I don't know when, the slogan "If a woman is fat, it will ruin everything" is everywhere, and the chicken soup article that encourages women to lose weight is even more popular. It seems that as long as a woman has a good figure, she will have a good love and marriage, while a fat woman's love and marriage must be bad and abandoned. I always feel that I am an advertising copywriter for gyms or slimming products, because in real life, too many people and things tell me that the quality of marriage must be based on respect, understanding, tolerance, accommodation, talent, knowledge, temperament, interest and so on, and has nothing to do with health.

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My sister, who has entered the age of no doubt, is the mother of two girls. She and her brother-in-law have been married for 2 1 year. She is optimistic, cheerful and open-minded, and now she is a veritable fat wife. Girls and brother-in-law are tall, thin and long-legged. From time to time, the big girl Doby's mother's short legs, and her sister pretended to be beaten. Brother-in-law always keeps up with the sentence in time: it's a good thing your mother has short legs, otherwise your father can catch up with your mother.

Brother-in-law is a good cook and is willing to cook for his family. As long as my sister wants to eat, my brother-in-law will definitely give full play to his cooking skills and always let my sister "take a bite and taste it again". His attitude and practical actions indulged his sister from 90 pounds before marriage to a fat wife now. Brother-in-law always looks at his sister lovingly and says to the two children, Look, we old girls give me more face, just like you two little things, as if our family didn't eat or drink.

After all these years of marriage, my brother-in-law never spends the night outside. When he is drunk, he always shouts that he must go home: "I want to go home, or my old girl can't sleep well." The friend who sent him home did not forget to tease his sister: "Old girl, why are you getting younger and younger?" My sister always replies cheerfully, "Big Brother has a good meal."

The chubby girl is very energetic and often has a confident smile on her face. My sister reads a lot and writes a good hand. She is fast and smart, and sometimes she helps her brother-in-law. My brother-in-law will discuss problems with my sister, and her sister will also give some pertinent opinions and suggestions, and she is dubbed as a heavyweight female secretary by her brother-in-law.

My brother and I will remind my sister whether it is time to consider the weight. Of course, we will never think that my sister is too fat to look good, but we will think about her health. Before my sister could speak, my brother-in-law said, "Your sister and I have a physical examination every year, and our health is fine. Your sister is a little overweight, but all the indicators are normal. We will pay attention to it in the future. " Since then, my sister and brother-in-law have been doing morning exercises in the riverside park in their hometown at 6: 30 every morning. They are tall, short, thin and fat, just like a combination of "high and low cabinets", and they have become a unique landscape in the park carelessly.

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Lao Xu, a high school classmate, is ill in hospital. On Sunday, I went to the hospital with some classmates. His wife, who is also his school sister in college, is handsome, tall and knowledgeable, and looks much younger and more fashionable than her actual age. Maybe she is tired in the hospital these days, with some fatigue and resentment on her brow, and she doesn't look very friendly.

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Lao Xu is wearing a large hospital gown, and his chest can still be seen fluctuating with anger and excitement. Finally, Lao Xu couldn't help it. Two people quarreled in the ward in front of us. You come and go, sparks fly, and words hurt each other. Under our persuasion, Mrs Lao Xu gave Lao Xu a hard gouge and left the ward bitterly. While apologizing to us, Lao Xu complained, "Who wants to go out and drink like a grandson to please others? Not just to live a good life for his wife and children? " This woman always plays mahjong or fights. If it weren't for her children, it would have happened long ago. She is really tired. "

When I came out of the hospital, several students felt something but didn't know what to say. A classmate who recently traveled with Lao Xu on weekdays said, "Lao Xu is also very poor. It seems that the big boss has unlimited scenery, but he cries every time he gets drunk and refuses to go home. He has been married for more than 20 years. They often quarrel for three days and make a scene for five days. It's all trivial things. They quarreled and made up, and then they quarreled again. He has been really tired and not sick. "

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After I was separated from my classmates, I got a call from my sister and asked me to go to her house for dinner. As usual, my brother-in-law cooks. I chatted with my sister and talked about Lao Xu. My sister said: in fact, in marriage, how can there be right or wrong? What's the point? However, it is also good to think from each other's standpoint, tolerate each other, understand each other and respect each other.

Two sisters were chatting when someone knocked at the door. It's Sister He, our neighbor in a big yard when we were young. She is younger than my sister and a little older than me. She came to ask her sister about her children's English study. Sister He, who is about the same weight as her sister, has lost a lot of weight and looks gaunt. If I were in the street, I might not recognize her. Only after chatting did I know that she insisted on losing weight, skipping meals and exercising in the afternoon. She has lost a lot of weight, but she has stomach trouble and is taking stomach medicine every day. Her husband thinks she is fooling around and complaining, which is not as good as before. She looked at her sister and brother-in-law with envy and repeatedly said, My sister's life is really good.

There is an advertisement for weight-loss products on TV: If a woman wants a happy marriage and a man loves her to death, she must have a devil's figure ... I giggled. Who is this advertisement fooling?

What does a good marriage have to do with your figure? A good marriage must be the result of mutual respect, understanding, tolerance, accommodation, agreement on three views, congenial tastes and personalities, and has nothing to do with being fat or thin. If you have a good marriage, you don't take credit for your figure. If you have a bad marriage, you don't carry this pot.

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