no

Think you are careless or believe that he is a careless person. Cowards will become brave when they meet people they really love, and similarly, careless people will become cautious. You should choose the one who makes you happy for the rest of your life, not the one you have to try to please.

The advantage of hard work is that everyone will want to help you when they see you. But if you don't make a little effort yourself first, others will want to help you. They don't know where your hand is.