The most basic trust between people!
A colleague, full of blood, told me about his classmates. Because my classmate needed money badly, I found him and borrowed 50 thousand from him, saying when to pay him back. But when it comes to paying back the money, all kinds of excuses can't find anyone directly! ! !
Although the money was finally paid back, the classmates' feelings became strangers! ! !
And running girls, I'm always telling other people's stories. Today I can finally tell the story of being cheated!
Why am I so cheap? My story was cheated!
Walking on the road, it is difficult for someone to strike up a conversation.
Help others and cheat thousands of dollars for no reason.
Up to now, I always remember what the middle school director said.
-Kind people need wisdom, and wise people need kindness.
What about the trust between people?
In interpersonal communication, trust may be the first. With basic trust, there is communication. It's just that trust will suddenly become illusory at some point, and it may degenerate to the point where it's not even worth a lunch. This is an era of lack of trust.
We have bad feelings about everyone, our own safe world, love, friendship and even family.
Many friends, colleagues and classmates are very willing to talk to me, although I will say directly on the surface, don't pass negative energy on to me! Swallow your saliva back! ! ! Don't affect my good mood! I want to live well! !
But I am actually very happy inside. I know it's all about trust. It feels good to be trusted!
In this huge city, the trust between people has become precious. So every time we are trusted, we will enlarge and tell ourselves that trust still exists!
Cherish every moment of trust, don't live up to this trust!
Dayang was in the running group last night.
I shared a wonderful experience of being trusted.
I am an interior designer, but I am also a runner. /kloc-in 0/5 years, I met a group of interesting people with the same running hobby, and my running sister invited me to be the head of running in Shenzhen.
At that time, I also felt trusted, because I was very busy at ordinary times, and I was not sure whether I could stick to it, but I thought that if I was the head of the team, there would be no chance to be lazy, so I took the job.
These runners have known each other for about two years.
Cao Cao (one of the runners) asked me to help him design.
There is a very interesting thing. He said that he would put the treadmill at home and launch a landscape balcony. One side of the scenery is not good, and the other side is very good.
I said, put the treadmill on this side of the scenic spot, so you can run two kilometers more! hahaha
We have been communicating on WeChat, and Cao Cao said that he transferred the deposit of 1 10,000 to me.
At that time, I refused, saying that according to the regulations, I would give half first.
And he directly transferred it to me 10000. ...
We have never met. You know, people trust each other.
So, at that moment, I was very moved and even excited!
Because everyone likes running, they have similar views.
It's easier for me to show him what he wants,
As a result, Cao Cao himself said that the design was very satisfactory.
After I heard this, I was actually very moved. I don't want to run in the myth, but we really got to know each other because of running and got a lot of warmth.
Probably a runner, and his personality is not too bad!