When talking about her work in a hospital, Qian Qian said, "Obstetrics and Gynecology is called the place where flower of life blooms. For people, the crying of newborns is the most beautiful music in the world. But for nursing staff, the nurses here should not only have a high degree of professionalism and responsibility, but also have the characteristics of keen, calm and enthusiastic. Welcome the joy of new life, accompany the new mother's duties, adjust the family's mood, bathe the baby, vaccinate, disinfect the umbilical cord, draw blood, change diapers, nurse the baby, and so on, all of which are ordinary and trivial things. Only when you treat the patient as a relative from the heart and care with your true feelings can you enjoy it. Especially for sick children, the condition of newborns is changing rapidly, which requires extra care and meticulous care. Every cry and every detail can't be sloppy. This is a battle of life. What we hold in our arms is tomorrow's sun! "
As a typical workaholic, Qian Qian takes his work very seriously and is a very diligent medical worker. Sometimes, when approaching the off-duty point, handing over the work with the successor nurses and sorting out the nurse station and treatment room, Qian Qian will take the initiative to work overtime as long as there are pregnant women who are about to undergo surgery or are undergoing surgery. Because obstetrics and gynecology are often understaffed, Qian Qian is willing to spend more time fighting with front-line colleagues, which is her responsibility; Sometimes, after work for some time, I can always see that the light in her office is still on, or reading a book, or studying how to take better care of patients. When communicating with the families of sick children, she always chats with her with a natural and graceful smile. You won't have any psychological pressure, but you can feel the warm current flowing in your heart, nourishing and soothing the anxiety of every family member.
Ten years of youth, it is difficult to hide the growing sense of mission in my heart.
Ten years of medical experience has ushered in countless new lives and worked overtime in countless nights. The biggest gain is to see more illness, patient problems and nursing methods, master more comprehensive parenting skills, and be familiar with various diseases. At the same time, careful Qian Qian also found a problem in clinical work: the flow of people in public hospitals is large, and the daily consultation volume of medical workers far exceeds their own load, so it is difficult to take care of every different problem patient with assembly-line consultation. Many medical staff do not pay attention to these new problems, but only treat patients who come for help according to their experience, and rarely ask about their daily life and parenting style, so it is difficult to fundamentally solve some parenting problems that need long-term follow-up services to be completely controlled.
Qian Qian believes that doctors are kind and lovers always like them. Providing patients with long-term valuable medical innovation and service quality is the core driving force to realize self-worth. Obviously, the pipeline diagnosis and treatment of hospitals in the system can not be satisfied. At this time, my baby "Small jade" came into this world, and from then on, she had the most beautiful gift from heaven. At the first sight of the baby, Qian Qian's heart was germinated. She decided that companionship was the best love and care for the child, so she resolutely decided to quit her job in the hospital and become a full-time nanny.
Qian Qian, a full-time nanny, has not been idle. She frequently records every moment of the baby's growth, smiling, crying, silence, frolicking ... every expression is super cute; At the same time, record your body and skin changes during pregnancy and postpartum, so that you can better nurse yourself. Qian Qian found that her skin condition after pregnancy was really worse than before. It is dry, dull and yellow. With the previous skin care methods, postpartum conditioning can not be satisfied at all. Is it true that after giving birth to a child, a beautiful face can only become a thing of the past?
So, unwilling to take care of the children, she deeply studied the maternal body and skin care methods, and with her solid medical foundation and long-term nursing experience, Qian Qian quickly learned many advanced instruments and equipment, such as: ultrasonic scalpel, hot Maggie, super picosecond operation methods and usage specifications. He was also hired as the chief senior lecturer of skin care by Hengfeng Bio (a high-tech enterprise with stem cells as its core technology and individualized health management, life beauty and biological skin care as its purpose).
During his tenure, Qian Qian was able to make timely diagnosis on postpartum macula, repair of stretch marks, and nursing of private parts, and made accurate and effective treatment plans, especially in postpartum skin care, with rich clinical experience and operational skills. She combines the accumulated theoretical foundation with international advanced technology to thoroughly treat postpartum skin problems. This therapy has been proved by tens of thousands of clinical cases, and the effect is exact. Widely praised in the field of dermatology, it can be called the gospel of every postpartum mother.
At this time, Qian Qian is happy and full, but also confused and uneasy. Happiness is that I became a new mother, full of joy, learned a lot of knowledge of maternal aftercare, and became a senior skin lecturer; What is disturbing is that as a former frontline medical staff, I have an unfinished sense of mission in my heart, that is, how to provide long-term and valuable service innovation for more precious parents in my own professional field?
The world is so big, like-minded people cherish and help each other.
Some people say: "A good lifestyle is to run on the ideal road with a group of like-minded people! There are stories along the way, and they are firm and clear. " Until Qian Qian met her current partner "Li Ke", she also deeply felt how lucky she was to have like-minded partners.
Li Ke and Qian Qian are close friends who talk about everything. At the same time, they both have the dual identities of mother and nurse. It has been their habit for many years to set aside a fixed time every week to play with their babies and exchange their parenting experience. Their laid-back scientific upbringing makes the baby grow up healthily, with lovely sunshine and ailments. As a treasure mother, there are more and more followers around me, and more and more friends ask them about parenting methods.
Over time, they have helped many mothers in need, so that every baby has been scientifically raised. This is not only a simple question and answer, but also an emotional transmission. The sisters gave back their sincere thanks, which made Li Ke and Qian Qian realize that it is indeed a very fulfilling thing to help Ma Bao with scientific parenting, and it is worth treating with care, so they set up a "Xiaoyan Parenting" team.
The establishment of "Xiaoyan Parenting" team gave Qian Qian a strong sense of mission and finally got a home. She finally understood her own value-to devote her excellent professional knowledge and passion to her passionate parenting career without reservation. Create a scientific and efficient consulting platform for child care services, so that more novice parents can take fewer detours in child care, because of the existence of "Xiaoyan Parenting".
Scientific parenting is a kind of practice, which emphasizes emotion and wisdom.
Whenever talking about the scientific concept of "Xiaoyan Parenting" team, Qian Qian always said meaningfully: "A basic principle of getting along with others is that one can only change oneself. When you change yourself, you will also change your relationship with others, and others will inevitably respond. Parenting is an art. By changing your behavior, children can perform well with greater probability. "
Qian Qian always believes that the initiative of any parent-child relationship is in the hands of parents. As an adult, you have the wisdom to choose, but the baby has no ability to choose. If baby Ma Bao wants to bring even a little positive influence to her baby, she must take the lead in changing and acting, and become a beam of light to illuminate the child.
This is similar to what the German philosopher Jaspers said, that is, the essence of educating people is that a tree shakes another tree, a cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul.
There is a more vivid metaphor in Qian Qian's view of parenting. She thinks that scientific parenting is like a three-legged stool. A stable stool needs three legs to support it. The "three legs" of scientific parenting include: understanding of one's own value, reasonable expectation of the baby, and respect for self-demand. Without the support of any leg, the three-legged stool can't stand steadily.
Therefore, in order to love the baby better, we need to love ourselves better first. Leave some time and space for yourself to repair and supplement. When you feel full of strength and more energy is flowing in your heart, no matter how noisy the baby is, novice parents can calmly and gently deal with it, so as not to be in a hurry and get out of control.
Psychologist Huang Xingzhen once said: Raising children is a kind of practice, which cultivates parents' emotion and wisdom. On the long road of child-rearing, I hope parents and babies can grow up together and write a chapter of love with the help of Qian Qian's child-rearing.