1, to help children correct their attitudes.
Parents must help their children to improve their sense of responsibility for homework, and let them understand that it is his duty as a student to finish homework on time with good quality and quantity every day, just as mom and dad have to do their work wholeheartedly every day at work, and there is no room for bargaining; Parents must also help children to improve their understanding of the importance of homework, so that children can understand that doing homework is an indispensable part of mastering knowledge, a continuation and expansion of learning, an indispensable and important means of consolidating knowledge and improving academic performance, and is not dispensable.
2. Try to improve children's interest.
Interest is an important factor that affects people's actions. It can make people like doing an activity. However, some children have low interest in learning and poor self-awareness, and they have to deal with teachers and parents every day. They can put it off if they can, and try to avoid it if they can't. For this kind of children's homework problems, parents should start with cultivating and improving their interest in learning, and find ways to change the state that children are forced to learn by adults, so that children can become active learners of "I love learning" and "I want to learn".
3. Do your homework wholeheartedly
Some children don't concentrate on their homework and have too many "additional actions". Sometimes they will look around and touch this and that, while others like to get together and chat while doing their homework, or like to listen to music and watch TV while eating snacks while doing their homework. Of course, such half-heartedness can't guarantee the quality and efficiency of homework. Therefore, parents should ask their children to concentrate when doing homework, not to do things unrelated to homework, not to put distractions on the desk, and not to disturb their children when they are doing homework: "Did you do well in school today? Did you get the teacher's praise? " "Are you hungry? Do you want to eat snacks? " "How many courses did you take?" How much more? "
4. Arrange reasonable operation
Parents should teach and urge their children to arrange and handle their daily homework reasonably. For example, they should pay close attention to school homework and don't put everything they can do at home. Don't play enough after school, and don't do your homework until your energy consumption is almost the same; Prepare learning tools (tapes, markers, blank paper, books, etc.). ) Before doing your homework in advance, don't wait until you use it to find it temporarily; When you do your homework, you should read the topic clearly and carefully before you start writing. Don't do it until you find that the topic is wrong or you don't do it according to the requirements of the topic. When you encounter problems that you can't do in your homework, you can bypass them first and do other problems that you can do first. Don't stop there and waste unnecessary time.
5. Pay attention to the combination of work and rest
Children should use their brains when doing their homework. If children think for a long time without rest, their brains will be tired and slow. At this time, children's learning efficiency will be reduced and the error rate will increase. At this time, if children are given proper rest, the learning efficiency will be improved after fatigue is relieved. Generally speaking, primary school students should not do homework for more than half an hour to 1 hour.
6, strengthen the ability training
Doing homework well and quickly also requires some basic abilities, such as the flexibility of small hand muscles and the coordination of hands and eyes. Some children are "slow" in their homework because of their lack of coordination ability, and they often look up and down when doing homework, which reduces the efficiency and accuracy of reading and writing. For this kind of children, parents should first strengthen the training of their visual perception ability and action coordination ability, and let them do more extracurricular activities such as basketball shooting, table tennis, paper cutting, maze walking, skipping rope and skating.
7. Review before doing your homework
The purpose of homework is to make students understand and remember the new words, grammar, definitions, theorems and formulas they have learned correctly, so as to consolidate their knowledge better. The quality of children's homework is based on the mastery of the knowledge imparted by the teacher in class. If the classroom knowledge is not mastered, the content learned is not digested and understood, and the homework will naturally not be done well. Therefore, in order to successfully complete homework, children can be asked to read books and reference materials before doing it, and then start writing homework after reviewing it, instead of writing it at home to save trouble.
The second part: the experience of educating children.
(1) Parents should set an example for their children, schools should actively guide them, and both sides should work together.
We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are the best role models for children. Only when they do it themselves will the children follow suit. If you just preach and teach, but you can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and the education in it won't work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.
My son's mother is currently a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of and a kind of motivation. Although he didn't know how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example, which made him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true. The child is already in the first grade. Although the mother is not around, under the inculcation of the father and the school teacher, the child has not only made progress in his studies, but also made gratifying progress in other aspects, becoming a sensible and good child.
(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.
My colleague told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year, in the college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.
Cultivate children's interest, interest is the best teacher.
When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that it was ok to play and play new tricks, such as making slides. When you show them to other children, you will have a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English now. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested and says to his mother, "There is a classmate in our class who speaks English very well. I want to be like him." I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I know my son's Chinese is not very good, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.
Punish children appropriately, actively guide them and be their good friends.
I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. When we learned about it, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son and pointed out that it was wrong for him to hit me. The son also admitted his mistake. Now my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is quite fun.
The third part: the experience of educating children.
Being a good child's first teacher is something that every parent has to experience. From the moment the child landed, we were duty-bound to take up the responsibility of raising and educating him. As a mother of two children, I may have more experience in educating children. Here, I want to discuss with you about children's education. First, I want to share with you my good experience in educating children, and second, I want to learn from your experience in educating children better.
First of all, I want to emphasize that since we are the parents of our children, we should not let our parents help us educate the next generation. Because there is a generation gap between our parents and our children, their educational methods and ideas are out of date in today's era. If we want our children to become talents in the 2 1 century, we need to do it ourselves. Although there is a generation gap between us and our children, they are still more receptive to our ideas than their grandparents. Nowadays, many parents neglect to go out to educate and train our next generation for various reasons.
I am a "professional" mother myself. Since I had children, I gave up my job and concentrated on taking care of them at home. While raising him, I didn't forget to educate him well and lay a good foundation for him. When he just learned to walk and couldn't talk, I told him that mom cleaned the house very clean, so you shouldn't put toys casually, which would make the originally clean room look dirty and messy. Although the child can't speak, I believe he can understand what I'm saying and see what I'm doing. Whenever he leaves toys everywhere, I will pick them up behind him and put them back in his toy box. As time went on, he understood that his toys should not be placed on the ground or anywhere else. When he doesn't play, the toys must be put back in the box. From then on, every time he played with toys, he would take one or two out of the box and put them back in the box when he didn't want to play. Although this is a small move, it has made my children form the habit of loving cleanliness. And talking to adults. I told him that I must say "you" when talking to someone older than myself. You, me, him, can only be called by people of their own age or younger than themselves. You must call your grandparents when you see the old man. When you meet people the same age as your parents, you are called uncles and aunts, and when you meet people the same age as your brother, you are called brothers or sisters. This is what a good boy should do. Under my education, my children not only won the praise of neighbors, but also won the praise of school teachers.
My children are more active in their studies. The first thing you should do when you go home is to wash your hands, and then do your homework. No matter how much homework he has, he will finish it carefully before dinner. From grade one to grade four, he didn't form the habit of checking his homework. In the fifth grade, he volunteered to check his homework because he knew it would be bad for him not to check it. I'm not too worried about my children's study. It is wise to let nature take its course. For example, he didn't do well in the exam and his grades were not satisfactory. I didn't scold him, but I wasn't indifferent. My children will feel my loss and expectation silently, and they will be more considerate that I am saving his face. At this time, he will make up his mind to surprise me in the next exam and give himself an explanation.
In fact, our children are all "prodigies" in the 2 1 century. They may be much better than other children in some aspects, which requires us as parents to observe and discover more. Personally, I don't agree to generalize. For example, I heard an expert say that children should praise more and criticize less. I think every child has his own personality. If we blindly respect the advice of experts and only say yes to children, it may be helpful to some children, but more children are good or bad. When we find that the child is wrong, our scolding may make the child unacceptable, so there will be vicious incidents such as running away from home and jumping off a building to commit suicide. Of course, we can't always find fault with children, so children won't have a good result. The most important thing is that we, as parents, should communicate with our children attentively, get close to them, discover their advantages in time, correct their mistakes in time and help them deal with difficult problems in time. We can't always put ourselves in the position of parents and ignore children's self-esteem, nor should we always put children's dignity first and forget our responsibilities as parents. We should seize opportunities for our children, constantly change and integrate the ideas of many experts. When it is time to respect children, we must give up our dignity, when we should remind them, we should hit the nail on the head, and when we should encourage them, we should not be stingy. When it is time for them to forgive, we must show 100% sincerity to let them know that we are wrong, and hope they can forgive us. Seeing that children don't need any conditions and reasons, they forgive us. At this time, do we feel guilty in our parents' hearts? Why have we been holding on to our children's braids for a long time and refused to let go?
Chapter four: Experience in educating children.
Children are the treasure in every parent's heart, and we all expect them to grow up healthily. Besides teachers, parents also play an important role in the process of educating children. Family education is as important as school education.
My daughter is six and a half years old and has just entered the first grade of primary school. In the process of educating children to grow up, my deepest experience is:
A warm and harmonious family environment is the source of children's healthy growth.
Home is the main activity place for children, and the quality of family atmosphere directly affects children's physical and mental health. Parents must not always quarrel with their tongues in front of their children, which will make them feel fear, inferiority or even disgust. Not only will it alienate the feelings between children and parents, but it may also lead to extreme behavior among peers. Giving children a safe, comfortable and warm home is the first step to teach them. Family members should love each other and live in harmony. In this regard, we use practical actions to let our daughter feel the warmth of the family.
Second, it is very important to cultivate children's good moral character step by step.
My daughter started kindergarten at the age of 3 and entered the formal education system. We should lay a good foundation for her to take the first step in life, and cultivate her some good moral character in the dribs and drabs of life, so as to get rid of the common problem of "self-centeredness" of contemporary only children. For example, tell her the story of "Kong Rong let pears" and put it into practice to let her know the truth of respecting the old and loving the young; Tell her that it is very happy to help others and let her know that she should help others; When playing with friends, give and take and so on. In my spare time, I often play games with my daughter. I said the last sentence: "My sister fell." The daughter added, "I'll help her up right away." ..... enjoy it.
Third, let children "do it themselves" and cultivate their hands-on ability and self-care ability.
The importance adults attach to children's education directly affects whether children will develop good behavior habits. Whether adults attach importance to it or not, and whether the educational methods are correct or not, the first is the concept. Some parents want their children to succeed. They are under increasing pressure in their studies and take more care of their lives, but they leave their children's good behavior habits behind and let themselves go. I think it is especially important for children to have a good habit of loving their work. Let children participate in the labor within their power, which can not only cultivate children's working habits and hard-working morality, but also cultivate children's good qualities and abilities such as independence, responsibility, self-confidence and willpower. Therefore, when my daughter was very young, I began to ask her to do some housework as much as I could. Such as: packaging toys, dressing, washing handkerchiefs, washing socks, making beds, etc. Of course, children often can't do their jobs well, so we can't judge them by the standards of adults. As long as the child has made efforts, parents should fully affirm it. This is a challenge for them, and it requires children to make great efforts.
Fourth, let children have less stress and more relaxation.
After studying, we should pay attention to let the children relax properly, take half an hour to walk and jog every night, use this time to understand the children's spiritual needs, and often have heart-to-heart talks with the children, observe the children's physical and mental changes at any time, be good at using the little things in life, open their hearts, learn to look at the children with appreciation, and be good at capturing the bright spots in her body. Don't compare your own children with other people's children, but compare their present and past, look at their progress vertically, and find and discover them in time.
Children's hearts are sensitive. What kind of seeds are sown, what kind of flowers and fruits will be harvested. Therefore, I sincerely hope that my parents will sow the seeds of beauty, kindness and friendliness. Let the beautiful, kind and friendly bloom fill the hearts of children. Don't let the "ambitious" psychology become the pressure of children, let nature take its course and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, so that children can learn easily. Believe that gold always shines!
Chapter 5: Experience in educating children.
Dear teachers Liu and Yuan, parents and classmates, good afternoon!
First of all, I would like to thank Mr. Liu and Mr. Yuan for their careful care and careful teaching of the children. On behalf of all parents and classmates, please allow me to say sincerely: Thank you, teacher!
I'm Li Qinqin's mother. Today, several other parents and I were entrusted by Teacher Liu to talk about our experience in educating children. I think all the parents present here have their own very good educational methods. Every student in Class Two has his own strengths and is excellent. What I said is only a superficial understanding, hoping to play a role in attracting jade and bring out more scientific parenting methods and theories.
My wife and I have always believed that a healthy child is the basic condition for success. As soon as the child is born, we will instill good eating habits in her, so that the child can stay away from snacks and drinks, eat on time and eat more fruits and vegetables, and let the child know from an early age that eating is for health, not for fun and luxury. Reasonable nutritional structure is not only the material basis of physical development, but also the material basis of intellectual development. In addition to scientific diet, we should also take children to exercise more and guide them to learn to skip rope, play ball, ride a bike and dance. Especially in school, we should do radio exercises and eye exercises seriously, attach importance to physical education class, and repeatedly emphasize to children that physical education class is as important as Chinese and math classes.
In quality education, we teach our children to be polite, not to be more extravagant than ambitious, and not to be more spiritual than appearance. The education of children's moral and psychological quality is abstract. On the one hand, we set an example for children to live simply, treat others sincerely and work hard, telling them that gorgeous appearance can only win instant glory, and only noble character can exude eternal charm. On the other hand, it is for children.
Experience in educating children (2) Books on moral education include: diligent stories, patriotic filial piety stories, loyal stories, true stories for children to understand, three-character classics, five thousand years of China, small fables and great philosophies, small stories and great truths, and so on. We usually tell her some meaningful stories we saw on the Internet, in magazines or in our lives. Their Chinese textbooks are also well written, and the articles in them are very intriguing. Teachers have made profound explanations, which are also very helpful for children's growth.
In learning, we repeatedly emphasize to our children that we must listen carefully in class. The teacher's 40-minute professional explanation in class is more effective than our two-hour extracurricular tutoring. Go home and let the children do their homework consciously. We don't bother her with our homework, and we don't let her ask questions that she can't. Try to do it on your own. After finishing her homework, she is generally not given extra study tasks, so that she can move freely or read books. About half a month, let her do a set of Chinese and math papers, check her learning situation, and check for leaks in time.
In fact, learning not only refers to learning cultural knowledge, but also has a wide range of meanings, including learning to work, learning to be a man, learning to distinguish right from wrong, learning to protect yourself and so on. In short, the improvement of comprehensive quality is also a learning process. With high comprehensive quality, children will learn consciously and actively; Good academic performance will promote the improvement of comprehensive quality, and the two complement each other. Therefore, we will not let our children immerse themselves in books and mountains all day. We try to find time to play with her, chat with her, arrange a little housework for her, read books with her and so on.
Education is a university. As non-professionals, we are often at a loss and make mistakes in the process of educating our children. In order to avoid detours and let children grow up healthily, we have to keep learning. I often read books such as Harvard Girl Liu Yiting, Waiting for you at my Peking University, and Teaching Children Well. Watch TV programs on educational channels; Come to school and ask teachers and other parents for advice. Through learning, constantly adjust their own educational methods. I feel that I have received more education myself in the process of educating my children. I think this is what I call teaching and learning. Therefore, I also sincerely say to my daughter: Thank you, my child!
The process of children's growth has to go through many things, and the innate conditions and acquired environment are also very different. Therefore, what kind of talents children will become in the future is not determined by our subjective will. Our parents can only love their children wholeheartedly, educate them dutifully, do everything well and cherish every inch of time. The success of our parents and children is natural.
Finally, thank you, Mr. Liu, for giving me this opportunity to share with you the happiness of growing up with our daughter. I wish Mr. Liu a happy job and always be young! I wish all parents a successful career and a happy family! I wish the students happy every day and progress in their studies! Thank you!