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Because she is the eldest daughter and grandson of the Li family. So I have neither brothers nor sisters nor cousins. Plus, my mother is from Tongcheng, Hubei, and I don't even have a cousin here. This can't be said to be my regret in my life. Every step of life, there is no experience and experience to refer to. Every step should be faced and catered to by your own mind.
? The sky is not thin! I have a younger sister and a younger brother. My sister is a few years younger than me. Because a younger sister died below me. Although rural parents are eager for men, this younger sister is loved by her family. My sister is petite, sweet-looking, with neat white teeth and gentle and quiet. Always a quiet smiling face. My sister is very diligent and has a good temperament since she was a child. In those years when she grew up together as a child, I was bullied by my eldest brother and my younger brother, whom my parents regarded as the treasure. At that time, my parents were busy with farm work and earning food rations, so a lot of housework fell on our three brothers and sisters. For example, cooking and washing dishes for three meals; Washing clothes; Beat pig grass; Feed pigs; Carry water; Collecting firewood ... everyone washes dishes once a day. Sometimes it's my turn. I play tricks occasionally, such as a stomachache. I just have something important to do. When it's my brother's turn, my brother will never leave his Sect: Sarai. Such a scene will be repeated every once in a while. My sister ate both good and bad, knowing that my brother and I did it on purpose, but we still washed all the dishes silently.
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? My sister is very kind. I think she is the kindest girl in the world. Once my sister was playing in the village and had a neighbor. Maybe she has a special love for her. I gave my sister two big Sydney. In that era when food and clothing were not enough, fruits were all luxuries except small fruits and vegetables grown at home. If I were you, I would hide out and steal one. At most, I will take a Sydney home. If it were my brother, he would eat two Sydney by himself and show off when we were happy, making my sister and I drool. At that time, there was a shortage of materials, and we children were too delicious and full. Only my sister carefully took two big Sydney home and hid it. When the whole family arrived, my sister took it out like a baby, one for my parents and one for our three brothers and sisters. I see my brother's eyes shining! Light! Ah!
? Time passes in such a playful, friendly and warm day. Although we are poor, there is still a way that our family can never walk day after day. We three brothers and sisters grow up slowly. 1988 was near the senior high school entrance examination and passed the screening for taking the secondary school exam. At that time, being admitted to a technical secondary school was an iron rice bowl, belonging to people who ate national meals. However, unlike today's exam, where you wait for scores before filling in your volunteers, you apply for volunteers first and then take the exam. At that time, volunteering was like sewing clothes with only cloth. The forecast is too big, the cloth is not enough, and the clothes are not worn. Since my son entered the university after the college entrance examination, how important it is for him to fill in his volunteers accurately in his later life, which is related to his likes and dislikes of work, his environment and his quality of life. In the face of voluntary choice, I am at a loss. Thinking about the past all the time, no one can help me. At that time, the majors suitable for girls were nothing more than health school, normal school and agriculture and forestry. In all the relationships, there are no relatives and friends who work in the hospital. They have never been exposed to this aspect and have not realized how important it is for girls to have a stable job when they leave the countryside. I didn't realize that working in a hospital could protect the health of my family. I gave up my wish of health school myself. The teachers in the school gave all the interview places to their children, relatives and friends, and no one recommended me. In the end, there is only one agriculture and forestry. I heard that the score requirement is higher than that of normal schools and health schools. I heard that after graduation, I was assigned to the office of the unit ... I didn't leave myself a way out of the farm. What if the score is not enough? No one showed me the way, no one analyzed the pros and cons, and no one could give me advice in time. In this way, my life depends on my own feet, facing the crossroads of life alone and catering to the cruelty of life. The score came out, and my score was 57 1, which exceeded the admission line of normal schools and health schools. The agricultural and forestry admission line is 576 points, and I am 5 points short! Five points! Changed the fate of my life. There is sadness and loneliness on parents' faces. I was admitted to Linxiang No.2 Middle School. Your sister's junior high school, my brother will go to junior high school immediately, and I, a high school student, rely on my father to dig Changbai mine and my mother to do farm work, which is undoubtedly worse. It is still unknown whether I can be admitted to college after three years of high school. Other families in the village are richer than ours. I still remember the words that two elders encouraged me. "Oh, if I get into high school, I'll go to school. No money, come to our house to get it! If you don't read it, you will regret it! " Writing here, my tears came down unconsciously. The sadness of poor years makes me remember the pain of life vividly, and also makes me feel grateful to the enthusiastic people in life.
? On the first day of school, my parents gritted their teeth to make up for my tuition in No.2 Middle School. My father goes to school with luggage and rice. When I arrived at school, the people in the logistics department thought that the quality of rice sent by my father was not high. After my father begged me in every way, I promised to send the best rice next time before accepting it. What's wrong with rice? It's all eaten by our family on weekdays. My father finished all the formalities for me, and when he left, he told me that it was not easy to study, so I should study hard. Looking at my father's distant back, I shed tears. If only I had been admitted to a technical secondary school, I would have been paid in two or three years, and my parents wouldn't have to work so hard! Can I finish three years of high school? Can I be admitted to the university after the exam? What should I do if I miss 5 points in the exam? Where is the junior high school tuition for younger brothers and sisters? My parents' hard work tugged at my tender but helpless heart. ...
? After school started, I devoted myself to my study. In an unfamiliar environment, students in a foreign land have many courses and great difficulties, which are not as relaxed as junior high school, but more independent learning. Those who can be admitted to the second middle school are basically excellent in grades. The students began to compete academically, secretly holding their breath and struggling. Except that physics is a little hard, all other subjects are ok. There are more than 60 people in the class, and they are in the top ten in every exam. High school is still a month away. Whenever I go to school to ask my mother for living expenses after a month's vacation, I see my sister and brother who are also asking for living expenses, and my mother's face is sad and nagging because of poverty, and I think of my desire to continue studying in high school. Looking at my father, who is neither tall nor thin, carrying 200 kilograms of Changbai Mine to the acquisition point, the narrow shoulder pole creaked and flashed back and forth on his father's slightly camel shoulder, and two laundry baskets full of Changbai Mine swayed and fooled his father's body. I think, as the eldest daughter, when can I stop my parents from working so hard? Stick to the final exam, the weather is even colder. I thought of my mother's sadness and forbearance, and my father stretched out ten fingers on the mountain in cold weather, picking and placing Changbai mines one by one, and the cold wind of ice and snow also blew into my heart that I had not been experienced by the secular. Two weeks before the final exam, I gave up my desire to continue studying and the hope of studying abroad with a feeling of confusion and pain. I dropped out of school voluntarily. Teacher Lu Binggang, the head teacher, was unwilling to obey, so he cut me off from my study and tried his best to persuade me. I know that if I don't drop out of school, the day when the next semester starts will be another torment for my parents. Although my parents don't approve of my quitting school, there is nothing they can do to face the reality. In this way, I looked back step by step and left No.2 Middle School with tears in my eyes. My schooling career is over. Many years later, in my dream, I was still sitting in the classroom listening to the teacher and wiping my eyes in the dark after waking up. This is the pain in my life forever and ever!
? After I dropped out of school, I was recommended by the respected elders in my life to substitute for the school. Facing the innocent and youthful face, I can say what I like best. I love this job.
? My sister and I grew up and got married, and we got married separately. Although my family is not rich, I rely on my parents' hardworking hands to support this family. My parents still gave our two sisters a generous dowry. For example, the big color TV that I got married is the first one in my husband's big house. Thanks to my parents, you have suffered a lot for the happiness of your daughters, but you are willing to let them get married.
Before my sister got married, I always thought that such a gentle, kind and hardworking person would get a happy marriage and have a partner who would understand her and take care of her for life. However, my blessings and prayers did not make God better for my sister. I hope my sister's later life will have a painful and bitter return after marriage!
My brother-in-law has a sister and a brother. When my sister-in-law's family changed, my brother-in-law's brother took on the burden of her husband's family and set up the portal of her husband's family. I have to say how urgent the expectations of the older generation for the people's wealth are. The realization of this wish depends on my sister. My sister was forced to hide when she gave birth to her first daughter. When I gave birth to my son, it was winter. In other places, before the moon came out, I took my children by train for a few days and nights and bumped home all the way. My son was born less than a hundred days ago. He was admitted to hospital for emergency treatment due to intussusception, and my sister was alone at the door of the operating room. After running for many days, she was surprised and scared, and even fainted to the ground. Later, after listening to her husband's family, she became pregnant with a third child and hid in her mother's house to give birth to a daughter. My parents-in-law simply went to my parents' house to see my sister after learning about it. Other relatives can't say hello outside. The bad habit of giving birth to children and supporting the elderly in rural areas will ruin my sister's health and leave some illnesses. When the youngest child was just full moon, my sister chose to work in Guangdong, and the youngest daughter was left to my mother to raise.
? My kind and hardworking sister has worked in Guangdong handbag factory for many years. My thrifty sister goes home before the Spring Festival every year. The petite one is carrying several big luggage bags, which are full of materials for the New Year at home, clothes for her parents-in-law and three children inside and outside, and new year's goods ... My sister's diligence and cost-effective arrangement for life are just like my parents. Besides catering for a large family, Lazar has another wish. I want to move out of the corner of Taitou Village. When I had a little savings in my hand, my sister began to realize her wish. Because she is not a resident of He Fan Street, her sister spent a lot of money on the foundation of her house. My sister doesn't have enough money, so she is poorer. What do we do? When a family is in trouble, friends and relatives help each other! I took some from me, my mother supported some, and my brother-in-law's sister-in-law also gave corresponding help within her power. You can see through people's hearts best when it comes to borrowing money. Although my mother can't be described as "loving money like life", she is really a miser. However, when my brother and sister needed money to buy something, my mother did not hesitate to give her full support! Parents love their children in every way!
? The tuition and miscellaneous fees of three children, the human expenses at home, and the debts owed by building a house made my sister and brother-in-law overwhelmed in those years. My sister still has a vision, and the three-story building appreciated as soon as it started. In order to get more pay, my sister has been working overtime on the assembly line of the factory for many years. Every Spring Festival, I see my sister's dark and thin figure at home. I secretly pray that my three children will grow up quickly and be obedient and sensible. I hope my sister is healthy and young; I hope that good people will have a safe life and have more expectations for life. ...
Besides, my brother. From birth, I was regarded as a treasure by my grandfather and parents. It is inevitable to be spoiled and have a big temper. After I dropped out of school, my sister dropped out of school soon. My brother is the only boy in the family, so he should read more books. Who knows that my younger brother is unwilling to study and will drop out of school. I still remember that my dull father was so angry that he hit his brother to school with a bamboo broom. However, my brother was spoiled by his parents and developed a stubborn temper. How can he understand the expectations in the eyes of his parents? After dropping out of school, my brother went to primary school to study art.
? After the married brother gave birth to his daughter, his parents helped build a new building. In order to make a living, my brother bought a second-hand truck to run short-distance freight at home. A series of bad things started at home. First, my sister-in-law was pregnant with a boy, and then when the truck went downhill, the brakes failed and hit a big tree, and the car was scrapped. Fortunately, people are safe! Repeated disasters, thinking that a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise! In the first month of 2003, I did a small business in Baojing, Xiangxi, Hunan, because a person rented a storefront and didn't go home during the Spring Festival. My brother-in-law was working as a miscellaneous foot doctor in his hometown. My sister called me and said that my brother was ill. I thought it was a cold at first, so I had an intravenous drip at my sister's house. Instead of getting better, my brother-in-law sent his brother to Linxiang Traditional Chinese Medicine Hospital. Instead of getting better, he got worse. Brother-in-law was anxious to transfer his brother to Yueyang First People's Hospital overnight and was diagnosed as acute icteric hepatitis. Thanks to my brother-in-law's hands-on, he was transferred to the hospital in time and did not delay his brother's illness. My mother comforted me, "Better, better ..." My mother muttered something on the phone. I didn't hear my mother's panic and helplessness in her voice to comfort me in the distance on the phone. Just when I was relieved that my brother was really well, I received a phone call from my sister Wei, who was a classmate with her brother. "Your brother is getting worse and worse. Your sister has gone out to work. Your parents didn't claim that your brother is better, which is a lie and a relief to you. I'll tell you the truth, make up your mind quickly! " Sister-in-law's words suddenly came as a bolt from the blue! I discussed it with her husband for a while and immediately packed my bags and drove back to Yueyang the next day. Here, say thank you to my sister-in-law! Because of your reminder, my brother's timely treatment was guaranteed. Thanks again!
? When I hurried to the First Hospital of Yueyang City, my brother's attending doctor, my father and uncle were eagerly waiting for me. The younger brother got married, built a house, bought a car and was hospitalized, which made his parents heavily in debt. Everyone is waiting for my money to save people, and my people are determined. Looking at the yellow-faced woman's younger brother lying in the hospital bed and her anxious but helpless father, I immediately made a brief agreement with the attending doctor. Follow the doctor's advice and let the doctor decide everything! Attending doctor Jyugo graduated from Hengyang Medical College only two years ago. I have to say here that no matter how bad people are, they are unlucky and have unexpected luck! Dr. Jyugo introduced his brother's condition and the effective treatment plan at present, and invited experts and professors from the hospital for consultation. Because my brother's bilirubin rose rapidly, much higher than normal, I decided to give my brother an artificial liver transplant. The so-called artificial liver exchange is a big exchange of blood. Normal plasma is injected into the artery, and blood contaminated by virus is discharged from the vein through the circulation of the body. Artificial liver replacement once, the pure cost is 8 thousand yuan. In 2003, money was more valuable, and 8,000 yuan was still a big expense for poor families. Before he was admitted to the hospital, his brother had borrowed money from others because of various family problems, and his taste was deeply left out. Faced with the aggravation of the disease, the high daily expenses of the hospital, elderly parents and debt-ridden families, my brother wants to give up treatment, but he is worried that fruitless treatment will drag down his life. My parents have been unable to raise money, and the hope of hospitalization is pinned on me. Although I have been busy in the ward-doctor's office-canteen since I arrived at the hospital, I am also worried about my brother's later treatment, but I know I have to be strong, and I am the backbone now. I gave myself a smile and turned to give my brother a smile in the hospital bed. "You don't have to worry about money. Your brother-in-law has already credited the money to my card. You are so young, you must get better! You just need to relax and cooperate with the doctor.
? Life will give the victims the dawn of life, and they will inadvertently meet the noble people in life at the corner. Here, I would like to express my deep gratitude to Dr. Jyugo from Yueyang People's Hospital, a respectable person in the Li family. Dr. Zhu is young, tall and handsome, dedicated, skilled, chivalrous and kind. I went to Dr. Zhu to explain my brother's current situation and asked him to let go of the treatment. I promise the follow-up expenses. I hope every penny can save lives. Dr. Zhu said little, nodded and gave me a look of "working together". Dr. Zhu's acquiescence calmed my elder sister's parents a little. Before the operation, Dr. Zhu asked me to go to the drugstore outside to buy two bottles of albumin. When he operated on his brother, he injected it into the body at the same time, and the effect was better than external injection. At that time, the hospital charge was a bottle of 300 yuan. At that time, I went to several large pharmacies in Yueyang, 190 bought two bottles and personally gave them to Dr. Zhu. My brother had his first operation as scheduled. Dr. Zhu told me that it is best to have a second operation, but the cost is a problem. If my brother can resist and bilirubin can come down, there is no need to have two operations.
? Bed 23 is a 2 1 year-old boy who was admitted to the hospital the day after my brother was admitted to the hospital. After the Spring Festival, I bought a ticket and went to work in other places. I just don't feel well. I thought I had a cold, so I had an intravenous drip in the small clinic. The condition worsened and he was admitted to hospital due to hepatic coma. The doctor suggested immediate artificial liver replacement. The family accompanied by the boy and the relatives and friends who came to visit all wore famous brands, so I don't think my home is too bad. I don't know why I've been putting off the operation. Later, I heard that my family took the boy's medical record to Changsha Xiangya Hospital, hoping to go to the provincial hospital for better treatment. I also heard that Xiangya Hospital also arranged artificial liver replacement surgery, and the boy's family finally decided to go to Yueyang No.1 doctor for treatment. But the boy's blood was dark and thick like soy sauce, and the hospital refused to agree to the operation. But the boy's family transferred him to Xiangya Hospital. A week later, the boy's family came to the hospital to go through the unfinished formalities. According to the doctor, the boy has been in a coma since he had an operation in Xiangya. What a sunny boy, what a young boy. How cruel and fragile life is! If the boy is admitted to the hospital, his family will fully cooperate with the doctor and not waste time, maybe there will be those auspicious clouds in the boy's life.
? On the third day after the operation, bilirubin rebounded again. Dr. Zhu suggested a second operation at once. The younger brother lying in the hospital bed refused with tears. I told my husband about his brother, and he immediately called 15 thousand. Thank you, my husband, for maintaining the business and taking care of the children. Thank you for marrying my husband. With the help of your righteous words, my brother was put to the test under my parents' knees, and my brother had parents, wives, children and a complete family. I raised the money I received and said to my brother, "You don't have to worry about money, you just need to be optimistic and brave!" " Mental factors account for half of the therapeutic effect, and medical means only account for half. "
? With the warmth my brother met in his life and the care of his family, he is getting better every day. After two years' rest, come to my shop to help, and then pay off the debts one by one when you earn the remuneration. Thanks to my brother's hard work, my business began to prosper. In this way, a few years later, my brother stood on his own feet, opened his own shop and started another gentle and unexpected life.
? Time goes straight ahead, with no end, only the intersection. How much life is forbearing but silent, and how much sadness is hard to say. Bless my brother, be gentle from now on, have your own honey from now on, and have your own four-leaf clover from now on.
After returning to my hometown for many years, I became the "accompanying mother" of the fashion army. "At a small classmate party, an outspoken classmate inadvertently talked about a classmate, telling everyone not to have a conscience. If you get something that doesn't belong to you, you will lose it." I already know what you said. "I smiled and went back." Ah, you know? ! I thought you didn't know. "The classmate who spoke closed his mouth in surprise. Life has honed me and made me walk a lot. Many years ago, it was rumored that I was admitted to a secondary school and was replaced by a classmate. I once told my family that they had heard about it and kept it from me. First, I have been away from my hometown since I got married, and second, I am afraid that I will be sad. 1988 senior high school entrance examination, there was no computer at that time, and the data were not included in the microcomputer. It's already an old emperor, so there's no way to look it up. Whether it is true or not, let the past go with the wind, have gone with the wind, have gone with the wind. Today, I have a son and a daughter, and they are well received. The husband is diligent in taking care of the family, the children are sensible and enterprising, and the family is happy. Today, my happiness is the most real life. All this is the result of my hard work with my family. I deserve my happiness!
Life is like a rose, each petal represents a dream, and each thorn represents a reality. Because of these painful experiences, life would be meaningless without poverty and misfortune. Just as a cocoon will never become a beautiful butterfly without painful struggle; Without the repeated tempering of gravel, mussels will never produce crystal clear and noble pearls.
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? There are too many irreversible things in life. Since I am still alive, I will move on. People who have experienced great suffering have the right to prove that creating happiness and suffering belong to the same ability. -Zhou.
Invincible,
Everything is blessed,
This is for good luck!