However, we always hear people say that "having children is the happiest thing", "I was the happiest when I became a mother", "My life is incomplete without children" and "My life is wonderful because of the arrival of children" ...

However, is this really the case? Of course not. Stay-at-home mothers and working mothers have the most say in this.

Many stay-at-home mothers give up their careers for their children and families, but in the end they get nothing; Moreover, many working mothers have to take care of their children and work, and they are too busy to be disturbed.

After becoming a mother, whether staying at home full-time or going to work to earn money, the final result seems to be forced into a "superman" by life.

After all, they don't want to do it themselves. They also have their own hardships, pressures and difficulties.

Xiaoxiao is a novice nanny, because her husband's salary is not much, and she is the "pillar" of the family. So, Xiaoxiao returned to the workplace after maternity leave.

I always smile, thinking that as long as I work hard, I can get my past achievements as easily as I did before giving birth to a child, and I will be all-powerful in the workplace.

However, the reality is not as beautiful as Mix imagined, but very cruel.

Laughing and running between children and work every day, busy as a top, the whole person's memory is not as good as before. It is difficult to return to the state before giving birth.

And people around you are more harsh on themselves, because they have already given birth to children. Therefore, this makes Xiaoxiao feel a lot of pressure. For a long time, she felt depressed.

Especially when the child cries at night and refuses to sleep, she is even more collapsed. It is normal for her to wear "dark circles" to work.

Coupled with the husband's lack of understanding of Xiaoxiao, Xiaoxiao finally broke out in a quarrel between husband and wife, questioning her husband: "Why should I be punished because I gave birth to a child?" ! "

First of all, the daily life of working mothers is running between children and work, which is very busy and hard.

Although all working mothers are independent, they look completely different from those full-time mothers. They always look strong, but in fact, they are under great pressure and have no time at all.

These mothers sacrificed their time and concentrated all their time and energy on taking care of their families and children. They live a busy and hard life every day

Especially when there are many husbands at home, they are still lazy. They always go home and take care of nothing. They just lie in bed and never sympathize with their wives. In this case, the pressure on the wife is even greater.

Secondly, working mothers have to face some physical changes.

Pregnancy and childbirth is not only a hard process, but after giving birth, women's life is still difficult, their bodies will undergo tremendous changes, and their youth and beauty will gradually fade away.

These are undoubtedly a huge impact on women who love beauty. Of course, these are not all. After giving birth to a baby, mothers may encounter many embarrassing situations, such as frequent urination.

Tang Wei and Lei Jiayin's previous interview was due to Tang Wei's physical changes after delivery. Although Tang Wei successfully gave birth to her daughter, she still urinates frequently after delivery, so she often goes to the toilet at work.

Because of this, Lei Jiayin will complain that he goes to the toilet too often, which affects his normal work. This is actually a kind of torture for working mothers.

Secondly, working mothers have to face their own psychological changes.

In addition to the above, working mothers need to face some psychological changes. Although people always say that a woman's life is complete only after giving birth, the psychological changes before and after giving birth are very great.

Before having children, women were just ordinary women who loved beauty. After giving birth, they need to shoulder the responsibility of taking care of the children and change their roles to become mothers.

If the husband doesn't care much about the children, the workplace will be very tired and stressful. Because these mothers also need to face the pressure of work, the whole person is easy to collapse.

Finally, working mothers have to endure the eyes of others and the harshness of this society.

Although people advocate the idea of equality between men and women now, there are still many inequalities in this society. Whether you are a stay-at-home mother or a working mother, you are easily discriminated against.

There is a good example in "Nothing More than Thirty" broadcast some time ago. At that time, Guan was just pregnant, so she gave up the chance of promotion.

Moreover, in her unit, we can clearly see that the experience of women with children and women without children is completely different.

Therefore, after giving birth to a child, the treasure mothers still need to face such pain.

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A woman's life is complete only after going through the process of pregnancy and childbirth. This grandiose statement is actually a huge scam, deceiving one woman after another.