The image has changed too much-if time is a knife to kill pigs, then marriage is pig food. In the past, every greasy married man was a little fresh meat. This should be the biggest change that many married men can see with the naked eye-getting fat. As the marriage progress bar is slowly elongated, the man's face also widens horizontally; The neck is getting shorter and shorter; The belly is also developing in the direction of "pregnant August" day by day.
This is the person who finally found the offer and just gave up on himself? Everyone's wife should be rewarded with a banner-a professional pig farmer.
Psychologically, it is becoming more and more Buddhist-the wife and children are hot on the kang, and life is like this. Before marriage, they were still warm-blooded youths. After marriage, they became Nuo Nuo's uncle. Life is very good now, so it's best to maintain the happiness at present, and it hasn't changed much, so it's decadent. Before marriage, treat you as a treasure; After marriage, treat you like grass.
This should be a problem encountered by many women. Before you get married, you ask him to hit a cockroach. He runs faster than anyone. After marriage, you may need to face many unknown things calmly alone, but he is expressionless. In fact, men's thinking and women's thinking are really not one dimension. He thinks this is normal. If they get married, who will be the same as before? That's how my parents live.
But women are different. Women don't enter life with peace of mind so soon. They still need romance and love. Men can become their fathers in one day, but women need a long time to become their mothers.
Having said that, let's summarize it in the following small series. In life, many women complain that their husbands have changed greatly before and after the wedding. Sometimes I even feel that I have turned one person into another. Including men's problems. For example, after the novelty, men's enthusiasm for women decreased significantly. As the saying goes, people are animals that don't pay much attention to their bodies. When he has no women, he will be reluctant to part with them, then he will try his best to get close to them, and then he will try his best to pursue them.