Before I became a good parent, my life was like leaves scattered by the wind, and over time the wind passed. But failed to take root, sprout, blossom and bear fruit like the seeds of Bo Gongying.

My life has only been called by time, but it is not what live high wants. Because I don't know what kind of life I want.

Even if I had such an idea, it flashed in my mind, and I didn't plant the seeds of a long-term dream in my heart. I didn't draw a visual picture of my future life, reminding myself from time to time.

Dreams should be rooted in the heart and put into practice for a long time. The most effective result of action is the correct method, which comes from the experience of successful people. Instead of trying to figure it out yourself.

Therefore, life needs a mentor. Doing anything without a tutor is laborious and time-consuming.

I am a slow-witted person. It took me a long time to remember Nini's weekly sharing. Looking back, I found that her day shift included personal orientation, how to build a brand, how to complete the day shift and how to write stories, but she didn't know what to write for herself. I have no idea. I often get up in the middle of the night and go to bed at five.

I read an article by Jason last night, saying: Imitation is the best study, and being a good parent is also the best study. Yes, other people's experience is available, and other people's methods have also been proved to be successful and effective. Why bother to try and make mistakes?

In the past, my understanding of the word "imitation" was a bit biased, and I thought it was immoral to copy and borrow other people's things. But it's different now. Everyone is willing to share their ideas, experiences and achievements so that more people can see and learn.

Imitation is the best learning. Who should I imitate? Who will I be in the future?

External image Who should I follow to shape myself? Who should time management learn from? Who should the implementation method imitate? I want to find out one by one.

I want to write a good article and an article that can bring me benefits. I want to imitate Nini and the girl with a pen cover; I want to imitate Jason in my career, with love in my heart and strong action.

Moreover, Jason was a guide who gave me hope and made me change at the lowest point of my life. Good parenting is also my favorite occupation.

With benchmarks, I have a direction to do things, and I know the focus of my actions. My actions are no longer useless, and I want to be an elegant old lady in the future.