Jane and I are college classmates and roommates. She comes from the plateau and I come from the northeast. In the shy little women in the dormitory, we are like two men, but the difference is that Jane's man has a delicate heart under his appearance, and I am real!
The feng shui in our dormitory was not good until graduation, and we didn't have boyfriends, so the eight of us snuggled up to each other to keep warm, which was better than sisters and stronger than gold.
But we all agree that Jane is like our mother!
She wakes us up every morning,
Shouting, let's make the bed,
When sweeping the floor, my mother muttered that I was sloppy.
It's cold, remind us to wear long pants.
Carefully send water and medicine when you are sick.
Always thinking about taking back the forgotten quilt hanging outside,
Can mend clothes and repair zippers. ...
At home, she can do everything my mother will do for us, so Jane is like her mother, and we all love her very much.
We all say that in the future, Jane's husband will be super happy and have such a careful and virtuous wife, just like marrying her mother.
Unexpectedly, one sentence became a prophecy.
After graduation, Jane returned to her hometown and became a special post teacher, taking root in the plateau and watering the flowers of the motherland.
She and her husband met while preparing for the exam. They are classmates in primary school. They haven't been in touch for many years. I didn't expect to get together after a stroll. Fate is so wonderful.
During that time, Jane's circle of friends was different in style, full of sweetness and love. We can see that she is very happy. She always tells us shyly that she really likes her boyfriend. In the days when she is preparing for the exam, she is always anxious. Her boyfriend has been with her, telling her jokes, reviewing with her, taking her to school to listen to the teacher's lectures, entering the examination room together, and nervously waiting for the results to be announced. It was the most tense moment of her adult life. He has been with her. When she told me this, her mouth was still involuntarily raised and her eyebrows were still smiling.
Later, both of them were admitted as they wished. On the day when the results were announced, her boyfriend took her to eat western food, watch movies and send roses, which was for nothing. Listening to her description of the scene at that time, we can see the little peach heart fluttering across the screen of the mobile phone.
Later, they got together. Being assigned to a different place, they started a long-distance relationship. The environment in which Jane works is extremely bad. At the foot of the snow-capped mountain far away from the town, Tibetans living there can hardly speak Mandarin, and communication has become a problem. And although they are far away from the world of mortals, there is no lack of intrigue on the pure land of the plateau. On many lonely and cold nights, she couldn't sleep, missed her parents and homesick, and even missed him as a teacher.
After two years of long-distance love, separated by hundreds of kilometers, they told each other their thoughts by mobile phones and letters, supported each other and encouraged each other, and finally came to bloom after hardships. Both of them were admitted to civil servants and transferred back to work in counties. They don't have to complain about longing for a thousand miles and being disappointed with the moon. Let's get together and get married early!
The two soon put marriage on the agenda, ready to meet their parents and discuss buying a wedding room, but when she went to see her in-laws with joy and a little shyness, her heart was cold. My mother-in-law doesn't like her, she doesn't like her very much, and she doesn't even want to do field work. Her cold words and cold face made her heart sink slowly.
When her boyfriend found something wrong, he comforted her and whispered something to her mother. Later, although his mother didn't treat her coldly, she didn't talk to her much. She fidgeted for two days to go back, but her boyfriend's mother obviously didn't want to say that she was delicate and the girls in the city were not easy to serve. Jane was full of grievances and had to swallow it.
After coming back from her boyfriend's house, Jane became silent. Boyfriend knows that she feels wronged, so she always spends more time with her and is gentle with her. At that time, Jane thought that it was the man in front of her, not her mother-in-law. As long as this man is single-minded to her, that's enough.
However, love is a matter for two people and marriage is a matter for two families.
Boyfriend's mother began to block their communication in various ways. Jane could bear it at first. She knew that her boyfriend was on her side, but then one time, she finally broke out. When her boyfriend's mother called them again to say goodbye, she finally couldn't help it. She grabbed the phone and shouted,
"Aunt, why are you doing this?"
The person on the other end of the phone froze for an instant, and her boyfriend froze for an instant, but immediately grabbed the phone and yelled at her.
"What are you doing? How can you talk to my mother like that? "
Say that finish no matter Jane, take the phone away, Jane looked at his back, she hoped he could come back, patted her on the head as before, and comforted her gently, but he didn't, and her gentle words comforted her, all of which were given to her mother on the other end of the phone.
That day was the first cold war since they fell in love. She didn't wait for him until very late. When she called, the other party simply said that she lived in the unit. It was a little cloudy that day, and like her mood, there was no gap in the sunshine.
Boyfriend's mother knew that they were quarreling and couldn't wait to find a girl for her son in her hometown. It is said that she is very gentle and virtuous. With her favorite daughter-in-law, she interfered with her son's love more frequently. The boy was caught in the middle and was in great pain. On the one hand, he raised his mother with great pains, and on the other hand, he was a soul mate. He can't move to the dormitory. He asked Jane to give him time, and also asked his mother to give him time.
Jane said, ok.
Jane's parents knew that their daughter had been wronged so much, and immediately let her cut off contact and never contact again! My daughter loves her like the apple of her eye, so if she doesn't like it, just don't call his home.
Relatives and friends also advised Jane to break up. Jane is tired, too, but she can't bear to leave it. He is the most gentle moonlight in her days of darkness, and a powerful arm when she walks alone. How could she give up the moonlight and break some arms?
Jane has been waiting for him. If this man comes back to find her and is determined to marry her, she will go with him without hesitation! But he didn't come. He said he needed time to appease his mother and convince her.
The ancients once said that the crumbling love between rocks and rocks is deceptive, and love in reality is so easy to be defeated!
When Jane decided to break up, the boy finally gave up. After so many years of affection, he knelt in front of his mother and said that he would only marry Jane, beg his parents and beg Jane's parents in his life. Finally, Jane couldn't take it anymore and cried with him. I think they both wanted to be together at that time.
Finally, they got married.
Jane thought everything would be all right, but fate always plays such a joke, doesn't it?
Jane, who lived together after marriage, found out how much her husband listened to her mother, so marrying her at the beginning should be regarded as a big violation of the world. Her mother-in-law is very picky about her nose, and Jane wants to move out. The idea was opposed by her mother-in-law as soon as it was said. Her son works hard and has a bad stomach, so he is afraid of getting stomach trouble! Be sure to let her son live at home so that she can cook for him. Jane said she could do it, but her mother-in-law scoffed.
"I don't want to make fun of my son's stomach!"
Jane was very angry and had a quarrel with her mother-in-law. When her husband came back in the evening, before Jane could speak, her mother-in-law cried and told her grievances. Jane took a cold look and went back to her room without dinner. The husband comforted his mother-in-law and went back to the room to see Jane lying in bed. She couldn't help saying that she would pull her up.
"Don't quarrel with my mother in the future, let alone move out. My mother is very wronged. Do you know? "
"Your mother be wronged? Aren't you going to ask me about my grievances? "
"What do you have to be wronged? Aren't you cooking? You're not doing very well. Besides, you and your mother have saved a lot of things! "
Looking at the man's clothes in front of him, Jane suddenly lost her desire to talk. Is this disgusting and indifferent man really the boy who encourages himself to tell jokes outside the examination room? This is the first time that Jane has regretted it.
Later, after many quarrels, Jane's parents couldn't bear to buy a suite for Jane and asked the young couple to live out. The protracted war lasted for half a year, and her mother-in-law finally let them move out. Of course, she was afraid that her son would be bullied and wouldn't let them live in the house bought by Jane's parents. She bought a property for them and decorated it properly. Jane finally moved out of the house that made her extremely depressed.
The story is not over yet. This year, Jane gave birth to a lovely daughter. Because of her busy work, her mother was going to come and help with the children, but this caused strong dissatisfaction from her mother-in-law. Their children don't need outside care! Even husbands strongly urge their children to stay at home and let their mother-in-law take care of them. But my mother-in-law is in poor health and has to take care of some old people. How can she take care of a child? My husband was angry at that time. After all, she just looked down on his parents. Because his mother wants to take care of the children, she wants to do her part and contribute to the family. She also called Jane ungrateful.
Jane works far from her mother-in-law's house, which means that if she leaves her children at her mother-in-law's house, she can only look after them for a week. How could she have the heart to let her leave her mother?
My husband is angry, and you know how to be a mother yourself, so why can't you understand my mother, how difficult she is!
It is because of understanding that she has no burden!
The husband didn't listen and insisted on putting the child next to her mother-in-law. Finally, he could not bear to say:
My wife and children can have another one, and my mother only has one!
Jane's heart finally cooled down. Looking back on her marriage for more than two years, her gentleness gradually stopped and her quarrels increased. He is no longer the jade boy who surprised her time and softened her years.
I'm glad that it's a thing of the past between pitches.
This dream finally woke up.
Jane filed for divorce and her husband acquiesced.
It turns out that it is not only the details that defeat love, but also the family! Mother's affection!
I once read a sentence that every girl is an angel. When she fell in love with a boy, she would rather break her wings and come to this world for love. When the boy no longer loves him, her wings are gone, and she can never return to the original appearance. She can only look at her bloody wings and feel dejected.
Remembering what Jane said, when she saw him kneel to his parents, she decided that he would live and die in this life.
At that time, they really really wanted to be together.
Therefore, the oath can only prove that when I took the oath, I really had the determination to combine heaven and earth without mountains. This time, not that time. During this transitional period, the Paradise Lake will be in full bloom and the endless wilderness will spread.
The past is empty, still like a dream.