A girl saved some money and wanted to go to Korea for plastic surgery. In the past two years, she has worked hard to make money and save money for plastic surgery. I didn't make enough money, so I asked my parents for it. My parents are very traditional people. I was scared enough when I heard that my daughter was going to have plastic surgery. I'm afraid of being disabled. I'm against it anyway. The point is "My mother doesn't think her son is ugly". I never thought my daughter was ugly enough to need plastic surgery!

Later, I didn't hold back her: you made me look so ugly. I can't find a boyfriend or a marriage partner. Don't blame me for not getting married

Mom finally compromised and took out a pension to support the elderly. Everything was ready, but when she left, the girl herself hesitated: Do you want to go? What if it fails? What if I get better now? What if I leave a scar? What if I die on the operating table? ..... all tangled up. Leave a message asking me.

I've seen her. Although it is not a national beauty, it can be classified as "dignified appearance and good temperament" in my aesthetics. Didn't you see that in the job advertisement and personals? In those years when I was HR, I was "read countless people". If she came to apply, she would never be the one who failed the interview because of her appearance. Without knowing the ability of job seekers, interviewers usually judge people by their appearances. In other words, she is not as ugly as she thinks.

It is said that this is an "era of looking at faces." But in my belief, a girl, if not an actress, will live by her face in the future. I really don't think plastic surgery is necessary.

For a time, I liked to watch the bustling crowd in the street and lamented the magic of the creator. The size of an oval mask is usually 23x20cm, and a person's face is 330 to 400 square centimeters. Everyone's passing faces are very different and varied. Don't these differences make you unique? ! How boring it would be if everyone had a "V-face and big eyes"!

I don't know what kind of experience a person feels ugly. Although I knew I was not beautiful since I was a child, I never felt "ugly". Probably because I saw a famous saying in my girlhood: "People are cute not because they are beautiful, but because they are cute." The function of this sentence is "healing", right? !

It is a comfort to know that an ugly woman can also be a "lovely" person, so as to achieve the same beautiful effect as natural beauty. At that time, the education emphasized the beauty of people's hearts, and the whole society did not have the atmosphere of "laughing at people's ugliness and saying that they wanted plastic surgery".

A girl who feels ugly and needs plastic surgery must be very insecure, right? ! Who planted such a belief in your heart?

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I once saw a video on the Internet.

A foreign hostess was considered fat by the audience, and her response made the whole world applaud! -Tencent Video

Jennifer Livingston, an American female anchor, received a letter criticizing her obesity. Jennifer then publicly responded in the news: "You can describe me as obese, but do you think you need your mean words to point this out?" "You don't know me, don't just treat me as someone who wears a bigger size." "No matter your weight, skin color, sexual orientation or physical defects, or even acne on your face, listen to me and don't let a bully decide your value! Don't worry about others' verbal attacks. "

Countless people applauded her response! Including me.

I especially want to recommend this video to girls who want to have plastic surgery. If you are strong inside, others' attacks will be ignored, and you won't feel ugly, just like this female anchor criticizes her obese attitude. Because "what hurts you is usually not the thing itself, but your opinion of it."

I think of participating in an organization's activities and traveling to Beijing when I was young. I'm not the kind of person who can dress up, especially in those days. During the trip, an elder sister often criticized my dress, in a joking tone. As I am so sensitive, how can I not understand it? She said: You are also an office child (my father works in an office). Look at what you are wearing. ...

I'm wearing a long-sleeved khaki shirt and cotton khaki slacks.

It's really frustrating to hear her talk like this. After all, it is not a compliment or a good word. Now I occasionally look at the photos of that year, and I still think of her words. She laughed at my dress. I remember. Up to now, it actually shows that it is difficult to care about other people's comments and opinions.

One person can't control another. We can't control what others say, but we can identify kindness or malice by what others say. For example, those who may not maliciously ridicule your clothes, those who joke about your ugliness are usually uneducated, and you may not like what they say or believe it. If you think like this, you won't feel that your clothes are useless, and you won't be so depressed that you feel ugly that you need plastic surgery! If you agree with that, you can stay away from that kind of person.

Last week, I went to the post office to collect the manuscript fee (Zhao Yan Metropolis Daily is the conscience of the industry and generally pays the manuscript fee when forwarding articles). The staff took my ID card and read it over and over again, asking, is this you? Unlike the age on the ID card.

I got my ID card when I was the fattest in my life (136 kg), and now I have lost 30 kg and stood in front of the counter. There will probably be a difference in comparison.

Once a few people chatted, because of the topic of health, I said that I had never pierced my ears, tattooed my eyebrows, embroidered my lips, played hyaluronic acid, pulled my skin, went to a beauty salon ... or even put on a mask, and usually didn't wear makeup. A man stared at me and said, "You may be too confident about your appearance."

I'm not confident. I just don't think I need it. My parents, I accept myself when I was born, that's all. "Acceptance" is the most important lesson in life! "Acceptance" is the beginning of being strong inside and becoming a better self! Stand province and Zhu Jiasan sisters "afternoon tea topic", forget is Zhu Tianxin or Zhu Tianyi write mother-in-law. She only used clean water to wash her face all her life, and when she was seven or eighty years old, her skin still coagulated like fat. Well, I believe.

Don't care about other people's eyes and comments if you don't feel fat. Unless you think you need to lose weight.

If you don't feel ugly, don't care about other people's eyes and comments. Besides, what is ugliness? Is there a standard? What can't be measured by standards is not credible.

You have to believe that at a certain intersection on the road of life, there will always be someone waiting to hold hands with you. You just haven't met them yet. When you are full of expectations, when fate comes, you will always meet … not a minute earlier or a second later.

You're not as ugly as you think, really.

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