But the probability of recovery depends on your exposure, so the circle of friends is definitely the best choice for you to recover the road, but many people don't know how to apply this special tool correctly.
Some circles of friends seem casual, but there are systematic software methods and tricks in actual operation. If you blindly follow the trend, it will not only have no practical effect, but will get worse and worse.
So today, let's talk about how to send a circle of friends correctly, so that ex-boyfriends can't help but contact you.
First, show a positive attitude.
Fan Xiao is a very rational girl. After breaking up with her boyfriend, her circle of friends was filled with all kinds of harmful substances of old hen soup and classic words of depression. Anyone can see at a glance that this girl is lovelorn and her life is miserable.
Everyone's circle of friends is full of negative emotions and there is no temptation at all. What about redemption? How to lay out a circle of friends to save ex-boyfriends?
The definition of love is attraction, and the essence of attraction is use value. If you always convey a depressed, restless and sensitive side to your ex-boyfriend, then _ in the eyes of the other party, you will never be attracted by high use value.
So, after breaking up, you don't have to do anything that moves you. Frequent circle of friends can only make people feel bored, making people feel that your use value is low, you can't recover all the positive effects, and you can only push each other further and further.
In fact, the appropriate approach should be to convey positive content as much as possible, and at the same time manage the rate of making friends to reduce the exposure of empty words.
Use every exposure point to show temptation, let the other person feel your change, and keep silent about "emotions", so that you will be full of freshness and temptation.
Second, * * * enjoy the process of change.
Fan Xiao, a fan, broke up with her boyfriend because she focused on the other person. She was even willing to quit her job and take care of her boyfriend's life wholeheartedly at home.
It was really good at first. Who doesn't like to go home with clean clothes, pants and hot meals?
But slowly, my boyfriend felt that life was getting harder and harder. Because of the pressure of life, it's all on him. Due to the lack of social media, Fan Xiao only watches dramas every day and sometimes goes shopping, so the topic discussion between them is getting lower and lower.
He tried to persuade Fan Xiaoduo to pay attention to his life, which made him feel great pressure at work. However, every time Fan Xiao was perfunctory and eager for success, and then he simply said "I know, I know", which didn't change at all.
The two often quarreled over this matter and later chose to break up.
Although her ex-boyfriend had temporarily blocked her circle of friends in the past, he knew that Fan Xiao was changing under various hints, and sometimes he took a look at her circle of friends.
Fan Xiao gradually returned to his previous job. Because there was no emotional harm, he was single-minded in his busy work and made smooth progress. I also started to lose weight, and the road I lost became more slender and beautiful. Her display gave her ex-boyfriend a glimmer of hope.
Constant concern has gradually enhanced the friendship between the two people, gradually repaired the interaction and finally achieved success.
If the other party wants to make up, what everyone has to do is to change themselves. Only when the other person sees everyone who is different from the past and sees that we are getting better and better will he want to touch, master and even save everyone again.
Third, complete the previous service commitment.
Seeing this, you may ask, change can't happen overnight. I can make up my mind to change my cognitive ability, but after I changed it, he may have changed his mind, too.
In the whole process of recovery, this probability does exist, so it will attract the constant attention of others to rationally lay out your circle of friends and know when to send what.
For example, in addition to the above two expressions, sometimes you can send an expression of "empathy", such as making a promise.
These areas you promised before but didn't go for various reasons; Do what you used to want to do but have no time? The promise of two people, you gradually realize.
This will remind the other party of what you looked like when you made the service promise before, gradually shake the confidence of breaking up and miss the happiness before.
It is necessary to understand that the cracking of every love is not unexpected, just like the accumulation of a river, which will burst its banks to a certain extent.
How to lay out a circle of friends to save ex-boyfriends? The same is true of emotions. Every breakup is the result of chilling accumulation. What we have to do is to make up for the regret of letting chilling go home as much as possible. Even in a circle of friends, as long as the other person feels it, it is good for your recovery.