On the contrary, in that age of ambiguous and subtle love, we had nothing, but we could support each other and grow old together.
In North Korea, there is a folk song "Wu Gong Crossing the River". In the song, for the sake of safety, the husband will not let his wife cross the river and cross it by himself. In real life, there is such an old couple in Hengchengshan Village, gangwon, South Korea, who have earned enough tears. After 76 years of marriage, 98-year-old Grandpa Zhao Bingwan and 89-year-old Grandma Jiang Xilie are still as sweet as their first love.
Couple clothes?
They live in a remote mountain village in Korea. Everywhere you go, you will wear bright hanbok and hold hands tightly together.
Playing with snow?
Grandpa and grandma have a snowball fight and make a snowman. After entering the room, grandma spoiled and said that her hands were cold. Grandpa lowered his head and shook his hand at grandma.
Are you the most beautiful?
Grandpa put the flowers next to grandma's ear and told her that you haven't changed at all, and you are still as beautiful as when you were young.
Together with you
Grandma is afraid of the dark when she goes to the toilet at night. She repeatedly told grandpa to watch her sing outside the door. Grandpa is singing at the door of the toilet, and when grandma comes out, she will go back to the room together.
Watching you sleep?
Before going to bed, grandpa looked at grandma sleeping beside him, raised his arm and gently stroked her face, full of spoil.
Grandma said to grandpa:
? "I have never been lonely since I met you." ?
There is an impressive picture: grandma sitting by the fire, quietly recalling the past. When she talked about 14 years old when she married her grandfather, her eyes were full of warm smiles.
Until one day, grandpa left grandma and went to another world ... grandma promised to cross the river to find grandpa soon, although grandpa told her before he died that he was leading grandma, and they would meet again eventually. But grandma still cried at grandpa's grave like a child.
Some people say that it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes. However, I forgot that in love, companionship is the longest confession. Grandparents used their whole lives to interpret the best appearance of love. In this way, even if someone finally leaves, in retrospect, it is still beautiful! Touching!
"Love" has never been exclusive to young people. The love of mom and dad is integrated into daily necessities; The love of grandparents is portrayed in the long river of years.
When people pass middle age and enter old age, their feelings enter another stage. Children grow up, retire, and have more time to themselves. At this time, it is the person who is with them: quarreling all his life, or the other half who has been separated for most of his life because of work and other reasons.
The happy old couple used other people's experiences to tell everyone that they can be happier by doing the following things in their love life:
Nowadays, it is taboo for young people to say goodbye and divorce emotionally. Arguing all my life without saying "leave"
When two people are together, don't live as calm as water. You should know how to flirt. Plain life needs seasoning.
When people are old, they should know that "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren", be "selfish" and spend more time on themselves;
A leopard cannot change his spots, but a leopard cannot change his spots. Both of them become "stubborn" and can be "disgusted". The most important thing is mutual tolerance.