Nini is not picky about food, so my parents are like this! Jin said that when they were young, they would use vegetables as a reward and often said to Nini, "You did a good job today, so I let you eat vegetables! In order to make Nini eat more vegetables, Kim and Nico often compete with Nini for vegetables, making Nini feel that eating vegetables is better. When Nini was first asked to eat green peppers, Jin said to Nini, then 3 years old, "This is too bitter. Nini, you don't have to eat. Although eating it will make it beautiful, 9 children in 10 dare not eat it. You don't happen to be that 1 child who dares to eat green peppers! " Hearing this, Nini ate green pepper at once. Now Nini is not picky about food like Kim and Nico. Kim doesn't eat eggplant, Nico doesn't eat carrots, and Nini dares to eat them all.
Adults are not always right! Kim and Nico respect Nini very much and will take the initiative to ask, "What do your parents do to make you feel uncomfortable? Adjust exercises according to Nini's answers; I will communicate with Nini as an adult, get along with her as a friend and play with her as a child. In study, Nini will be allowed to choose what she wants to learn. Some parents will say to their children, "I spent so much money to train you, but you failed." "Jin believes that" don't project your own failures on your children, and hope that children will succeed for their parents ".I hope that children will become successful and successful, which will bring too much pressure to children. They want Nini to be happy and be a kind person.
If Nini puts forward her own ideas, Kim and Nico are willing to accept them and let Nini know that "even parents may make mistakes and are willing to change". Adults may not always be right. If they do something wrong, they will also apologize to Nini; Nini will take the initiative to apologize to her parents when she does something wrong. Jin believes that the behavior of adults and children is like a mirror, and the way children do things often reflects the behavior patterns of adults themselves. What adults do to children today, children will do to themselves when they grow up.
"Willing to do well, don't go too far! King said, "If you refuse a child once, the child will never want to do it again. If you don't do it, you won't make progress. Let the children try and learn. " Kim also secretly said that just like Nico's cooking, he would eat it all, otherwise there would be no next time. He also appealed to husbands all over the world: "My wife is willing to cook for you, which is very good. Don't complain Later in the video, when they were asked, "Is mom's cooking delicious?" Nini said to Kim, "don't say that mom's cooking is not good, or you will apologize to mom in the future." 」
Nini is very thoughtful and domineering. She wants to buy a sports car for her father. Nini is very thoughtful and will silently remember what adults have said. Once Kim casually said, "I didn't bring enough money when I went shopping today." Unexpectedly, Nini silently took a red envelope to her father the next time I went out. Another time, Kim saw a sports car on the side of the road and said, "This car is great!" Nini immediately asked, "Is my red envelope enough? If it is not enough, I will buy it for you when I grow up! The domineering and intimate children's words also make Jin feel super intimate.
In fact, Nini is sweet not only to her father, but also to her mother. Nico was pregnant last year. Nini was afraid that her father would close the door too loudly and scare her mother, so she posted pictures everywhere at home to remind her to close the door quietly. Later, Nico had a miscarriage. Nini took the initiative to tear up all these photos before her mother came home, so as not to let her mother go home and see the injuries at the scene. She also comforted her parents: "It doesn't matter, Xiao Linmeng didn't come this time. I can collect more gifts for him next time Xiao Linmeng comes back." Jin believes that as long as a family of three is together, there are no insurmountable difficulties, and family members are the sustenance of each other and the driving force for moving on. Jin also wants to say to his fathers, "If this happens, you should pay more attention to your wife and let her take care of her health first. As long as the family is together, it will all pass. " This is just a stage in life. We don't forget, but we believe that Xiao Lin's dream will come back when it is ready. 」
Caring for each other+laughing and bickering = warming up feelings In Nico's eyes, Kim is a very caring and careful husband, and she is also willing to accompany and take care of her children, so that she can have more Me time; ; In Kim's eyes, Nico always supports himself silently. For example, Jin recently published a new book "Growing Up with You/Ni: It's OK for a man to take care of children" to share his family's daily life and his experience of accompanying Ni. Nico bought 10 books in one breath and silently supported her husband with actions. Kim said with a smile that Nico is "the backbone behind a successful man". Nico and Kim talk about everything. The couple often wait for Nini to go to bed and chat. Once they talked for eight hours until dawn! Speaking of this, joking Kim also smiled and said, "You can talk about anything. Quarrel is also a kind of chat! Nico listened to the second one and said, "Fighting is also a sport! It seems that bickering between husband and wife is also a life interest. Later, Nico said, "Husband and wife get along, talking and laughing every day, and it won't explode. Kim immediately went on to say, "She just broke up with her best friend. 」
In order to shoot the cover of "Babies and Mothers" magazine, Nico told Kim a few days before shooting: "From now on, I won't drink sweet drinks! However, Kim found that Nico quietly bought a thick stainless steel straw. Kim left a message on Facebook: "If it's not for drinking precious milk, is it for blowing bubbles? " 」
As long as there is you, Ni, happiness will go on! Although the couple have more than 2.5 million fans, in fact, this family is not out of reach, almost perfect. The reason why the couple have such a high degree of attention is precisely because they live an ordinary life like us, but they can find extraordinary things from ordinary daily life, be grateful and cherish their families. Although these seemingly ordinary films can make people smile, they can best retain the most natural side when family members get along with each other, and can impress us more, thus causing * * *.
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