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My husband doesn't like me very much these days. Actually, he loves money very much. Should I give my husband my private money?
What's bothering my husband?

First, annoy his wife and despise his boasting.

Men only pass cigarettes to each other when they meet, and of course there is tea, which doesn't cost much. This place is often unrestricted. When you sit on the ground, you start. When you meet someone who can blow, you can't stop, so the language is excessive and seeps. Of course, it is not useless for my husband to brag. At least bragging can enliven the atmosphere, laugh at yourself, ease the mood, and even be a healthy and open-minded humorous attitude. And bragging is neither illegal nor taxable. It seems that it is not a bad thing. In the face of her husband's bragging, it is also a kind of tolerance for her wife to laugh it off.

Remember my famous saying, sisters, "You are definitely not a man who can't brag, you are definitely not a good man who always brag, and you must be a little man who is addicted to bragging." Ha ha.

You should let your husband understand a truth, and let the boastful husband understand a fact in his heart: the world appreciates the spirit of hard work more and more, and you must not take bragging as the air to breathe. A down-to-earth man is a real man, even if he doesn't brag.

Second, bother his wife and force him to wash his face and feet.

Although the husband doesn't like his wife who doesn't care about hygiene and doesn't like dressing up, he just can't accept his wife to let him care about hygiene. In my husband's own words, "I want to have my own things in my life", because he feels that he has to bear many different responsibilities in his life and serve different people, as if he were living for others. In other words, everything he does is more important than washing his face and feet. To tell you the truth, I have the same problem.

Whether the wife believes this is the real reason or not, the husband's love for hygiene is acceptable, and there are gender differences. Therefore, surfing the Internet seems unnecessary, so why add unnecessary burden to yourself?

Third, annoying my wife is unprincipled and jealous.

As the saying goes, "If you don't have this stomach, don't drink that bowl of vinegar."

It can be seen that "jealousy" needs generosity, just like drinking. If you drink too much, you will lose your manners. It is better not to drink if you drink too little. Only when you drink properly can you show the charm of wine.

Although husbands themselves enjoy it, they can't compete with their other half after all. For "jealousy", women must grasp the "degree", not "jealousy" indefinitely, nor "jealousy" indiscriminately. Normal behavior should also be eaten as vinegar.

Jealousy, be sure to master the temperature, time and place. The right temperature, time and place will make your husband moved and happy, otherwise, it will deviate from your original intention and become endless quarrels and suspicions.

A woman had better know how jealous her husband is first. Only by mastering this can "vinegar" add points to their feelings.

Fourth, please ask your wife to check her mobile phone and take out her bag.

Call your husband at any time and place, ask him what he is doing, who he is having dinner with, assign him new family tasks, ask him to distrust him like his husband, and like to arrange everything for him, including work. These measures will put a lot of pressure on her husband, and at the same time, it will be very annoying and it is easy to make principled mistakes.

With regard to private money, contemporary husbands have the following enlightening remarks: in a modern marriage relationship with greatly improved economic structure, husbands need to invest money in personal interests, venture capital and social relations, which may not be welcomed by their wives, so in order to reduce friction, husbands will save some private money for later use; Secondly, most husbands save private money not because of infidelity, but to avoid family disputes caused by different financial concepts from their wives. Third, saving private money does not mean that the husband escapes the responsibility of maintaining the family economy. The expenses of supporting the family that should be managed by the wife will still be paid on time. Private money is just a little economic freedom beyond personal responsibility.

As long as the husband doesn't use private money to do things that are bad for his family and wife, the wife might as well let him go instead of being anxious. After all, checking the husband's private money is a rather unskilled thing.

5. annoy his wife to get his salary.

As soon as her husband pays his salary, his wife can't rest assured. She is afraid that her husband will do dishonest things with two dollars, so she must go to her husband's unit to take his salary in her own hands and then give her husband pocket money every week.

This not only makes it easy for my husband to form the habit of being a shopkeeper: I give you all my income, and you have to serve me comfortably; Take people's money to do things for others. And his colleagues will find the real ruler of their family, so be careful!

6. annoy his wife and let him do housework.

More and more people question the reason why most husbands don't like housework. However, it is true that most husbands don't like housework, whether it is caused by chromosomes, problems left over from history or the problem lies with their wives. They are especially dissatisfied with his wife's assignment to do housework.

Doing housework is no longer a wife's "patent" in today's society. If a wife wants to change the fact that her husband is tired of housework, she must try to induce him slowly. The method is suitable for everyone, but it must not be tough. In this regard, we will give advice to our sisters later.

Seven, annoying his wife, accusing and complaining.

"If you talk too much, you will lose." The wife said too much to her husband. He felt that even if he did a good job, his wife would not see his goodness, and would only criticize and complain about him endlessly, and his advantages and self-confidence would be obliterated.

Therefore, the husband will not listen to his wife's complaints quietly. They usually like to distract themselves to protest, or escape by entering the bathroom or study. I have done this kind of thing, so I know better.

Eight, annoying my wife to ask to accompany her shopping.

Men go shopping in order to buy. They call shopping shopping. Women go shopping for shopping. They call shopping shopping. Shopping with my wife, my husband's psychological fear:

1. The body is afraid of fatigue. The wife is more emotional thinking, generally ignoring the rational consideration of her husband's shopping route, purpose, price and timeliness.

2. Afraid of waste. Husband pays attention to practicality in the concept of consumption, while wife may care more about beauty and fashion, and sometimes she doesn't even wear it when she buys it, which makes her husband's wallet thin.

3. Fear of comparison. Shopping mall is a place where money buys naked symbols of taste, grade and status, which unconsciously puts her husband under heavy psychological pressure.

4. Fear of losing. It is good to be beautiful in the commercial street; It's a pity that there is cow dung around the beautiful woman, which makes her husband lament that the flowers are so good. Why? Why didn't I have ...

Nine, annoying my wife to take sex as an obligation

Marriage is not an "iron rice bowl", and sex is not an inevitable obligation between husband and wife. A wife regards sex as an obligation to her husband. Obviously, her sexual consciousness and consciousness are not enough. This is a whisper.

If the wife is physically apathetic, then the husband should try his best to get the first-hand information of his wife's apathy, treat his wife with sympathy and understanding, help her get rid of the shadow hanging over her heart, and make her feel happy living with her husband, so that she will gradually have sexual demands and desires. Sexologists believe that as long as it does not harm health, the interests of others and social morality, there is no forbidden area for sex.

Ten, annoying his wife to take sex as a bargaining chip

Some wives think that sex is her weapon to control her husband. In fact, sex is a wife's last resort, but also the most stupid means. Because once the couple's gender is related to the transaction, it is difficult to remain the same. For the husband, the "sex trade" in marriage can't really affect him, because he has too many channels to choose "sex trade". Sisters, don't make such mistakes. Be smart even if you do. Men are all riding donkeys.

Eleven, annoying his wife to embarrass him in public.

Men are respectable, especially those self-righteous big men. Sweeping his face is equivalent to killing him. To tell you the truth, I am also such a person.

Therefore, the husband's face can't be swept, just like the tiger's ass can't be touched. Husband's face depends on his wife, and naturally it depends on his wife to maintain it. A clever wife is willing to take pains to protect her husband's face. My wife is like this, but she will always settle accounts with me when she gets home, hehe.

Twelve, annoying his wife to put pressure on him

When a wife demands or remoulds her husband according to her own wishes, she often likes to supervise her husband in an aggressive and extreme way, which adds invisible mental pressure and ideological burden to her husband, but makes him feel at a loss and insecure.

We must know that "haste makes waste", and the project of transforming our husband can only rely on slow work and flexible and humanized methods.

Thirteen, annoying wife talkative.

I like to inquire about other people's privacy and things, like to treat other people's privacy as fun when I am bored, like to spread gossip in front of outsiders, gossip all day and create troubles to enrich my leisure. Women who think that they have more contact with their husbands are all foxes, and they are all attracted to their husbands' ideas. Although they don't regard her husband as a fantasy object or pursue any goals, she always gives them a bad face, speaks ill of them and slanders their reputation from time to time.

I believe that no girl admits that she is such a person.

Fourteen, annoying his wife to expose privacy

I haven't really thought about what my husband thinks. I always thought my husband was my own private property. He said there was nothing he could do. He doesn't speak in public, he doesn't talk about strategy, and he can say whatever he wants. I always thought that this would not destroy the iron wall of their love and affection.

Husbands usually contribute their positive, revolutionary, moral and heroic things to the society, and leave the relaxed, desirable and immoral things to the family. It is a big mistake for a wife to take the impression she has formed of her husband at home as a universally applicable criterion.

15. annoy his wife and interfere in his work

It seems that her husband's career adviser complains too much about her husband's work, contacts her husband's colleagues too frequently, intends to flatter her husband's leadership and likes to show off in her husband's activities. This kind of wife who likes to interfere with her husband's work for no reason often only destroys his hope of success, although that is not her intention.

Sixteen, annoying his wife to show off outside

I'm afraid others won't know that she has a glib tongue and great powers. I'm afraid others don't know. She is the most knowledgeable, showy and boastful. I flatter men, especially in front of my husband's boss. Always want to fully show her ten thousand amorous feelings as a woman.

Such a wife can easily bring back right and wrong with her tongue; It is easy to make her husband feel humiliated; It is easy for her husband to feel that it hinders his work; Moreover, it is easy for her husband to be afraid that she may wear a cuckold at any time.

Seventeen, annoying his wife is too greedy and cheap.

This kind of wife works and makes friends on the premise of material curiosity. No matter big or small, she always wants to get her own personal interests and benefits in the process of interacting with people or doing anything. Even in the emotional communication with her husband, she did not forget to seek material convenience for herself, which made her husband feel that she had no enthusiasm and love for others.

Eighteen, annoying his wife to rely too much on him.

A wife who relies too much on her husband is often not only a woman with poor independence in life, but also a woman with too strong economic dependence. She is not only weak in independent living, but also weak in social competitiveness and viability. No matter how big or small things are, they don't have their own opinions and can't think of a solution to the problem. In life, just like a child who needs his care, he always needs his care and love, which makes him feel mentally and spiritually exhausted.

19. A nasty wife is willing to be a yellow-faced woman.

Every husband's idea of a perfect wife goes out of the hall into the kitchen. My husband always wants to see a beautiful and energetic wife. Looking at his' chicken ribs' wife wearing that red pajamas for more than ten years, unkempt, housekeeping, her husband had to be silent, silently silent, because he felt that his love with his wife had been euthanized.

Twenty, annoying husband-in-law and husband-in-law are different.

Every husband will feel uncomfortable when he sees that his wife is too affectionate to her family and indifferent to her husband's family. Especially, it must be very unpleasant to see that my wife talks about everything and does everything at home, making her husband feel that home is home.