Subsequently, in order to grow together, various growth communities came into being, including many excellent paid communities. In this era when time is money, payment is generally regarded as a way to screen and identify better groups, and according to the view that the same frequency attracts each other, it is indeed more likely to link to friends with the same values in the same paying group!
Like me, many people join clubs to make up for their own shortcomings, such as cultivating some generally accepted good habits that they don't have at present, such as getting up early, reading, exercising and writing. These are undoubtedly excellent habits!
Punch in with everyone and join the group. It turns out that I once agreed that the payment method of punch deposit can promote my self-discipline habit! Because I have also participated in English reading and sports fitness pay-and-punch clubs!
The basic rule of this community is to return the deposit every day after punching in. If you don't finish punching in, you will be included in the * * * cash pool and divided up by the group friends who have been punching in. The habit formed by external rules and external supervision is not self-discipline, but heteronomy, so the test is human nature!
If you think about this way of punching cards carefully, there will inevitably be loopholes, half of which depends on consciousness, and at best only half depends on rules. For example, it is common for people to get up early and go to bed after punching in to prevent their savings from being squandered! There must be a lot of people who have to deal with things in order to finish punching in, and the final result is to deceive themselves and others in order to get back the deposit!
True self-discipline is love from the heart. If you really want to change, you have to take down-to-earth actions and take the initiative to start the internal self-drive. This is the source of power, and external supervision still has to play a role through the inside!
However, the methods vary from person to person and cannot be applied across the board. For example, the urgent need for external supervision in the early stage can be paid, and the internal drive can be completed after one stage and upgraded to a new state!
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