The person you like thinks he is sober, and the person you hate thinks he has no emotional intelligence.
His sharp words can only be said to be rooted in his childhood.
Le Jia was born in an ordinary family. He ran for his life every day, and his parents quarreled, which brought him great material and spiritual oppression.
Children who grow up in such a family have a self-evident personality.
Often "maverick" and rebellious and perverse.
There is no love at home and no respect outside.
On one occasion, my mother went to school to pick up Le Jia with a suitcase in her hand. She wanted to go back by bus, but she missed the last bus.
I want to take a taxi back, but I have no money.
At this moment, my mother saw a car parked by the side of the road with her leader sitting on it, so she took Le Jia's little hand and ran to get a ride.
However, the leader looked at Le Jia's mother running, eyes full of disdain, and then quickly stepped on the accelerator, leaving only car exhaust.
Le Jia said he would never forget that look. At that moment, he wanted to stand on his own feet and get respect from others.
Sensitive, self-abased, self-reliant, and show it on him at the same time. In order not to be looked down upon by others, he learned to disguise himself with a poisonous tongue.
Le Jia turned to cause oral toxins, which was his second job, selling houses.
It's not easy to sell a house. What you see is how eloquent the salesman is, and Le Jia is just right for it.
Not long after he joined the company, he quickly sold a small villa.
Later, I talked about this in an interview, saying that I just described the beautiful life after entering the villa.
To put it simply, the most important thing is Le Jia's mouth.
Tired of selling houses, Le Jia jumped ship to sell cosmetics.
As soon as Le Jia opened his mouth, countless people immediately placed orders, ranking first in sales performance, comparable to Li Jiaqi and Viya now.
But Le Jia is not satisfied with this. He always feels that something is missing.
A year later, the company clashed, and Le Jia took this opportunity to leave the company.
But how to get to the back of the road, Le Jia was still very confused at that time, he kept his mouth open. As a result, he didn't have a stage, and he was really unwilling.
At this time, Le Jia met a teacher named Taiwan Province, who gave a speech in a training.
Under the devil's training of the teacher, Le Jia turned his talent into a serious talent.
Le Jia finally found the stage of life, giving speeches from time to time, jabbering a lot, and the audience was enthusiastic.
Coincidentally, Le Jia met his first wife here, but the door was not right, and love soon dissipated.
Frustrated, he found a new world in it. He signed up for an advanced lecture course and founded the color personality theory.
Compassion gave full play to the advantage of insight into people's hearts, and with clever words, Le Jia's life ushered in a new highland.
Le Jia stood out among the workers and became a hot figure. Many companies want to invite him to give a speech to their employees.
Among them, the director of Jiangsu Satellite TV also missed the opportunity. At that time, Taiwan Province was planning to prepare a large variety show about love.
It has been confirmed that a guest is Morphy, who worked as a reporter for 9 years and later switched to variety show.
Another guest offered an olive branch to Le Jia.
In 2009, after the plan was launched, it caused a lot of repercussions.
Murphy, Le Jia and Han Huang together form the iron triangle of this program.
Le Jia, who has just appeared on the big screen, is on fire. There was chaos at that time, and he could be recognized walking in the street.
That year, Le Jia's books were very popular. It seems that he doesn't have a color and personality copy and can't keep up with the fashion trend.
With his followers, Le Jia gloated that he didn't close the door.
Once a female guest said that there was a seriously ill brother at home, and Le Jia immediately pointed out that his brother was a burden to the family. This time, Murphy's eyes straggling, but his heart was thinking about the lines of his chin.
The female guest retorted that Le Jia asked why it was not a burden.
You come and go, and the smell of gunpowder is full. At last Morphy came out.
For Le Jia, why he sharply raised this question may be related to his childhood. Maybe he once thought he was a burden to his family.
Only in an instant will their sensitivity be revealed.
There are not a few such cases.
Le Jia spoke sharply, pointed to the heart and hit the nail on the head, while Murphy spoke tactfully. Besides presiding over the meeting, he also helped Le Jia solve the problem.
At first, the relationship between the two people was good. They are talking and laughing, fighting wit and courage, and their relationship can be said to be harmonious, and people are willing to watch it.
But I don't know when it started to smell like gunpowder.
Morphy also sent a Weibo.
"You will find that the so-called sharpness is often a mean mouth, and the so-called hitting the nail on the head is often uneducated."
Shortly after posting, Le Jia also publicly stated that he had finished the last recording of If You Are the One.
People think that Le Jia can't do without You Are the One, and you can't do without Le Jia.
This sentence is only half right.
Without Le Jia's sharp comments, the ratings of "If You Are the One" did not drop, but rose. Murphy controlled the venue well, and later guests also occupied the position of Le Jia.
Le Jia left this program and went to a higher and better platform.
This is definitely a good development for him, but without Murphy's circus, Le Jia offended many people.
Le Jia took over the role of Sa Beining in the CCTV program "Chief Interview" and was able to participate in the CCTV program, which was the recognition of the host's identity.
But Le Jia didn't think he was the master, which laid a curse for him.
CCTV programs don't have to be warm, but they must be cautious and rigorous. However, Le Jia regarded the program as a stage for outputting opinions, and made a mess of the shooting scene.
Le Jia plays opposite Dong Mingzhu in the program. Both of them are strongmen, so naturally no one is allowed.
Le Jia once asked Dong Mingzhu which is more important, the enterprise or his son. When the problem comes out, everyone can feel the instant anxiety of the recording scene.
One is the enterprise that brought up by hand, and the other is the child that brought up by hand. Dong Mingzhu obviously doesn't want to continue, but Le Jia is still pressing.
However, it also proves from the side that Le Jia's childhood shadow is very heavy, or how inferior he is.
This is only the first step in his career decline. As he appears on more and more TV platforms, Le Jia will go downhill even faster.
20 14, Le Jia participated in the program "Mr. Super", and the last program was dismissed. He still didn't reflect on himself, but took the next stage as his speech place.
In the program, Le Jia met the quiet Frank's sister. As long as they just sit there, they can feel the stinging current in the middle, and sooner or later they will spark a lot.
In a program, a gymnast came to complain that he missed the Olympic Games because his father was very ill.
After listening quietly, he comforted the athletes with his own personal experience. "Leaving some regrets may increase morale."
I didn't expect to be refuted crazily by Le Jia.
Comfort people's peace and don't want to be disturbed, two people quarreled.
At first, I spoke, but Le Jia suddenly stood up from behind me and struck the table, startled.
Finally Nana hit back, and they shook hands again.
Later, Quiet talked about it in other programs, and commented that Le Jia was too violent and easily excited.
Looking back on the whole thing, apart from Le Jia's strong desire to speak, if there is anything that has hit his heart, it is the "pessimism" of the story.
Le Jia's birth environment and growing atmosphere make him look at things pessimistically, and naturally think that the stories of athletes are also pessimistic.
As a result, the sensitivity and inferiority in Le Jia's character are revealed again. And his poisonous tongue image has always been to create a strong feeling for himself.
In Mr. Super, Le Jia often loses his temper. As a result, the director kicked him out of the program.
However, Le Jia's "A Ray of Light Behind Dark Clouds" went to the same stage of another program "Super Speaker", which added the last foot to the destruction of his career.
Le Jia appeared on the new program "Super Speaker", and everyone thought that he could behave himself, but he still kept his true colors.
And the guest of the show, Venus. Both of them are kings of poison. We first met because of our classmates.
Le Jia's students told stories on it, but the stories were not very attractive. Except Le Jia, all the tutors scored very low.
Venus directly accused the story of being too false.
In order to protect the students, Le Jia quarreled with them.
Finally, Le Jia said: "On the emotional issue, a great saint can't compare with a little eunuch." .
The audience is not a fool who is pointed at in the speech, and everyone knows it very well. At this point, the problem between the two people was solved.
This time it only offended Venus, and the second time it directly offended all the guests present.
On the recording of June 7th, 20 15, a disabled player came. Le Jia may have thought of his miserable childhood and said on the spot that he would encourage disabled athletes.
"Don't win the competition as a disabled person, but win the competition boldly and openly."
Yes, but there is something wrong with it.
Le Jia directly soaked several glasses of white wine in the program to stimulate the other party's ambition.
Drinking on the show is taboo, which is a rule known in the industry.
Other guests were frightened by this move and rushed to save the scene. Lu Yu also came forward to advise them not to drink.
But Le Jia was drunk for a long time. Go away and leave me alone.
A voice full of alcohol and "heroism", not only the guests, but also the program group turned green.
After drinking too much, Le Jia even blurted out wild words, lambasting TV stations and guests.
"I don't hesitate to offend Wen Doutao and Lu Yu. I am a training speaker. They are TV programs, which is completely different. "
When this was said, Venus, Lu Yu and Tao tried to save the scene, but they were speechless. Venus and Lu Yu waved away, and Wendu Tao quit recording, leaving only one person on the stage.
Le Jia won, because he was the only one left on the stage, and he was completely free to speak.
But he also lost, this madness of getting drunk, the program stopped recording, and even the subsequent scenery career was terminated.
Even if he went to the big challenge, what impressed the audience the most was the broken egg.
Became a loser on the show.
From 20 10 to 20 15, it took Le Jia five years to let the public know him and five years to let the public witness his suicide.
After that, Le Jia's career plummeted, and he couldn't get 3,000 people to give a speech. He can only hold an annual meeting in the company, and no one listens.
Later in life, Le Jia took photos and was suspected of becoming a monk.
On July 26th, Le Jia sent another video, walking the dog in the street was leisurely, but he was naked.
Le Jia's life after being banned seems to be particularly moist, which is quite a bit like going its own way from beginning to end.
Some people say that Le Jia was banned because one mouth offended too many people, his colleagues and even the TV station.
Success lies in this mouth, failure lies in this mouth.
Behind this ban, why did Le Jia do it? It can only be said that it is due to personality.
He is arrogant and sharp in everyone's eyes, but deep down, it is because of inferiority and sensitivity.
You must find protective clothing for yourself.
When I was a child, my parents quarreled, and the way the leader looked at my mother accelerated the pessimism in his character.
If time could come back to an important point in Le Jia's life, he would probably say the same thing.
Because personality is internal, it is difficult to change.
Now if he can really "escape into an empty door" and settle down, then his future life will be much smoother.