Invite swallows to share the lack of money,

The consciousness of self-love has awakened,

And her experience, growth and transformation.

Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. I am a swallow [naughty].

Thank Wen Qing and the group owner for their invitation to meet you here and talk about money, consciousness awakening and my little growth process. [naughty]

As Sister Mei Feng said, maybe some ideas shared by others can make you feel and change.

After watching the topic discussion in the group last night, I think it is not only the women in Sunshine Forest, but also the women in Guangdong. In fact, the women in the whole country are the same.

In the traditional patriarchal society for thousands of years, women's thoughts have been subtly "educated": giving, sacrificing and being virtuous. . .

If you add the maternal love and responsibility of women's nature, plus your own personality, such as the second trait in the nine types. . . It's too difficult for a woman to wake up and love herself.

Unfortunately, I am such a woman who has no self in the first half of her life.

My earning ability is not bad. As a daughter, daughter-in-law, mother and wife, I think I have done a good job.

But I never thought about how to be a beautiful self.

Looking back now, I put other people's responsibilities on my shoulders.

Over the years, I have pressed myself so tired that I thought I was sacrificing myself. In fact, I just touched myself and others didn't appreciate it.

Money, if not used here, will be used there.

If you don't use it on yourself, you can't save it.

Many women are reluctant to invest in themselves. Have you saved money?

It seems that there is no money, and it seems that you will never have enough money to invest in yourself, right?

Now that I think about it, I am also losing money.

In the secular world, women get married, and most men's parents pay for houses.

After marriage, a man should stand up and earn money to support his family.

Without hesitation, I gave my father-in-law the money and asked him to build a villa in his hometown.

Take money to buy school districts for children in the city, take money to support their families, pay their mortgage, pay auto insurance, pay tuition, do housework at home and take care of their children. . .

Men need to socialize, pay attention to others, smoke and drink. . .

I gave all the money I earned to my family and gave it to support my men. Clothes are very cheap, and they were always worn a few years ago. . .

I earn so much money that I can't bear to spend it on myself. As a result, do I have money?

not have

In the long-term efforts, it has become a habit and a matter of course. I think I am changing the world, but it will eventually dry up.

Just like a glass of water, it is poured to others constantly, but it will always dry up if it is not filled.

Energy is flowing. When your energy keeps flowing out, you can't get recognition and equal love. What will happen?

Grieved, sad, angry, accused. . .

Slowly become a dissatisfied housewife, bitch.

You see, it is obvious that you have made sacrifices for your family, but it seems that you have become an unreasonable person and an excuse for men not to go home.

The most ironic thing is that when you are dressed in household clothes, unkempt and the floor is cleaner than your face, the other party is inviting others and saying: the weather is fine and the sun is shining. Let's go for an outing together!

What's the use of being a good woman?

Many good women eventually get sick, get cancer or get depressed, and jump off a building with their children in their arms. . . Too much, too much. . .

What's the use of being a good woman?

Many good women eventually get sick, get cancer or get depressed, and jump off a building with their children in their arms. . . Too much, too much. . .

Have you ever heard an old saying? Good people don't live long, but evil things persist for thousands of years.

And I, because I lost myself, have a lot of negative emotions, my physical condition is getting worse and worse, and sub-health problems are also emerging.

My face is dry and yellow, and I don't know when the black spots climbed on my face.

People are lifeless and full of resentment.

Similarly, when dealing with children, they are anxious, hate iron not to produce, nag and urge from time to time, annoy each other, confront and argue, and no one is happy. . .

Once when I was disciplining a child, I accidentally looked up and saw myself in the mirror, and I was shocked.

A locked brow, angry eyes, and a ferocious face. . . .

God, what kind of person is this?

I hate this ghost and expect my children to like it and listen to you happily?

Do you still expect others to think you are beautiful and lovely and love you well?

Seeing that he was destroyed by himself, and seeing a baiwenhang cultivated by himself, regardless of years of mutual affection, he suddenly woke up and was relieved. . .

Start to sort out relationships and responsibilities,

Divorced, why am I still doing my wife's duty and taking on everything at home, but I have no wife's rights, which makes him more handsome and free?

The money saved, I eat and drink by myself, isn't it delicious?

Let yourself be healthy and beautiful, okay?

The mistress who has a family but ignores her family and children, plays mahjong, never wears the same clothes, has a big temper, is self-centered and strong. If you are willing to coax her, let her support you!

Women who love themselves, men will rush up.

Human nature is like this, so will I.

I began to implement health management in Sunshine Forest. Just like every predecessor, I recovered and became beautiful, and I could eat happy paradise meals for free. . .

Entering this circle is a group of high-energy people, living a new way of life and constantly upgrading for the pursuit of life.

Driven by them, with a clear life plan, there are more places to learn and improve themselves. . .

Even if you don't say this, it seems that there is not enough time to watch all the groups, and there is not enough time to listen to all the group lessons. How can you have time to think about things and create all kinds of negative emotions?

Slowly, for children, I am no longer so worried and anxious, saying to myself: everyone can only be responsible for himself and cannot replace another life.

Only by loving yourself and enriching yourself can we face life with an inclusive, grateful and peaceful attitude.

When he caught a cold, I kindly gave him a nutritional formula. He accepted it and said it was like poison. I want to poison him.

When he gets over his cold, he won't admit my credit, saying that he bought medicine and ate well.

I swear, I will never take the initiative to do thankless things again.

Looks like karma is coming soon. Once he had diarrhea for two days and three nights, and I tried to ignore it. He couldn't help it, so he went to buy antidiarrheal drugs.

But he didn't understand, thought it would be good to control the symptoms, and then went out to eat meat with friends.

I didn't think about it. I pulled it for five days and five nights at night. I saw that his face was sallow, his skin was dehydrated, he didn't get enough sleep, and he was depressed, which was terrible.

For my father's sake, I asked faintly, do you want to eat a nutritional formula?

I didn't expect him to promise very readily, as if he had been waiting for me to ask.

Probiotics, vitamins, liquid diet, nutritional supplements, fruit and vegetable juice. . .

I stopped pulling at the last night and had a good sleep.

The next day, I was very happy. In the next few days, I obediently refused to eat rice and meat, so he closed his eyes and drank too much.

I wonder, is a nutritious breakfast that bad?

Later, I stopped saying that I was a pyramid scheme and said, I can apologize and explain to my friends.

I said: no, I am a nutritionist or a pyramid scheme. Over time, I have my own judgment.

As if to verify the general situation, some time ago, by chance, my classmates invited me to dinner.

Several families got together and haven't seen each other for two years.

I never like makeup. I took a shower, did skin care and then put on cream.

I didn't want to see them, but I was shocked. They are much older, their faces are dark, their skin is dry and black, and they are covered with spots and wrinkles. . .

They were all surprised to see me, saying that I was so young that there were no wrinkles in my eyes. . .

Sitting among them, I am the most beautiful woman.

Full of energy, good complexion, white skin and looks like a little girl.

Although I am not very satisfied with myself, after all, there are too many goblins who practice high in the sunshine forest, and the younger ones with better skin have been caught.

But on earth, I am the envy of them.

It is also two years, why is there a world of difference?

Because they don't understand nutrition, they are mainly taking the road of traditional women, and nannies sacrifice for their families and children.

I can't bear to spend money on myself, because my husband is important, my children are important, and everything is important, except me. . .

In the sunshine forest, at first I thought conditioning was the most important thing.

Later, it was found that it was only the most basic, and what was more important was the improvement of body and mind, personal growth, pattern improvement, breakthrough of thinking, strengthening of personality and compassion of life. . .

You are you, but you are not you. . .

Last time I mentioned the child's father's alimony that month, he said he had no money. Then he habitually accused me of buying so many luxury goods and losing my home!

If it was before, I was angry and wronged immediately, and then I quarreled loudly.

But after listening to him, I couldn't help laughing.

After laughing, I looked at him gently and sarcastically said, how did I lose my family?

First of all, you never gave me money to spend. I can't beat you.

Second, I didn't care about my children's family life, and my salary was spent at home.

Third, my nutrients are earned by my extra sideline.

Is it difficult to show you all the money I earn so that I don't lose my family?

If you have no money, you can quit smoking. You can save yourself money by not going out to drink and play.

Fourth, it is my right to spend whatever I want. What does it have to do with you?

He stood there speechless for a long time.

I used to be a weak point,

Inner fragility, courtship, no principles, no bottom line,

Because we can't get the balance of energy, we react superficially, get angry, quarrel and call names.

Life is retrogressive. . .

Everyone can only wake up and grow on their own, and only they can be responsible for themselves.

Sunshine Forest is a good place to practice, various ways to improve, and a group of family members who love each other with the same frequency.

If you are awake, just follow the rhythm. If you don't want to wake up, no one can wake up the pretender.

Growth after pain comes at a price.

Sunshine forest allows you to avoid costs and rely directly on the experience of predecessors to grow.

Of course, may your life be painless, and may you meet a better life.

Finally, I would like to make a note that I shared it with the Youth League once before. If you have time, use it as a review. You are not commenting on the article itself, but thinking about your life!

Every woman should bloom.

Yanzi 8278

You are young and beautiful,

You're proud and independent,

You used to have a temperament, like poetry and distance.

But when does it start,

You slowly lost yourself?

At 8 o'clock tonight, I'm going to dissect you.

As a woman, how should it bloom?

Become your most precious wealth!

Hello, everyone, I'm a swallow. Sharing such a theme today is also where I grew up and where I am weak.

Most of this group are women. I don't know if you have the feeling that in this patriarchal society, the value of women seems to be evaluated by men. Men's feelings determine women's understanding of themselves.

The idea that men are rulers is deeply rooted. From officialdom to ordinary people, it seems that women are born to be sacrificed. A woman who is unwilling to sacrifice is equivalent to "not a good woman."

The patriarchal system of society requires the second-class women in society to either give up their hopes and dreams obediently or turn to cater to the needs of men and families.

And women also take this for granted, until the deepening of family life, only to find that they have lost their women and gradually lost their value.

And worthless women don't get the respect they deserve. Women who are not respected for a long time will either get serious diseases or have serious family conflicts. The truth can't be hidden, and problems will break out sooner or later. So what do women need to change and avoid?

Healthy body

Because women's self-expression and self-realization are deeply suppressed. This kind of depression will certainly bring great emotional pain to women, which will lead to various psychological problems, and these persistent psychological problems will lead to the disorder of endocrine, nervous and immune functions, leading to various diseases. Including hysteromyoma, ovarian cyst, breast cancer, cervical cancer and gynecological inflammation.

Most women have been ill almost all their lives, and various health problems have been bothering them all the time, which has quickly affected their emotions, and the bad and changeable emotions have in turn affected the happiness of the whole family.

Therefore, a woman's health is related to a family. A woman is ill, and the whole family is ill. Therefore, women's health is more important than children and husbands. Most women eat less snacks than boys, not only less, but also much less! However, they don't seem to realize that the distance to school is the same, the class time is the same, the air pollution, water pollution and food problems they need to face are the same, and the work pressure they need to face now is the same.

Most women lack activity, adequate food intake, joy and passion since childhood. The process of their growth is actually a morbid process of nurturing the weak women.

Therefore, women have been in a great deviation from the beginning, whether from the quantity and quality of food, or from the amount of exercise in the process of growing up and the happiness of the mood.

Eating less and exercising less is already a problem, and women will lose a lot of blood every month. For most women, the loss accumulated month after month and year after year is a great challenge. In addition, if you have to give birth in the future, if you don't know how to take care of it during pregnancy, it will cause harm.

Lack of nutrition in food leads to physical weakness, and it is trained as a prey that needs fear from an early age. In the process of growing up, most women unconsciously form a psychology that needs protection. This extremely insecure psychological state makes them more uneasy, worried, fearful, anxious and suspicious than men.

Second, learn to love yourself.

We often say that love is in direct proportion to giving. If you want to get love, you must first learn to give.

However, we often overlook that, in many cases, the more you pay, the more you get. On the contrary, some efforts are not only unrewarded, but also counterproductive.

In love and marriage, those who love more often shed tears first, and those who care more often bow their heads.

You know, if you pay too much unilaterally, the balance of feelings will be unbalanced one day; Some things, the more you do, the less the other person loves you.

1. Too kind to let men worry about their efforts.

Hong Huang said that the unlucky women in China are virtuous.

If women are too diligent and do all the housework, men will become more and more lazy; Women are too virtuous, old people and children at home and abroad worry about themselves, and men will gradually become shopkeepers of cutting.

In short, if women work hard at everything, men will only take it for granted over time.

When women are overwhelmed by household chores, when men never feel the sense of giving, women will become more and more tired, and men will gradually resent women's triviality and greasy, even boring.

2. It's so cheap that I'm never willing to invest in myself.

It is a good thing for a woman to be diligent in housekeeping, but many women often have a common problem after marriage, that is, they are very willing to give it to their parents, husbands and children, but only to themselves.

I don't need my favorite cosmetics, so I will leave them to my children. Don't buy clothes you like, save buying a pair of shoes for your husband ... women always think that they have more time at home and can make do with it.

Make do with it, not refined, and become a yellow-faced woman in the eyes of men. Many things are important, so they are not that important. A lot of things are urgent, but I'm not that urgent.

3. I care too much. Be swayed by considerations of gain and loss makes men feel suffocated.

If you care about a person, you can't help but pay attention to his every move, but if you care too much about a person, you will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and any trouble will make you suspicious.

If a woman puts all her heart into a man, she will feel extremely insecure in her feelings. However, "I love you" in exchange for constant assurances and promises is often the most insecure thing.

No one likes to be bound, even in the name of love, especially men. You care too much, care too much and want too much, which will only make men suffocate more and more and want to escape more and more.

4. Too dependent, lost the ability to be independent

Once women rely too much on men and lose their independent ability and self-confidence, they will gradually widen the gap with men, stop being a high-level person, and even gradually lose the same language, thus getting bored and bored.

5. Too humble, losing the bottom line again and again.

When a person makes a mistake in love, he is stupid.

Stupid people always think that concessions and humbleness can be exchanged for cherishing and cherishing, but what they often get is another mistake, injury and abandonment of the other side.

Women are too humble to tolerate, and will never let men appreciate your generosity, but will make them push their luck more and more to test your bottom line.

6. I am too sensible to swallow any grievances alone.

Crying children have candy to eat, and sensible women are not hurt.

A sensible person is kind and soft-hearted. They are afraid to disturb others. They obviously want someone to care, but they never ask for it. They obviously want someone to share it, but they never ask for it.

A sensible woman always swallows grievances and then silently plays an understanding role. She understands the implication of many people, but many people will never understand her words.

Slowly, even the closest people will take it for granted that it doesn't matter to her, it doesn't matter to her, she can understand, she can understand, she will forgive ... it's too low to hurt a sensible woman.

Not every woman is so lucky to meet a man who knows how to care for women like Teacher Haifeng.

But even such a good man once said: No matter who you love, you are the only treasure that really deserves your love in this life. You have been a delicate and beautiful woman all your life, which is your most basic morality and responsibility! Everything else is based on this. How can I face you if you can't love yourself?

By the way, let's read a letter from the teacher to his wife, Miss Enri.

Really sigh, such a man is rare in the world, and such a woman is happy and proud.

If you never give up on yourself, sacrifice yourself for no reason and underestimate yourself! You will be more and more attractive!

Little fairies are for watching! Women are for sacrifice! Demons are for self-pity! Sunshine forest is where you become a demon. If you don't know how to grasp, cherish and grow, it is a great waste.

Third, the spirit should be independent.

Many girls dress up very seriously before getting married. She takes herself seriously, studies hard, has her own friends, knows how to travel, has an independent life, knows how to work and has an independent career.

However, as soon as many people get married, she feels that she has found someone to take charge of it, so she pushes the responsibility to others and marries them to bear it.

As a result, one day it was discovered that although others were responsible, they were not satisfied with everything, and some of them were not doing well enough. The woman felt very miserable, dumped and cheated.

Seriously, no one lied to you, but you didn't pay attention when the contract was signed. The contract doesn't specify that you can be happy all the time and take care of you all the time. The contract just tells you that you have a partner.

Besides, even if he wants to be responsible for you, what responsibility can he take for you? The mood is yours and the body is yours. You decide whether you are happy or not, whether you are angry or not, how fast you eat, and how much water you drink. Who can really be responsible for you?

Some men mistakenly think they can rely on them. However, I don't know that providing such a creed will certainly cultivate an ignorant and incompetent woman. As such a woman grows older, any man will inevitably want to abandon this trouble and burden.

Men unconsciously cultivate a woman they will eventually hate, and women actually cooperate with this plan seriously, treating such dependence as a sacrifice and a virtue!

Fourth, the economy should be independent.

Women should have independent careers. It can keep your independent personality, and she can keep you alive with dignity. Even if your own career is not very big, it can keep you growing and progressing.

A clever man should know how to let his girl do something that belongs to him, but many men have done something wrong, that is, once he conquered and pursued the girl, his selfish instinct came back, and he made the girl give up her career. Give up your own sky and then sacrifice for him.

It turns out that boys probably just want girls to spend more time and energy on him, but they don't realize that once a woman loses the sky, it can't be beautiful, because it just becomes an accessory.

During this period, the core leaders of the Youth League are working hard to lead us, seize this beautiful cause, achieve economic independence and realize financial freedom.

The economic base determines the superstructure. In the vernacular, money means high family status.

Speak loudly if you have money; If you have money, you can be the master and plan the life you want; If you have money, you can have confidence: I am the first in the world.

In this most beautiful time, you must wake up: you are the most precious wealth, and you must bloom brilliantly.

Sunshine forest is a place where you can grow in all directions, as long as you act.

Because, if you are a woman and your husband is excellent, you must grow up, otherwise you can't keep up with him.

If you are a woman and your children are not excellent, then you must grow up, because you must lead her thoughts.

If you are a woman and your child is excellent, you must grow up, because you can't be a stumbling block to him.

Women's growth is more important than success!

And when you grow up, you are destined to succeed.

I hope every woman can firmly control her life and be her most precious wealth.

My sharing is over. Go to Sunshine Forest Theater later [naughty].

Love you [love] [love] [rose] [rose]

The swallow's light is shining!

Once a woman awakens, the sufferings of her predecessors become the blessings of the rest of her life [strong] [strong] [strong] [strong]