"I want to be a housewife so that I can live a relaxed life without working." This sentence sums up all these ideas.
Even graduates from key universities with bright prospects say that they sometimes prefer to find a husband who can pay all their expenses rather than find a job.
A girl's example is very telling: at the age of 23, she found a job in a large financial institution after graduating from school. However, a few months later, she found her dream "full-time housewife"-a 24-year-old man who had been dating her for several months proposed to her. After that, she immediately quit her job and became a full-time housewife.
"Before the current husband proposed to her, she had said that she didn't want to work and just wanted to be a housewife. She resigned after only one month in that company. After that, she soon became pregnant and gave birth to a child, and she looked very happy. " An acquaintance described it.
It seems that the only reason why this young man is able to support his wife is that he works in a first-class Japanese company. ...
The reason why some young people rush into marriage is mainly because of the idea of "avoiding the heavy and making light". They hate work. For example, another Waseda University graduate resigned, got married and started working 1 month. There is a saying: "These girls are more willing to marry their boyfriends because they can't stand the heavy work."
Of course, some people point out that being a full-time housewife is not as simple as it seems, but according to the above situation, we should assume that these housewives can do whatever they want. ...
For Japanese women, helping a high-income husband seems to be more attractive than the challenge of pursuing independent work. However, Japanese men may not think so.
It is a shame for women in China to take care of their children at home, but a survey of 20,000 women in China at the end of 20 10 shows that 40% women want to be housewives and 38% women want to be professional women. So, what makes women who want to be housewives still struggle in the workplace?
On 20 10, Liu Liu, a famous online writer, published a collection of essays "Delusion and Madness", in which "Being a housewife in China is not the right decision" tells the prediction of a female leader of a foreign company about the future of a beautiful girl who quit her job and became a housewife, which made many young girls feel deeply after reading it.
In China, most girls get married at the age of 25 or 26 and have children at the age of 28. By the time children go to kindergarten, with the growth of age, girls have become dissatisfied, lonely, ignorant and divorced from society. Although the above statement is not comprehensive, housekeeping, parenting and taking care of husbands are the true portrayal of the lives of most housewives.
There are two reasons why girls in China are not suitable to be housewives. First, the legal protection is insufficient. Second, the pension system is not perfect. Third, morality is in a weak period. The idea of women staying at home for a long time can't keep up with the development of the times, and the same topics as men are reduced.
Relatively speaking, Japanese girls are more inclined to be housewives. According to world culture, the employment rate and social participation of Japanese women are the lowest among developed countries. In an authoritative survey in 2009, 36.6% of girls aged 20 to 30 agreed with the view that "the husband works outside and the wife guards the family".
In Japan, the willingness of a new generation of young girls to be housewives has not weakened, but has increased. There are many reasons for this. First, the wage level in Japan is relatively high, and one person's salary can support a family. Secondly, Japan is a country where men are superior to women, or a country where men are superior to women. Finally, the policy and system guarantee are relatively perfect. Japanese companies subsidize married male employees with a monthly "settling-in allowance" of 20,000 yen (about 1.500 yuan RMB), and the expenses for women to have children are fully reimbursed by the state. Families with children can also receive "child care fees" from the government every month.
It can be seen that some women in China have not realized their dream of being housewives, mainly because of the problem of "money". At present, most families can't meet the expenses of the whole family by one labor force.