To be a person who has requirements for himself, people should have their own goals and directions in life. If you don't be strict with yourself in the long job search process, you won't achieve much even if you succeed. If you want to succeed, you must ask yourself. Let's see how to be a person who has requirements for himself.
Be a person who has requirements for himself 1 I have a male colleague, single and virgo. On weekdays, he always wears a suit and tie, and his white shirt always looks like he just bought it from the store. Although our company also requires to wear professional clothes to work, people like Big Brother are really rare. In our industry, we often have to stay up late to write plans and go to the proposal early the next morning.
Once, we finished writing the plan at 4 am and went home to sleep one after another. When we met at the client company at 9: 00 in the morning, one after another, we were still sleepy with coffee. Big brother has a suit and tie, a white shirt and sparkling eyes. He also sprayed something he didn't know was hair gel or wax. I feel that he has just finished modeling and is very stylish. We all asked him sadly, "Brother, didn't you go home to sleep?" "No, I went home to iron my shirt, then took a shower, brushed my teeth, shaved my hair and had a cup of coffee." "Eldest brother, aren't you sleepy? Wouldn't you be blind if you lost? " "Gee, I am a man who has requirements for himself. Even if I lose the lawsuit, I have to lose, but I can't lose. "
Many friends around me are pregnant and have children this year, and the circle of friends is full of posts in which postpartum mothers complain about not losing weight and not recovering. As a person with professional fitness experience, although he has no experience, he knows that although postpartum hard work and breastfeeding will greatly reduce his weight, if he wants to completely restore his prenatal state and get a fashionable and wealthy figure, he still needs to rely on fitness, whether he enters the gym 3~6 months after delivery or climbs the stairs himself every day. In order to prevent myself from being lazy after childbirth, I booked postpartum recovery training in the gym and hired a professional coach. I want to share this method with my complaining friends, but without exception, I always hear: "I am too busy with my children to exercise." "Just let it go. Anyway, I gave birth to my husband and he can't abandon me. " "Is there any way to keep fit without working hard? You see, I can't go on a diet while breastfeeding. " In this respect, although I have no right to speak for the time being, I remember the story of the handsome girl who is very popular on Douban. As we all know, handsome girls began to lose weight on the 36th day after delivery, and recovered their prenatal figure on 100, which was sought after on the Internet. Many people pursue her slimming action and her daily diet, thinking that they can be as beautiful and thin as her, but many people forget her spirit of high self-discipline. As a postpartum mother, isn't it hard for her to have children? Don't her children have to be breastfed every two hours? Is there 10 nanny around her house to take her out of the gym? Although I don't know her, I believe that she is as hard and busy as all mothers, and even has anxiety and anxiety about her new life. But unlike many mothers, she wanted to do it, and she really overcame all difficulties to do it. Today, as the mother of a two-year-old child, she has become the new editor-in-chief of fashion COSMO magazine with her graceful figure and exquisite makeup, and often travels in the forefront of fashion all over the world. Many people envy her, saying that she is lucky and that she must have married a good husband, but no matter what you say about her, as long as you can't learn her harshness and requirements, you can only envy her forever.
When I was young, I always felt that life should be happy-go-lucky, as long as I was reliable in big things, and I didn't need to care too much about small things. For example, it doesn't matter whether the floor at home is swept once every three days or once every five days, whether it is reading casually or 30 pages a day, whether it is going home to study for an hour at night or watching TV first, and whether the clothes should be ironed or not. But when I grow up, I find that those who are careless about the little things in life are not serious about the big things at all. For example, I will still be habitually late for important exams, and I will be uncomfortable when I wear my senior uniform and play badly during project reporting. In daily life, I have become accustomed to my own' free and loose indulgence' and have long lost the concept of self-discipline. When you want to be nervous, you find that everything is like a bed when you just wake up, and you can't find anything.
In fact, there is nothing important in life, but every little thing is gathered together and shaped into a person. If you want to achieve something, what you are most afraid of is not that you have no luck, no money, no bole, but that you have no requirements for yourself from the beginning. A person who has no demands on himself is not qualified to have any demands on the world.
That big brother got married last year and found someone who has the same high requirements for life. He comes to work spotless every day, blinding everyone around him.
In fact, life doesn't need chicken blood all the time, but people and things around us who are better than you and me are the objects we need to seriously think about; There are not many great events in life, but a little demand for every little thing makes it look the best.
Be a person who has requirements for himself. 2. The outstanding women I admire most in this company. Call her Z.Z., like me, is the mother of the child. She is a well-off woman, but this does not affect my respect for her, although I have always taken hating wealth as my life responsibility.
Like me, she has always insisted on taking care of the children by herself. My mother-in-law goes to her house to work every day. When she gets up in the morning, she will take care of the children while painting delicate makeup. When she walks in, you can see a faint three-dimensional shadow on her nose, so I think it should take her about an hour to make up, from eyeliner, eye shadow and powder cake. I really don't know anything about makeup terms. Stick to it every day and never slack off. Every time I see her, she has a delicate and beautiful face and meticulous hair over her shoulders. Yesterday, she wore a black silk slim coat, plus a light gray woolen hip-wrapped skirt, barefoot wearing pointed bright black stilettos, and thin shoelaces buckled on her thin ankles, which set off a piece of fair skin. This beautiful suit is not important, what is important is that this simple and not simple professional suit is worn on her. It really feels like a model coming down from the Finnish fashion runway lit up the whole office.
This is what I admire about her. She has never relaxed her demands on herself. In image, she is meticulous and a mother. She has never been a cutting shopkeeper because of her rich family, and she has never been careful because her work is an accessory.
Being a person who has requirements for himself, whether from weight control or work intention, reflects a kind of restraint, which will lead you to a better self.
Some time ago, I watched a foreign documentary called "56UP", which roughly recorded the life events of dozens of children. Since they were seven years old, every seven years, I have recorded their life trajectories. In this documentary, if you have the heart, you will find several rules. One is that a person's class and accomplishment are linked to his family background, which is difficult to change. According to a China proverb, dogs can eat. In particular, it is very difficult to leap from a poor class to a middle class or a rich class. Ma Yun and others were not excluded that day, but there was only one Ma Yun among the 654.38+300 million China people. Therefore, it is not an exaggeration to say that it is difficult to move forward.
The second is the middle class or the rich class, who are more demanding of themselves. They will protect their bodies, refuse junk food, keep fit and exercise, and make themselves in better physical condition and shape. More deeply, their mental state is better and they are younger. On the contrary, the poor always give up on themselves and are exhausted, which will make the house full of dust, relax the body and indulge appetite. So, be a person who has requirements for himself, whether at home, in life, personally or at work.