It is particularly prominent to pay more attention to the cultivation of children's hobbies, such as painting, dancing, fitness and playing the piano. Let children be more temperament and competitive because of one more specialty.
Not long ago, Huang Lei's daughter Duoduo, aged 65,438+04, took part in the piano competition. Huang Lei released photos of the scene in time. In the photo, Duoduo looks like a model in professional clothes, with bright eyes and typhoon. The profile photo is very similar to that of his mother Sun Li, and is called by netizens to be carved in the same mold.
For a girl of 14, there is such a face value. It really inherited her parents' excellent genes, and with versatility, it was amazing when it grew up. The piano is her most dedicated and time-consuming hobby, even the longest lasting hobby, but she has little effect. I also won five first prizes in the piano competition last year.
Usually there are many topics, and I often go to hot search. Generally, it revolves around Huang Lei's family education and a lot of dressing. As long as she does something inconsistent with the students, she will be talked about by netizens, but she still can't stop her excellent talent.
For many educations, Huang Lei and Sun Li have made great efforts, accompanying her to study and exercise, and helping her to improve her level. Her mother, Sun Li, often takes more photos of studying, especially practicing the piano.
Huang Lei not only took many photos, but also often took photos of Mei Duo. For example, Mei Duo's handwritten oil card wishes her sister, which was recorded by Huang Lei. This also reflects that the feelings between children are better.
Children who are so sensible and excellent have a lot to do with family education. If Huang Lei and his mother Sun Li don't pay attention to education, their grades will be discounted.
After marriage, Sun Li faded out of the entertainment circle to take care of and educate her children, became a full-time mother, and raised four outstanding children. Sun Li herself has made some achievements in dancing, musical instruments, painting and fitness. She can be said to be an all-round mother, which directly affects how she educates her children.
What are the advantages of cultivating children's specialties?
1, with clear goals.
In life, I am most afraid of being a headless fly. I have no purpose or goal. Finally, I feel that I have done a lot of things, but I don't know what I like to do or what I really want.
People often say: do one thing, love one thing, love one thing, do one thing. In fact, it is to clarify your favorite career. Knowing that you like a certain line is equivalent to having a clear goal.
When a person has a clear goal, it is much easier to do things. All efforts are centered around this goal, and the chances of success are much greater. If it is carried out around your own specialties, then success is just around the corner.
2. Children have better concentration.
Specialty is one's favorite and best thing, so eyes, ears, brain, limbs and even body can easily participate in it, which can make children enter the state faster and develop the habit of concentration in constant practice.
Especially in every progress, it can not only make children happy physically and mentally, but also make children constantly pursue better results. This is a kind of competitiveness and a challenge. With this sense of independence, children will be more focused.
This is actually a good state, a positive state. After all, doing any work in the future requires concentration and professionalism, and children have laid a good foundation for their children in advance since childhood training.
Step 3 enhance self-confidence
Self-confidence is a concept that we often talk about in our daily life. The main purpose is to make children confident and show their abilities or talents. When a child has a specialty, it actually reflects a certain degree of self-confidence of the child.
As a child's specialty, he will have more experiences, which means that he will be more confident in this respect, and this self-confidence will gradually affect his confidence in other things, thus becoming an excellent child.
4. Formation of study habits
Habit is actually an unconscious act of taking immediate action, and it is a subconscious act. Habits are formed for a long time. Habits are divided into good habits and bad habits, which will be more obvious in adulthood.
Cultivating a child's specialty is actually cultivating his hobby. It is easier to form good habits and good attitudes from hobbies, which has a positive effect on children.
Habits are embodied in various aspects, such as love of study, love of labor, patience in doing things, etc. Children have specialties and favorite things, which will affect their growth.
In fact, the specialty is to have more opportunities than others and have excellent performance in a certain aspect, which will affect children's outlook on life and world, even values, and their mentality of learning and doing things.
Generally speaking, children with special skills, things that children are good at, tend to be more confident, more focused and more pursuing.