Others say that time can cure everything, but I have not been cured! This article is a copy of the circle of friends that I collected for readers to heal personality. You can refer to it
1, we urgently need to fill many seaports in the same time, such as seconds. When I was a child, the concept of hours hardly existed.
2, people's joys and sorrows, all because of financial gains and losses indulge in emotions. Although you are happy, you are not afraid of sadness. Let personality polish the edges and corners in the precipitation of years, let money go in and out naturally, and let love persist calmly in the vicissitudes of life. Stay calm and relaxed. It is also good to do these things.
3. Life is a journey, and life is the process of traveling. It's up to you to climb the mountain or wade by boat. Walking in the building of life, you don't have to bear too much, just listen to the wind, and you will walk more easily. Some gains may not last long; Some losses may not be lost. The important thing is: let the heart learn to dance in the sun; Let the soul learn to smile in pain.
4. One learns a song, one applies to school, one loves a course, and one loses weight desperately. When we are young, we can change ourselves for one person, and eventually we will understand that I have done a lot of things. At first I thought it was for you, but later I realized it was actually for myself.
5, let nature take its course, it's very painful now, and it's nothing when you look back later.
6. This heartless world is somewhat romantic because of its passionate idiots.
7. We should all be clear about three questions: first, what do you have, second, what do you want, and third, what can you give up. For most people, it is easy to evaluate their present situation. I know exactly what I want; The hardest thing is that you don't know and dare not give up anything-this can determine whether what you want can really be realized, and no one can get everything without giving up.
8. From experience, when people pursue something strongly, it will basically not come, but when you try to avoid it, it will naturally find its way.
9. People know each other too well to know where the knife wound is deepest.
10, sometimes, I may not even know that I am in love with someone, or I don't love this person anymore. Want to find the critical point that will make your's feelings change chemically?
1 1. When people get along with each other, silence is often louder, which can avoid making people around them feel ashamed. It takes more wisdom to keep your mouth shut than to shout with your mouth open.
12, there is no such thing in the world. I like something for a moment, and then I spend many years slowly interrogating myself why I like it.
13, everyone will be hurt a lot in the process of growing up, crying, feeling sad and suffering. After the pain, you know how to protect yourself, and then you are a brand-new self.
14, you won't talk to anyone again. Your tears are spent more on movies than on people who hurt you. You won't torture yourself by keeping anyone's chat records. You've been practicing smiling. It's not that you've become a person you hate, but that you've become comfortable with the world.
15, there are many people you think you can forget. Actually, no. They are always in a corner of your heart. Until the end of your life. In the end, you will miss the light in the dark in every corner, because they constitute your memories and feelings. But you can't hug them anymore. It was not until the end that I realized that the journey was a lost process that I never forgot.
16, life needs a quality, and that is calmness. The ups and downs of life, the center of gravity has never been stable, and even people are very nervous. A broad mind is a kindness to one's own destiny.
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18, the closest place to you, the farthest way, the simplest tone, requires the hardest practice. People have to wander outside, and finally they can go to the deepest inner hall.
19, the so-called growth is to achieve independent survival and complete the self-struggle of independent thinking ability. The so-called maturity is the cultivation of eliminating arrogance internally and prejudice externally.
20. When something good happens, don't be arrogant. If you are arrogant, there will be disaster behind your head. Don't be confused when encountering disasters, endure it, even if you bite your teeth, and you will come after enduring good things.
2 1, your life will not fail you. The wrong turn, tears and sweat make you unique.
22. Giving up is often a matter of an instant, that is, at a certain moment, you suddenly feel that it doesn't matter.
23. When you no longer care about success or failure and look at the road with a peaceful mind, the warm sunshine will enter your vicissitudes. When you don't care so much about form and appearance, your mind will be peaceful and your love and hate will be resolved one by one. When you no longer care about fame and fortune, you will begin to cherish life, and you can enjoy life and appreciate the purity and beauty of human nature.
24. When I reached the top of Mount Tai, I saw all IIJ's children. Then I watched the waves fly away and the blooming flowers withered, feeling that life was easy to get old and youth was easy to die. So remind yourself to cherish every minute of life, because youth only comes once.
25. The best love is that after being with the right person, even friends around you think you are cuter, instead of living in the fear that the other person cares about you every day. That's not love, it's just that you lost your best self. You don't have to be what the other person wants to be to please you. No matter who you meet, he loves you.
26. It is better to manage your own dignity and beauty than to manage the betrayal and badness of others.
27. In the season of Xia Na, my sadness is embroidered in the rain flowers, my sadness sings in the wind of trees, my loneliness is reflected in the brocade under the starry sky, and my sadness is scattered in the long night. No one understands me and I don't expect anyone to understand me. It turns out that a person's world is just one person. There are many people, and that world doesn't belong to you; If there are fewer people, you don't belong to that world.
28. Who did I meet again? A warm greeting, a quiet smile, smoke from a distant hillside, irresistible temperature, songs in a basket, deep affection on a sickle, and a pile of game barbecued on a fire dispelled all the heartbreaks accumulated in my heart.
29. After owning it, it is easy to be condescending. Once owned, it is often not used to cherish, but to be critical; Not caring, but demanding. Possession has become a beautiful weapon, cutting my heart. People's disappointment lies in not getting it, and the deeper disappointment lies in getting it.
30. In the face of many helplessness in life, if you can't change it, then change your mentality. Happiness can't depend on others, you can only find it yourself. You must learn to train yourself. Even when you are disappointed and discouraged, you can still build hope and confidence and make yourself happy. Get rid of things that disturb your happiness, don't care, don't worry about tomorrow, purify your soul with a busy life, find happiness in life and pursue more.
3 1, many doomed encounters, on a sad day, become the last scene of sadness, like smoke, like a dream. No matter how my thoughts are rendered, I dare not remember the pain in the fleeting time, like a nostalgic treasure, which will eventually become heartbreaking and cool, and the river that swims with the passage of time will become loneliness and loneliness that can never be intertwined.
32. In the end, you can become the person you believe. Because the two most terrible words in the world, one is persistence, and the other is serious, serious people change themselves, and persistent people change their destiny.
There are many helpless arrangements and heartbreaking experiences in the world. Cry. Tears are always good. However, don't forget, don't forget to tell your sadness and disappointment in detail, and you will see how clear and beautiful fate God has given you.
34. I try my best to make excuses for myself, but it's always repeated. I was stupid enough to be an exception in your world, but now I understand that I just accidentally broke into your life. Why should I ask you to give me love? There is a breeze blowing in the air, but you are no longer my who. Memories are like a cold hedgehog, which breaks my heart.
35. Life is a series of happy moments, not just for survival. The heart is a steelyard, and what it weighs is its own words and deeds; After the pain, it will be strong; If you cross it, you will mature; If you are stupid, you will know how to cherish and give up at the right time. Some disappointments are inevitable, but most of them are because you overestimate yourself.
36. Your greetings are introduced into the mountain spring. Your smile makes me intoxicated in this life. A friend from afar asked me to say hello to you. What I once thought I was obsessed with was forgotten in the process of obsession. The pain of parting and disappointment has lost its voice.
37. In fact, people have to rely on excuses to survive. For example, they have been hurt before, so they no longer believe, and they have been disappointed before, so they no longer expect. The barriers of these excuses cover up the fragility and unbearable. People who say excuses may not be unaware that this is just a way to escape from life, but they still choose to make themselves feel better, just like losing a spell to life.
Bread Tree Whether in life, work, friendship or love, we should learn to accept the gap between expectation and reality. A complete disappointment with one person may cause us to lose interest in everyone. Until one day, we met another person, and we tried to put aside our prejudice, only to find that things were sometimes better than we expected. Of course, there will still be a gap between reality and expectation, so we have learned not to feel honored too early.
39. The real inner strength is to live in your own world, not in the eyes and mouths of others.
40. Put on warm makeup, meet the person you like and dream. Try to make every day happy and meaningful, not for others, but for yourself.
4 1, then there is nothing from there, and freedom is happiness.
42. Hold your head up and hold your chest high, and don't bend down to cross the street, because everyone else is watching you. Whether you are beautiful or not depends on how you show yourself. You will always be a landscape in the eyes of others. We can't let go of the past, but we can't see the future. Only by seeing through the future can we let go of the past, and tomorrow will never be lost to today. Restrain what you want and refuse what you don't want without hesitation.
43. For everyone, fate is like a straw thrown into the water, and often you can't choose. But the wisdom of survival is that you can exercise your willpower, become a wave maker with stunts and superb skills, have the ability to ride the wind and waves, bravely stand on the tide, and to a large extent, you can master the course by yourself.
A long time ago, there was no rouge, and the girl's face was only red for her lover.
45. If you think a woman depends on you, you think she can't live without you. In fact, leaving you is really a very painful thing. But pain doesn't mean you can't live without it. Once she makes up her mind. Pack up sweet memories and broken hearts. Set foot on the road to leave you, she won't look back. Years later, she may thank you for letting her down again and again and letting her leave you so decisively.
46. Our life is often half material and half spiritual; Half because of physiology and half because of psychology; Half devil, half angel; Half in reality, half in dreams; Half hope, half disappointment; Half success, half failure; Half on the ground and half in the sky; Half is to have, half is to pursue; Half in the back and half in the front. This half and that half are intertwined and inseparable. That half and this half are like husband and wife. You have me and I have you.
47. I learned not to rely too much on one person. Because of dependence, I look forward to it, and because of expectation, I am disappointed. When you are most pessimistic and disappointed, it is when you must summon up strong confidence. The world is fair. If you forget a memory, you will know how to cherish it. The deepest loneliness is not being alone for a long time, but having no expectation in my heart.
48. Grasp the moment and smile warmly. Since the sun also has black spots, life is inevitably flawed, and those who know how to forge perfection are wise. When life is smooth sailing, it is easy to smile, but those who can smile in adversity are truly optimistic. Many things are not as good or as bad as you think.
49. Giving up is also an option. Gain and loss, why bother; I am willing to give up, but I might as well not give up. Maybe the process of life is a process of giving up and getting back. Giving up is not cowardice, inferiority or self-abandonment, but a rational choice made after learning from painful experiences.
50. Melancholy is due to incompetence, annoyance is due to unsatisfied desires, and grumpiness is a sign of cowardice.
5 1, don't complain about life, because life is too long and needs an optimistic heart; Don't blame the past, because the past is confused and needs time to let go; Don't stare at the present, because it is too short, short-sighted people will only be trapped in their own world; Don't worry about the future, because truly optimistic people will be happy with life. They will sum up the past and plan the future while enjoying life.
52. If you can't give me the future, don't set a happy lie in front of me and separate the end of my memory.
53. Life is like this. In the same position, some people cry, some people laugh and some people are silent. There is a kind of strength that is fake, and behind the smile is a sour heart; There is a kind of turning around is forbearance. If you are heartbroken, you still miss the back that has gone away. There is a persistence that is brave, and no one wants to lose too much; Some things are inevitable, and we can only accept them calmly.
54. The future belongs to those who strive to realize their predictions.
55. It is said that everything follows fate, but people who can meet their hearts can't help but work harder.
56. Don't lose your smile even if you lose everything. Don't learn to complain and frown when you are unhappy, because you never know who will fall in love with your smile.
You don't have to fall in love with a beautiful person, but you can fall in love with someone who makes your life beautiful. In fact, the person who accompanied you to the end is not necessarily your favorite, but it must be the most suitable for you.
58. You can come to me slowly. It doesn't matter if I go the wrong way or take the wrong bus, because I will wait, but don't be too slow, because I'm afraid that in Me Before You, I won't take care of myself, I won't eat on time, I won't stay up late, I won't sew my buttons, I won't clean my bowl, I want to eat a lot with you and go to many places. So, you should take care of yourself and come to me before my illness gets worse.
59. In the world of adults, it seems that only when you earn enough money can you live a simple, comfortable and free life and make yourself more confident. So, work harder and be less melodramatic.
60. One day, there will be a person who will look at all the states you have written, all the Weibo you have written, all the photos you have taken since childhood, and even go to other places to find information about you, trying to listen to the songs you have heard, go to the places you have walked, read your favorite books and taste the delicious food you have been crying for, just to make up for your youth-ta was late.
6 1, love first means dedication, which means giving your inner strength to the person you love and creating happiness for the person you love. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
62. This is an imperial edict and a prophecy, because in this long speech, there is such a sentence: I speak righteously, go forward bravely, and whoever jumps over the beam will be killed!
63. People who are really nice to you know your difficulties and your shortcomings. Because they care about you and don't need you to pretend. People who really want to harm you, enjoy your benefits and take advantage of your strengths. Because they fool you, they are always performing grandiosity with you.
64, a period of right and wrong, nothing more than goodbye, a persistent, nothing more than indifference, just the fall of life, just vicissitudes, the origin of fate. There is no reason, no fate, just turn around and say thank you for a lifetime, say good night, be willing in this life, and forgive in this life.
65. People who know what to do, people who don't know what to do, and people who don't know what others do. Malicious is a realm, a rule. If you want to stand firm, you must learn to be cruel, do good deeds, do immoral things and be a conscientious person.
66, fate, erased, or a true feeling, pay, or a sincere, just lonely, just a mistake in life, just a missed person, erased only loss.
67. Marriage and love are an investment. Only when you are in love can you have capital investment, but do you have to make money if you have money to open a shop? Therefore, marriage and love, more importantly, management.
68, low-key, low-key learning and understanding. It is precisely because high-profile people should belong to people who need high visibility that most of them do not belong to this category.
69. "Living in the present" means "enjoying happiness when it comes, and facing pain when it comes". In darkness and light, you don't avoid or escape, and face life with a calm and natural attitude. People who live a confused life are the easiest to satisfy, so they are also the happiest people; People who live a simple life are also the easiest to satisfy, so they are also the happiest people. The so-called "stupid people are close to happiness, and smart people are far from happiness."
70. If the ending is not what you want, work hard before the dust settles. Natsume friend account
7 1, people should control their desires and not be controlled by desires. It is human instinct to pursue comfort and enjoyment, but we should also be temperate. The reason why we live tired is often because we mistake our desires for our needs, making ourselves exhausted and getting deeper and deeper.
In this short life, if you want to live a relaxed life, you should "remember what you should remember and forget what you should forget." Change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed. " Strive hard when you have the opportunity, and rest when you don't have the opportunity. Only in this way can we live a brand-new self with personality! This short life, don't be too demanding, don't have too many extravagant hopes. Money, power and reputation are not the most important things. The most important thing is to be kind to yourself. Even if you own the whole world, it will disappear with your death.
73. In the later life, you can't do such stupid things as those who are blessed don't know how to be blessed. Even if happiness only shows a small tail, we should try our best to grasp it firmly.
74. The most beautiful scenery is you with a gentle smile.
75. I always believe that the little kind things I have done in my daily life will accumulate bit by bit, and then give me a big gentleness when I am uncertain.
76. No one in this world is born successful. I am very lucky, and my friend is also very lucky, but I believe that only if you give the other person positive energy can he repay your luck. A person who can make everyone better today will not be worse tomorrow. Because the real generosity to the future is to dedicate the most outstanding efforts to the present and cherish everything in the present. The future will be infinite ~
77. Everything in the world is trying to keep itself from being destroyed.
78. Remember, don't expose your inner vulnerability easily, and learn to bear what you should bear; Don't talk about the mess of life easily, learn to face the chaotic reality; Don't waste every day easily, because this is the first day of the rest of your life; Don't give in to the world easily, it makes you cry, but you should make yourself laugh in persistence. As long as we can bear, not escape, cherish and have a strong heart, life will not be too pale.
79. There is still a long way to go. You have to walk alone. You're on your own.
I still want to do my best.
8 1, the years are quiet and the time is light. Kiss me. Once, I hid my deep love for you in my heart. Even if there is too much tolerance, how can I be willing to let you suffer any harm and injustice? Sometimes, I hope you can read a little, but I'm afraid you can see through it.
82. While eating delicious food, I called to apologize and forgave him instantly, for the sake of delicious food and love.
83. It has become a habit to miss life without you.
84. What taught me to be gentle and steady is to respect people who care about me. Those who have hurt me just let me know that the world is flawed.
85. I know you like me, June+March, 32nd, Sunday, 25: 00, 6 1, 6 1 sec. I always believed.
86. I have kept your black and white photos, which have been fixed in my heart for a long time. What I lack is not only color, but also love. Can you give it back to me in the next life?
87. Those who achieve great things are good at thinking and diligent in doing things, so they often make great things. Be a rich and diligent person, and move forward all the way.
88. What is there to be afraid of? When we came into this world, we didn't intend to go back alive.
89. You know how strong you can be when being strong is your only choice.
90. We met after such a detour. I know your importance better than anyone. After a long silence, I decided, I decided, and I won't let go if I hold your hand. We met after such a detour, and I promised myself that I would not make much ado about nothing. Because I know what I want, as long as your shoulder is willing to let me lean on it.
9 1, less overtime, more exercise, good health and good spirit can be efficient.
Loving you means that when I can't see you, I have a lot to say to you. When you are around, you will feel quietly close to you, even if you don't talk.
93. Don't take the possible problems in things very negatively. You know, society is progressing and everything is changing. It is completely normal for problems to occur. Don't label it "negative" from the beginning.
94. When faced with important work, my first reaction is often to clear the table, organize information or sharpen a pencil.
95. All the moments in life are not wasted. As long as you pass by, you will leave traces and become mature.
96. Happiness really has nothing to do with love. -"The other side of the cloud, the agreed place"
97. Mistakes and setbacks have taught us, made us smarter and made our situation better. If you make a mistake, you need to correct it. The sooner you correct it, the more thorough it is, the better.
Because of you, I am happy every day.
99. You ran to your blue sea and blue sky, and I stayed where I stood on the cone. You didn't hesitate, but I made a decisive decision. I don't want to stay, and you're not going back. Before you officially started to travel around the world, I was just on a whim. You are just one of the tens of millions of bricks I threw out to draw out the jade.
100, the breeze said to the bright moon, we said to each other, every word is well-intentioned.