Before marriage: Be a good person and be filial to me and his parents.

After marriage: filial piety is not something I can change, but parents think that if you do nothing, you are filial to you, and it is useless to do anything without filial piety.

Before marriage: As long as you are smart and filial, you can please your in-laws and be happy and healthy.

After marriage: cleverness sometimes backfires, because it is human nature to ride more thin horses. Keeping your distance is called self-defense. Otherwise, simplicity and weakness make people see the words "please bully me" written on their heads.

Before marriage: if you change your mind and treat people well, people will repay you;

After marriage: people can't change their minds.

Before marriage: it is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult. I think I am versatile and should be able to get along well.

After marriage: the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is too fucking difficult.

Before marriage: I can be the daughter of my mother-in-law.

After marriage: mother-in-law will always be mother-in-law, and mother will always be mother.

Economy:

Before marriage: What is money? Love comes first.

After marriage: What is love? Giving you money is love, not giving money is love.

Before marriage: love comes first, attitude determines everything.

After marriage: money comes first, and responsibility decides everything.

Before marriage: both my money and my husband's money belong to them.

After marriage: My money is my money, my husband's money is my husband's money and my family's money is my family's money.

Before marriage: the husband can rely on.

After marriage: the economic base determines the marital status.

Before marriage: money is not everything.

After marriage: you can't do anything without money.

Before marriage: moonlight clan

After marriage: planned economy

Before marriage: spend money for me without frowning.

After marriage: I began to persuade me to shop less in Taobao.

Before marriage: my husband's poverty has nothing to do with me. We can make money slowly without money.

After marriage: it's really hard to make money. The hardest thing is that not only can I not count on my husband's family, but they also count on us to support them. Just find a rich family from the beginning.

Before marriage: after marriage, two people go to play everywhere and travel everywhere.

After marriage: traveling after marriage is not a fart. Saving money to buy a house and have children is serious.

Children:

Before marriage: if you have children, let them grow up healthily and happily, and don't give them too much burden.

After marriage: the early bird catches the worm, and it is not enough for children to play.

Before marriage: although I don't like children, I will automatically have maternal love after giving birth.

After marriage: Why do you keep crying? I can't stand it ~ someone will help me get it back to the kindergarten.

Before marriage: it is difficult to raise children.

After marriage: how difficult it is to raise children.

Before marriage: read more books when you are young and fight for your career;

After marriage: I wish I had children earlier.

Before marriage: I really want to have a group of children.

After marriage: having children? Think big.

Husband and wife relationship:

Before marriage: I want to have my own husband and children, and I want to be good to them.

After marriage: the child is his own, but the husband is not. So the child should be right, and the husband may be a baiwenhang.

Before marriage: lying together likes to cover the same quilt.

After marriage: cover the quilt and sleep better.

Before marriage: 2 1 century what is the most expensive and harmonious! So two people should respect each other, understand each other and accommodate each other.

After marriage: either the east wind overwhelms the west wind or the west wind overwhelms the east wind.

Before marriage: The most important thing between two adults is rational communication.

After marriage: communication is an armchair strategist. You can bear it. I couldn't bear it anymore, so I broke up.

Before marriage: you can slowly reform your husband's bad habits.

After marriage: never try to reform him, the result will only get worse.

Before marriage: My husband loves me the most and cares about me the most.

After marriage: same as above, the subject becomes a wife.

Before marriage: My husband is so nice that he lets me go when I get angry.

After marriage: Why didn't he compromise and apologize to me?

Before marriage: He is busy at work, so I can wash dishes several times, as long as he is kind to me.

After marriage: Why do I always wash the dishes?

Before marriage: I am not afraid of cold when I sleep in winter, and I am fanned when it is hot in summer and cooked when I am hungry. No matter how late I get off work, someone will pick me up.

After marriage: an electric blanket+an air conditioner+takeaway+taxi = solve all problems.

Before marriage: When you get married, you always have a shoulder to lean on and a partner to face everything together.

After marriage: rely on? It's almost close. I've been thinking, did he get married to get a wife or to be a mother …

Before marriage: falling in love.

After marriage: Before Qian Qian.

Before marriage: Try to be virtuous and be a good wife.

After marriage: don't call yourself a metropolis before marriage, otherwise it will be your job in the future and you can't get rid of it.

Before marriage: find a husband who is filial to his mother, and the filial child will be good to his wife.

After marriage:! People are good to their mothers, but not necessarily to their wives! A man who doesn't understand filial piety or has Oedipus complex is unacceptable!

Before marriage: If you disagree with him, you may get divorced.

After marriage: not bad.

Before marriage: the power of love is infinite, and marriage without love is not feasible.

After marriage: love is insignificant for marriage, and a sense of responsibility is the guarantee of a solid marriage.

Before marriage: as long as there is him, suffering is sweet!

After marriage: I'm so fucking naive! !

Self-growth:

Before marriage: lose weight in love! Lose weight!

After marriage: In order to live longer, don't lose weight for no reason, but pay attention to maintenance.

Before marriage: I must clean up and get rid of littering.

After marriage: Is there any way to hide the sundries so as not to be conspicuous?

Before marriage: I want to learn to cook the most difficult, complicated and gorgeous dishes!

After marriage: How can I make a delicious meal simply and quickly?

Before marriage: I don't think family background affects feelings.

Marriage: I deeply realized that marriage should be wooden door to wooden door and bamboo to bamboo.

Before marriage: think that marriage is between two people,

After marriage: I found that this is between two families, no, it should be between two families.

Before marriage: mom has some influence, and everything depends on the conditions.

After marriage: How wise my mother wouldn't let me marry this man. Do you have any regret medicine?

Love him before marriage.

After marriage, love yourself.

Before marriage: I want to get married!

After marriage: I want to live alone!

Before marriage: no, leave!

After marriage: how to go if life is not smooth?

Before marriage: it doesn't matter if the mother-in-law is widowed. It is difficult for her to raise her son. Be sure to honor her.

After marriage: the seven aunts and eight aunts in the family are telling the truth, and you can't marry. ..

Before marriage: He will always love me.

After marriage: love is bullshit. If you want to cheat, you can't rely on a good man, but you are safest on your own.

Before marriage: friendship is full of water

After marriage: falling in love and getting married are two different things.

Before marriage: his parents don't understand, whatever, not living with them!

After marriage: When my daughter is looking for a partner, I must see what qualities her parents have! !

Before marriage: be a smart woman.

After marriage: it turns out that stupid women will be happy, even if they are not stupid, they should pretend.