Ma Yili was hurt in her marriage. When she was pregnant, her ex-husband wrote an article about cheating actress Yao Di.

During that time, there was a lot of news and many people sympathized with her. Everyone thinks she will get a divorce. After all, it is particularly cruel and unbearable for a woman to be betrayed by her husband when she is pregnant.

Unexpectedly, she forgave the article.

As for the reason, everyone has different opinions. Some people say that she forgave the article for the sake of children, while others say that she did it in order not to fulfill her husband and mistress.

Now she has divorced her ex-husband. After the failure of marriage, she is still active in the entertainment circle in her forties. She has played several famous roles, and her works have been recognized by everyone, but many people still care about her emotional problems.

A reporter once photographed her intimate behavior with a male star, and they were suspected to be ambiguous. According to media reports, the hero seems to be Qin Ying in Ode to Joy, with a difference of 18 years.

Everyone has different views on this result. Some people think that Ma Yili should not find a boyfriend so much younger than himself. Others think that social age is not distance. As long as two people think it's appropriate, the opinions of others don't matter at all.

No matter what you think, one thing is certain, that is, women in Malik Yili will never worry about getting married. Although she is now over 40 years old, divorced and has two children, it is naturally very easy for her to get married.

The other half she wants to marry must be excellent, either a peer with very rich economic conditions or a handsome little fresh meat. She seems to have chosen the latter at present.

I don't know when it started, but many women gradually forgot the most important thing as a person. They always think that women have to rely on men to live in this world after all, so marriage is the best way out for women.

It is often said that it is better for a woman to marry well than to do well, and it is better for a woman to work hard when she is young.

In fact, this sentence has some truth, but it cannot be generalized. If a woman is destined to be mediocre all her life, getting married early is indeed the most correct choice, because the older you get, the smaller your choices will be, unless you can become particularly excellent in the future.

Based on this, many people think that a woman's greatest value lies in her youth and beauty. If a woman wants to get a better marriage after marriageable age, it will be very difficult.

If a divorced woman lives with her children and wants to enter the marriage hall again, it is difficult to find an ideal partner, because many men will care about her past.

Although what everyone said is true, it is not absolute, because there is a kind of woman in this world who will never worry about marriage, and most of these women have the following characteristics.

Temperament and charm with age

It is often said that a woman's greatest advantage lies in her age. If a woman is not married after the age of 30, she has to choose.

Although there are more men than women in today's society and women will never worry about getting married, it is very difficult to choose a better man.

Although there is some truth in this statement, it is not absolute. Some women can attract excellent men no matter how old they are, but there are countless such women in life.

For example, female stars in the entertainment circle, female writers who write various works, rich second-generation families and female bosses who start their own businesses.

These women all have one thing in common, that is, they have extraordinary temperament and charm.

Beauty will gradually disappear with the passage of time, which is a natural law, and no one can stop it, but the charm and temperament of a woman can increase with age.

On this point, I believe everyone has learned it in real life, because such women really exist in the world.

If a woman reaches a certain age, she should stop comparing looks with young girls. At this time, everyone should improve their self-cultivation and make themselves more elegant and attractive. This is what everyone should do.

An independent cause

Is career important to women? Different people will give different answers to this question. Most people who live well know that career is very important to everyone, including women.

But in real life, there are always some people daydreaming all day, and their careers are always useless to women. They even think that good men don't like too good women because the prince has always loved Cinderella.

If everyone has such an idea, it will be sad, because the reality is cruel. If you look closely, you will find that the height of a woman's career can determine the height of her life.

Who has an advantage, a 25-year-old ordinary girl or a 40-year-old popular A-list actress? They get married at the same time, who is better to get married?

I think everyone has the answer. Most 25-year-old ordinary girls can only marry ordinary people, and some girls can't even afford to buy a house. They can only get married naked.

But a 40-year-old A-list actress can marry a very good man at will. The reason for this is naturally because they are worth different.

The 25-year-old girl has nothing, and the 40-year-old popular female star has always had an independent career.

Never believe that a career is worthless to a woman. In this world, the real dependence of a woman is actually herself.

After a successful career, women can not only live a happy life, but also choose a better partner.

It's like a little girl in her twenties is not in the same class as a famous female star in her thirties.

If a woman really wants to live a happy life and find a better man, she must first make herself better.

Excellent men also like excellent women, which has never changed since ancient times, so don't slack off and daydream all day.

A certain reputation and social status.

A woman who can reach this position can be called a goddess by everyone. No matter what she looks like, she is the object of respect.

In fact, the biggest distance between people lies in the level. If everyone lives at the bottom of society, the choice of spouse is naturally very narrow.

Although there are more men than women in today's society, young and beautiful girls can only choose a relatively excellent person within their own level.

But if a woman has a high social status and fame, the result is completely different. There are many big-name stars in society now. Why can they still marry rich people in their forties? A large part of the reason is that they have high popularity.

Some successful women entrepreneurs and writers want to get married easily, and the other half they choose must be excellent.

The higher a woman's level, the better people she meets and the better the other half she chooses. This is the embodiment of the only thrill.

After all, people are different and women are very different. Some women are destined to be winners in life. They can not only have a successful life, but also choose a beautiful marriage at will.

If you want to be such a woman, please make more efforts to improve yourself and make yourself better.