No matter whether there are a lot of tasks waiting for you to complete around you, you'd rather open WeChat to grab a few penny red envelopes, visit Tmall and Taobao to squander some money in Ma Yunouba's coffers, or just tell a story about choosing a date to drown the value of Lu Han.
Whether you are shouting to lose weight or not, you are flaunting "How to lose weight if you don't have enough to eat?" After eating a lot, you have been complaining about your damn fat constitution.
Anyway, you have to believe that you could have had a better life than now.
On a rare weekend, when the sun was approaching the top of your head, you just opened your sleepy eyes in the unbearable alarm clock. Maybe at this time, your roommate is still sleeping. "Go to sleep for a while ..." The lazy little man in his heart said to himself, so after the diligent little man was successfully defeated, you accidentally slept until almost eleven o'clock ... "It's almost noon, forget it, let's put off yesterday's plan until the afternoon ..."
The deadline for class papers is just around the corner, and you are as busy as a bee. You scratch your head and don't know where to start. You anxiously ask about others' progress. Friends comfort you, "It's okay, I haven't finished my homework yet ... just do it casually, so what do you struggle with ..." So, the psychology of not complaining about others will give you a powerful reassurance, and you will happily hold a ode to joy with your friends.
I haven't finished the work at hand. Seeing a colleague chatting leisurely on WeChat, the lazy villain in my heart began to make trouble. "Anyway, I'm in no hurry to finish it. Let's have a rest first ... "
It is stipulated to study Japanese for two hours every day. After work, I am preparing to start implementing the plan I vowed to stick to yesterday. The friend said, "Let's get together and have fun tonight, or we won't be friends!" " You can't say no in an instant. As a result, the plan was changed again and again, and the Japanese I planned to learn in one year remained in the plan forever.
Decided to lose weight, insisted on not eating dinner for three days, and found that the weight was "unexpected" less than 0.8 kg on the fourth day. I was so happy that I decided to treat myself for many days of hard work and go to sheep scorpion hot pot for a big meal with my friends.
Easy to be lazy, easy to change, easy to give up, easy to be satisfied.
Is your current state.
But you envy those "robots" who can do countless things in one day; You admire those students who make their classroom assignments lively and interesting and get thunderous applause; You are annoyed that you haven't finished what you did today, and the result of the delay is that the problem is hard to return and everything is in a mess; You look up to that friend who speaks fluent Japanese and flies around the streets of Tokyo; You hate yourself for losing weight and getting fatter. ...
You always whisper in your mind:
"I'm so tired, I feel hopeless ..."
"How can people be so lucky ..."
"See the somebody else so easily, why can't I work hard ..."
"Drink so much chicken soup, or malnutrition, firmly opposed to chicken soup in the circle of friends, hum ..."
"I have worked hard for so long, and the efforts of others have paid off. Why didn't I? "
3.
The more disappointments, the more excuses, and the more disappointments, you will become vulgar step by step. ...
It's not appropriate to lose weight, but sweating makes you sick. ...
I want to learn Japanese, but I brush Weibo while reading. ...
I want to get rid of acne, but I can't help reaching for snacks. ...
I want to learn copywriting, but I am always afraid to start the first stroke. ...
I want a promotion and a raise, but I can't spend eight hours charging after work. ...
Want to travel, want to say goodbye to being single, want to ...
Want to succeed, but don't work hard.
However, is there any time when you will be unwilling, unwilling to degenerate, unwilling to be mediocre? Is there a moment when you think of the original geometry? You really have to carry out the established goals and plans continuously, instead of fishing for two days and drying the net for three days, persevere, even without chicken soup, you can be high-spirited ...
In fact, you could have had a good life, but you easily compromised and gave up in the face of laziness and excuses.
I could have been a lightning bolt, but I couldn't control my mouth and legs, and I was blocked by my friend Tao Kanpang.
I could have easily understood Miyazaki Hayao's movies without looking at the subtitles, but I practiced Hiragana and Katakana in front of Isuzu.
I could have written a good copy that impressed Party A, but I was still afraid of delaying writing.
I could have been financially free and satisfied with my position, but I still couldn't help working overtime.
I could have left my footprints on the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, but I was still imprisoned in a cubicle and endless computer radiation.
You could have, you could have succeeded, but you almost made a little effort, and this little effort was a thousand miles away. ...
Sometimes, your immaturity will not fade away immediately, so be brave and do it no matter what the result is. Anyway, there is nothing to lose, and making mistakes is another gain; Your efforts can't be immediate, stick to it. Chicken soup can't save you, but the goal can. Your efforts will not be rewarded immediately, so pay more. As long as you don't stop moving forward and don't forget your initiative, the future is still the future you want.
Less excuses, more actions, less laziness, more persistence, less quick success, more down-to-earth, step by step. When you get used to the hardships of your legs and look back at your own road, you will be surprised to find that you can also walk under the sky where other mountains are dwarfed. Yourself.
In fact, you could have had a better life.