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Title/Summer insects can't talk about ice

I heard about insects and Xia Bing a long time ago, but only recently did I understand what "summer insects can't talk about ice" means, as if everything was predestined. It seems that I also learned the stories of the three seasons at the same time. These two topics are like the same story. Whether it is a story or not, it can at least teach us not to have indifferent disputes, which makes me feel sad.

You will meet such a three-season person in your life. It can be said that they are short-sighted, only concerned about the present, selfish and narrow-minded. I am not qualified to use adjectives to describe them, and there may be no one to judge them. If you think you hate them, naturally someone will like them. Maybe they are the people you hate. So whether you like it or not is only your subjective impression, and it is not worth being judged by others. So you don't have to complain about the character of people you hate all day. Naturally, people like it. If you have different ambitions and this is not natural, you can't be friends and there is no need to argue. A few words may not decorate a person's character, but why fight for it?

Art should be a pure snowfield. Even if a sweaty, energetic and enthusiastic work of art is drenched with cold water, so what? As long as you are not a casual person, there will be people in this world who will not treat your work casually, even if it is as small as "incomprehensible" and as big as using "foul language" to ridicule and attack. What an artist should do is to screen out the opinions that are most in line with his own views and use them for his next creation. As long as the three views are correct, there will be a person who can enter his own art, and those ordinary people are far below your artistic attainments. Those who know are naturally immersed in it, while those who don't know point fingers. In art, I don't think there is right or wrong. Teacher Meng Zhi told a story that two monks had a quarrel, and then asked Master separately, and Master told them that they were all right. Then another monk asked Master why they were all right, and Master said, "You are right, too."

Even if everyone is right, if there are still contradictions, it is better to separate. All beings suffer. If we still need to suffer in the most touching love that the living can live and die, we might as well die and not be reborn. Touching can't complete love, it can only bring gratitude. Suitability does not necessarily move, but it can defend love. Love me gratefully and don't think I can survive the day when gratitude ends. The heart-to-heart communication brought by suitable love will be repeated with heart. You know it's not easy for her. Even if she complains, you are willing to put up with it. You don't know her preferences, but she is happy that you are indifferent. There are so many people in this world, there is always someone who can talk to you. Hard boiled food is not bad at first, but hard. I'm getting fatter and fatter, but you don't know me. I think I'd better find a fat man to lose weight with me. Even though he may not like me, I am full of smiles around him. In Slimming Men and Women, Sammi Cheng did not look for Prince Charming, but looked for the dark horse that accompanied me later. Fortunately, he is congenial.

Everything in the world is a cloud, so it can't be violently hit. Put down what you don't like. Nothing is happier than you. It's not easy to be happy. All beings suffer. Eat, drink and be kind.