Daughter: Mom, I love you so much. I want you to accompany me until I grow up.
Me: OK. I love you, too, and I will accompany you until you grow up.
Daughter: I love you forever.
Me: I love you forever.
Daughter: Do you love me when I don't listen?
Me: Love. Mom has always loved you.
Daughter: I throw toys everywhere. Do you love me? I was angry with her the other day because she threw toys around and refused to clean them up. )
Me: Love. Although you throw toys everywhere and your house is in a mess, I still love you.
Daughter: I make you angry. Do you love me?
Me: Love. I get angry sometimes, but I love you when I am angry.
Daughter: Why?
Me: Because you are my baby, I love you at any time.
I asked my daughter: Do you love your mother when she is angry with you?
Daughter: Love! (The tone is unusually firm. )
Me: Why?
Daughter: Because you are my mother!
Me: inexplicably moved, my heart is sweeter than eating honey 100 times.
What kind of love you give your child, the child will give you. You love your child unconditionally, and the child will love you unconditionally. Unconditional love can convince children that they are worthy of being loved at any time, no matter whether they behave well or not, no matter when and where, their hearts are full of love and strength.
Can accept unconditional love, children will not please anyone on the road of growth, nor will they develop a likable personality. If a person accepts conditional love in his early years, for example, he can only be loved if he is obedient or behaves well, and his children will gradually learn to please their parents and people around them, and will live very tired. When I grow up, no matter what I do, I think about whether I like it or not, whether I am satisfied or not, and whether I have a self. It seems that I live to cater to other people's preferences.
Such children are hard to love themselves, life is very tired, happiness is very low, life lacks strength, and they are prone to frustration. The sense of self-worth will not be much higher, and people will be very concerned about other people's opinions and evaluations of themselves. The level of self-esteem is also low, and the lack of sunshine in the heart is also prone to inferiority complex, and people are relatively fragile.
A child who accepts unconditional love from an early age will have high self-esteem, will not live in the eyes or mouths of others, and will have a great evaluation of himself. Even if others say he is not good, it doesn't matter He will always believe in himself, always know how to love himself, take care of his feelings, know why he is alive, and will not cater to the grievances of others. Even if you encounter unhappy things, you can adjust yourself quickly, and your heart will show a very strong side.
On the road of children's growth, I believe that love is the most powerful nutrition, which can not only nourish children's bodies, but also nourish their hearts.