1, playful
Some children don't want to go to school because they want to play. Playing is a child's nature. Nowadays, too many electronic devices, such as mobile phones, iPad and computers, are too tempting for children. The child thinks about going home to play games and watch videos all day, and his mind is completely absent from his studies.
Method: Distract the child's attention. When children play electronic devices, they should use an interactive way of entertaining and entertaining, so that children can learn some knowledge while playing. For example, chat with children, ask interesting things you saw at school today, or buy some interesting picture books for children to see, so that after-school life is also full of learning fun.
2. Being unsociable and bullied
Many children don't want to go to school because they don't get along well with their classmates and it is difficult to integrate. It may be because of his own personality problems that he is withdrawn, or his temper is isolated and rejected by his classmates, which eventually leads to his weariness of learning.
Methods: Observe the child's condition and whether there are any abnormal manifestations, such as Asperger's disease, autism and ADHD. Furthermore, communicate with children well, or communicate with teachers more, explain the recent situation of children, ask teachers how children are getting along at school, get along with other children, and do anything wrong, so that children can integrate into campus life as soon as possible.
3. Learning can't keep up
Most children don't want to go to school, probably because they don't study very well, their academic performance is poor, and they are under great pressure to study, fearing being criticized by their parents.
Methods: In this case, parents should not blindly blame their children and put too much pressure on them, but should help them solve their learning problems from the root. For example, we can see if children have problems such as inattention and hyperactivity, which leads to children's inability to sit still in class, low efficiency in class and difficulties in learning.
4. Not interested in learning
Children who are not interested in learning will naturally feel tired of learning.
Methods: Many children are not interested in learning because parents blindly instill the idea of studying hard, which leads to children's rejection. Interest is cultivated. Don't rush to instill the idea that you can't get into college if you don't study well, but take your children with you to discover the fun in the book. For example, colorful illustrations in the book can also attract children.
5. Too much homework
In order to pursue the enrollment rate, many schools often lengthen the study time, increase the number of exams and increase the amount of homework, which intensifies the polarization of students' academic performance, makes some students have new learning difficulties and leads to weariness.
Methods: There are as many homework, some children can finish it soon, and some children have to struggle until late at night. This is closely related to children's attention and learning efficiency. Parents can do some attention training to improve their children's attention, class attendance and learning efficiency!