There are more only children now. For example, although Jun Jun, a good friend, is married, she often goes back to her family after marriage. This is understandable, no problem. But once pregnant, I want to go back to my mother's house after confinement. When I told my mother, my mother was very happy and quickly agreed, and she would also help prepare things and clean up the house.
But as soon as the neighbors heard it, they began to interrupt, saying that the married daughter could not go back to her mother's house to have a confinement, which would bring bad luck to her family, and that her mother was too used to herself. Jun Jun is really angry, but he can't be angry because he is pregnant, or it will be bad for the baby. He is really wronged and sad.
There are many rumors among the people: "A married daughter will bring great bad luck to the family", "If a married woman is in labor, she will not give birth to her child at home under any circumstances" and so on. In fact, these rumors are all caused by the idea of son preference, and the purpose is to prevent a married daughter from giving birth in her home. In fact, confinement at home has many advantages, which can avoid some unnecessary troubles and make Ma Bao sit more comfortable and recover better after delivery.
Confinement is the most testing moment for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Usually, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't contact each other so frequently and don't live close. Going back regularly, I feel that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not bad, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is quite close. However, confinement is the same. When you are confinement, you can't look up and see, and all kinds of contradictions are on the verge.
Whether it is living habits or parenting concepts, it is easy to have differences, and it is also easy to lead to the deterioration of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law over time. Therefore, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, or if mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have never lived together before, you can ask for a new moon or let your mother sit on the moon to avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Or you can just sit in your mother's house and wait on your mother. If you have anything to say, you don't have to worry. Mother's cooking is more appetizing. Ma Bao is in a good mood and has plenty of milk. Postpartum recovery will be faster, and the most important thing is that you don't have too much contact with your mother-in-law.
Although the contact with her mother's family is not so frequent after marriage, it is the place where she grew up and is relatively familiar with it. After confinement in her familiar environment, Ma Bao was more relaxed. What did you say?/Sorry? Ma Bao, when you were confined, were you at your parents' house?