I recently saw a dialogue in old boys, which touched my heart and impressed me deeply. What the restaurant owner said to Han Xiao was probably "children!" You only see the glamour in front of people, but you don't know the effort, sweat, tears and diligence behind others. For example, you see the swan on the lake noble and beautiful, but you don't know that the swan's feet have been sliding in the water. I get up at 4: 00 or 5: 00 every morning and go to the market to buy the freshest dishes, then I can make good food for my guests in time. "
So-called, there is no success without reason, and there is no failure without reason. You only see the success of others, but you don't know the efforts behind others.
0 1. There is no unprovoked success.
In fact, everyone knows a lot of things, but few people can stick to it. No one cares about the old problems, and no one cares. Because, after all, it's not out of your body, and some truths will be understood when you say them, but that's it if you don't say them.
There is a girl beside me who is worried because she can't find a boyfriend because she is fat. So she made up her mind to lose weight. Once she was a famous foodie in a circle. Southerners like to eat strong food, such as hot pot, spicy incense pot, skewers and so on, which is her favorite. If there is any delicious place, she must know it.
It is such a girl who loves to eat and play. In order to lose weight, she deeply rejected the temptation of all her friends to invite them to dinner and actively devoted herself to the cause of losing weight. Of course, as we all know, the efforts and hardships needed to lose weight are unimaginable pains.
Just knock yourself out when you walk. Such a fat man should not think that she is ill, she is dizzy with hunger. Losing weight is nothing more than eating less and exercising more. Other things like taking medicine and injections are unhealthy. In addition to strict diet control, she also insists on exercising, goes out for running every day, rain or shine, and is often very tired. She is not a runner, but she insists on losing weight every time she wants to give up. There is no other way to lose weight except perseverance.
It's been a year now. When I saw her in such pain, I thought she had given up losing weight. I didn't expect her to say to me, "If I give up myself now, wouldn't all my previous fatigue and pain be in vain?" My short-term exercise every day doesn't have much slimming effect, but my goal is to lose two or three pounds a week, so I can lose eight or nine pounds a month, and I can meet it without much. "
Her strength and optimism make her look confident and beautiful. She gradually lost weight without relying on drugs. Although her friends will still joke that she is fat, she can no longer be called fat. Now she has lost a lot of weight.
The sweat she once shed may be packed in a bucket, and her weight can stand the test, but her persistence and efforts are beyond measure.
Don't underestimate a person's ability.
Many people are always full of curiosity and fear when facing new things, and always refuse to take that step to accept and understand it. The so-called fear is not the thing itself, but the imagination derived from it.
My colleague, who used to do his job, did it very well. Suddenly, the leader asked her to transfer to another post, which she was unfamiliar with and not suitable for. I can't help it, and I can't refuse the arrangement of the leader. I have to bite the bullet.
A person who has just arrived at a new position is like a rookie who has just entered the workplace. He doesn't know anything. He has to ask others everything. Everyone is busy at work, and no one has time to teach you. What should I do? The only way is to rely on yourself.
As the saying goes, nothing is difficult in the world. At the beginning, many people were worried about whether she could survive the rat period. As it turns out, her performance is impressive. She usually works overtime until late at night. In order to collect data, she can repeatedly observe and measure in one place.
Originally, a girl didn't have to go out to the construction site to record data and measurements, but she went to the construction site every day. If you have any questions, record them yourself, then check the information on the Internet and consult experienced people.
Bullying her teeth, she slowly did the job smoothly. From the beginning, she was busy enough to finish one thing easily, but she made great efforts.
When we think that she will have difficulties for her because of this new position, she will collapse and cry for it. Who knows, she persisted. And at the end of the year, he was recognized by the leaders and became an excellent employee.
Therefore, don't underestimate a person's ability, because what he or she can do is what you can do, that is, work hard and have certain skills. The method is simple and practical, but it is not easy to do. Few people can persist to the end, that is, few people often succeed.
03. Those who work hard will not be disappointed.
Some people say that those who succeed depend on luck. I don't deny that there are some factors in this respect. However, success is not accidental. They suffered failures before, but they succeeded in the end.
For example, Ma Yun is called the founder of Ali. When Ali was founded, Ma Yun went to a certain unit to promote Ali's products. At that time, the Internet had just entered China. In the documentary "Scholar Ma Yun" of CCTV, Ma Yun was introduced in a thin way, carrying a black shoulder bag, telling people that "China Yellow Pages is to promote a national committee on information expressway, put all China on the computer, and let the world know about China". The answer is very impatient.
Ma Yun's appearance is the same as that of any salesman on the street, but being shut out and supercilious not only didn't crush him, but made him more eager to let the world know the benefits and convenience brought by the Internet. He is more confident to continue to develop Ali's career, which may be the difference between him and ordinary people.
Ali's success is not easy, and Ma Yun has also experienced four entrepreneurial failures. I also cried bitterly after the failure, but after so many hardships, Ma Yun succeeded. Ma Yun himself said, "Men's psychology is aggrieved and supportive." The bitterness and hardship behind the achievements of Ali and Ma Yun cannot be ignored. I don't know how much effort those who are jealous of Ma Yun have made for their dreams!
Finally, I hope that everyone will go forward without fear of difficulties and believe that one day they will achieve something!
On the third day, Jane Baoyu watched writing and punching in.