At first, I resisted.
I will explain to others that this is my second child, which is embarrassing.
Later, I lost 27 pounds and dressed up my clothes and hairstyle at a young age.
But there will still be a situation called grandma!
Later, I wanted to let go. Call me grandma.
Taking care of children, especially two children, especially one person taking care of two children, really has no time and energy to dress up!
Mothers in this situation should take good care of their children first!
Don't care too much about other people's eyes!
When children go to kindergarten and have energy, they can clean themselves up and be hot moms!
Tell me about a video I watched in Tik Tok. There is a 45-year-old father who leads a 4-year-old daughter and always regards him as a grandfather.
So, this father operates like this:
I bought a T-shirt, which said: I am a handsome father.
Haha, this method is desirable!
Friends who are troubled by problems can try!
Hello, I'm glad to answer your question. From my own point of view, I am also a nanny, and I can understand that it is not easy to take care of children. My family is a family, not to mention that you are the mother of two babies. I am too busy to tidy myself up every day, but women must not be lazy and dress themselves up no matter how busy they are.
Women have a dream, and that is to be young forever. Although no one can really resist the ravages of time, we can still try to make time go slower in many ways.
For example, taking good care of yourself and managing your figure, such as constantly improving yourself and improving your temperament, are all ways to make women look younger and more attractive.
In his thirties, he is in his prime. I can't always think about others and ignore myself. There is a well-written book about how to fall in love with yourself and about women's self-love. Only by loving yourself can you get the love of others. Think about it. When you dress beautifully, look young and have a good mental outlook, others will pay more attention to you, your husband will appreciate you more, you will be willing to help you share the task of taking care of your children, and you will be confident, in a good mood and naturally more and more beautiful.
At this point, you may say, I don't have time, it's easy for you to speak standing, and so on. Actually, I used to be myself, and I didn't have time to dress up when I was taking care of the children.
However, after a while, I found that life was getting worse and worse. I spent all my time with my children and didn't even ask my parents and mother-in-law to take care of them for me. What did I get? Tired in one word, no time for exercise, no time for entertainment, no time for doing what I want to do, tired backache in the second month, and fell ill in the second month. My children are restless and upset, and the whole person is in a bad state.
So I told myself that I wanted to change and asked myself, is this the life I want? There are in-laws at home, so let them go. What we have to do is to learn, improve our parenting ability, and want to give our children a better life, starting with changing ourselves. Children also want their mother to have her own career, dress neatly, not seek beauty, at least give people a good feeling, go out and put on light makeup, I believe you can do it.
I'm Ma Bao, too. Let's learn together and change together. Come on! Live a wonderful life and bloom the brilliance of life!
I was born after 70, and I took my children out twelve years ago. An uncle asked me, are you also coaxing your grandson? I told that uncle that my grandson's aunt was my daughter.
I went out with my nine-month-old baby on 1986. Some people praised me that you are so young and your grandchildren are so big.
How to be a grandmother after 80 and over 30?
You are not grandma's age, but you have grandma's clothes.
Hurry up, you are still young in your thirties. Go to the barber shop to dye your hair, and go to the cosmetics store to buy eyebrow pencil, BB cream and lipstick. These three are enough. A pair of light-colored jeans, a pair of white shoes and a clean white T can make people young without much money.
Then you should take a good look at yourself. After 80, I don't feel like my grandmother. There are many mothers in our children's class for more than seven years. I don't feel like my grandmother. You must change yourself. Don't forget to tidy yourself up when you have children. Do you look in the mirror to take care of the children and give up on yourself?
There should not be many people who feel the same way. After all, the post-80s generation is just over 30, just 40, and it is not a grandmother. Either you are wearing the wrong clothes, or others have a bad eye.
I'm also a baby mom after the 80s. I usually take care of two children by myself. Bauer was born to me. What others experience day and night is the same as mine. But when I take my baby out, no one will call me grandma. On the contrary, when I go to my daughter's school, her classmates will whisper in her ear, "Your mother is so beautiful!" " Take Bauer out. If others know that I have a daughter of 1 1, the first sentence is: "I can't see that you are so young and have such a big girl."
I don't mean to show off. In fact, I have had an embarrassing experience similar to yours before. When my daughter went to kindergarten when she was a child, I went to pick her up. Her children would say directly in front of her, "Why is your mother so fat and so dark?" Fortunately, my daughter protected me. However, it was quite shocking for me to be told by a child at that time. The main reason is that I feel guilty and my lovely daughter has lost face. Later, I lost weight, changed the habit of watching mobile phones and staying up late, forced myself to go to bed early and get up early, and insisted on exercising. Carefully match clothes every time you go out. Although I don't wear makeup, I also wear some isolation and lipstick. The whole person looks much more colorful. Besides, clothes will not be worn lifeless. To tell the truth, black and white gray clothes have a unique taste if they are worn on people with temperament, but if they are worn on people without figure, skin color and temperament, they are simply aunts.
So, you should learn to change yourself. We are post-80s, but only in our thirties, the most dazzling age in our lives. Don't be trapped by the word "grandma". Come on!
Ma Bao, born in 1980s, is over 30 years old. She was mistaken for grandma, so we should reflect on it. When she has time, she must dress herself up. Women are born to love beauty, so they must love themselves.
A friend of my friend became a grandmother at the age of 45, but every time she took her grandson out, she was mistaken for the child's mother. This friend loves to dress up and doesn't look like a person in her forties at all, so I really can't tell that she is the grandmother of the child, but her daughter-in-law, who looks older than her. Her daughter-in-law is in her twenties, tall and chubby, and doesn't like dressing up. When two people go out with their children, they are often mistaken for two sisters. Daughter-in-law is elder sister, and mother-in-law looks like younger sister. Are you embarrassed?
It is easy to change yourself:
0 1. If you feel fat, you must lose weight.
As the old saying goes, one white covers all the ugliness, one fat destroys everything, and it is black and fat, giving people the feeling that they are old. Therefore, after marriage, women must keep fit, exercise more and control their diet reasonably. Every piece of fat paper is a potential stock, and slimming down can be called full-body plastic surgery, so sisters must slim down.
02. Learn to dress yourself up
Women want to be their own masters, so they must dress themselves up, choose clothes suitable for their figure, go out and put on light makeup, tidy up their hair, and give people a clean feeling.
A treasure mother said: I don't have time to tidy up myself. I'm so busy all day. In fact, time is squeezed out. People who love beauty will always pay attention to their image, and mothers and children who love beauty are more confident.
03. Enrich your inner temperament.
A woman should not only have external beauty, but also enrich her inner temperament, read more books and find her hobbies. A scholar-type woman is destined to have a different temperament.
Write at the end:
As long as you have a love of beauty and always pay attention to your image, you will become more and more beautiful. May all treasure mothers love themselves.
Dress up, don't worry about those people with cheap mouths. I especially hate this nonsense. More than once, someone asked my sister if she was my mother. It's too exaggerated. She is only two years older than me! I think these people did it on purpose! Or you're blind. Age can be seen from the face. No matter who is dressed, I can guess the age by looking at the face. Eyes can't fool people.
I am the mother of 1988, and my boss is ten years old. I'm several years older after giving birth. At that time, my boss was difficult to take care of. I cried every night for the first three months and slept for two or three hours every day. Not sleeping, but being awakened by the child's crying, and then sleeping again. My husband is not around, so I take care of him alone. My mother-in-law gossips every day and doesn't help, saying that she had four children before and one every two years. My mother helped with the second child, but after giving birth, she was ill for a year and her hair turned white. Taking medicine has side effects. She gained more than 40 kilograms at once, and her two children were always sick. Every time she goes out, people will say that you took her grandson out to play. When she was with her husband, she said that your son is very kind and will accompany you. When she was with her mother, she called us sisters. Alas, I don't know how I got through that time. I'm much better now. I'll take care of myself.