ability in the future. Some people say that children's behavior education can't lack beating and cursing, cultural education can't lack mathematics and physics, hobby education can't lack piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and moral education can't lack parents. In fact, if we carefully taste this sentence, it is wrong and true. Although the education of the older generation can be taken as a warning when children make big mistakes, it can be more standardized than modern happy education and doting education, but if baton education is carried out, children's mental health is often unhealthy, and defective bad psychology is not conducive to children's growth and development.

It stands to reason that strict control does not mean that he can control his own study. The child's study still depends on him. Uncle Li said that his son was sensible from an early age and had no big rebellious behavior. Every time he fails in the exam, he will be warned. In order not to be beaten, Uncle Li's son studies harder, which is the most important thing. Finally, through unremitting efforts, I was admitted to the 2 1 1 university that many people dreamed of.

Just as everyone lamented the success of Uncle Li's son's struggle, another version of the statement also confirmed the side effects of stick education. A young man in the same village said that when Uncle Li's son went to college, he was like a different person. Once, he changed his attitude of studying hard in the past. Sometimes he stayed up all night in the Internet cafe and studied at his desk the next day. Although he has no solid foundation, he can't resist decadence! This cycle, but I don't know my psychological defects. This reminds me of the tragic suicide of girls in Peking University. Boyfriend Mou's academic performance is almost perfect, but he lacks healthy support in psychological connotation and morality. People who lack healthy psychology tend to go to extremes. This kind of character will be difficult to cultivate for a long time to come. Unreasonable people will certainly be beaten more when they are young, but those who lose their moral connotation must be related to family education when they were young.

On the issue of educating children, beating and cursing can be moderate, but first of all, let children know where they are wrong and let them accept their parents' lessons in a responsible manner. If children don't understand their mistakes and why their parents beat and scold, then their growth must be gloomy and the world they see is unfair. Let children know where their mistakes are. Parents' lessons are equivalent to an anti-frustration education to avoid children getting into trouble. When they are scolded and criticized in the future, they will be unacceptable because of the collapse of their mentality.