This is enough to show that women's confinement is highly valued.
However, there will still be great differences between elders and young people about confinement. Even because of the contradiction during confinement, family life will be affected.
As a post-90 s treasure mother, the experience of confinement for the first time told me that we must make some preparations in advance!
One: communication before production.
Communication with parents-in-law, husband and mother before delivery is essential. If it is a month brought by her mother-in-law, you need to say it in advance.
Because the maternal psychology is really sensitive, if there is no communication before delivery, there will be contradictions in the month, and the mother-in-law will think that you are looking for trouble and that you are difficult to serve.
You will always be afraid to say anything, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will slowly be affected. What you fear most is postpartum depression.
What is the specific communication?
1 I made an agreement with my family not to mention "What if you don't eat this and have children?" In this case, avoid it!
Originally, I was weak, my appetite was bad, and my baby ate a little, so I don't have to worry about eating less milk. And now the formula is also very helpful.
How to arrange the children at night, whether to sleep with mom or who to sleep with. Wake up at night to eat breast milk or milk powder. Say yes in advance. Avoid rushing around at night.
Promise your family. If you say something bad in the second month, it's an unintentional mistake. I hope they can understand.
Make an appointment with the milkman in advance.
It is very necessary to have a milkman. I didn't know I didn't make an appointment with the milkman when I gave birth to Dabao. Later, I was discharged from the hospital and went home, and the milk didn't pass. I feel uncomfortable, and the child cries without milk. Family members don't understand, it's really sad both physically and mentally!
Make an appointment for a moon meal in advance, or make a moon meal recipe.
In the first week of production, the diet should not be too greasy. If you don't make an appointment in advance and make a good plan, according to the moon meal of the older generation, it must be pig's trotters soup and hen soup. You can't eat without eating the feelings of your elders.
Now that the moon is scientific, the moon meal is also rich and varied. We can write the recipes in advance, and the elders know what we want. They need not worry about what to do.
Prepare all kinds of protective gear.
In addition to preparing daily necessities, knee pads, stockings, moon clothes (not too thin in summer), moon shoes (with heels) and moon hats are all necessary.
The first confinement was because the weather became hot in May, and the mother was weak and sweating every day. It's just all kinds of feeling hot.
I don't listen in the month, walking around the living room in my thin pajamas! Therefore, even in very hot summer, my knees will feel cold. My ankle hurts for several months, and I can hardly squat directly for more than half a year.
So don't think wearing protective gear is ugly. Protect yourself in the second month, and you can be a beautiful hot mom in the second month.
Fifth, be mentally prepared.
We should prepare for a difficult month. Although in confinement, we use clothes to get enough food, eat, sleep and eat. It seems to be very enjoyable, but in fact, because the moon is taboo and not free, it will be even worse psychologically.
Tell yourself to have a good rest for the next month and leave the baby to the elders to take care of it. There is a long way to go to take care of the baby! Some mothers are worried, so tell themselves to leave it alone for the next month. Take good care of your health. )
March will be boring, so think about how to lie down in advance to pass the boring time. Don't think about playing mobile phones and games. Rest your eyes during the month, and don't watch more mobile TV.
Of course, the above point of view refers to the situation that one's own family takes care of the next month. If it is the center of the month or the month, it will naturally be different.
That's all I can think of. I just wrote it down and expressed my personal opinion after my own experience.
I hope it will help all expectant mothers!
I wish all expectant mothers a happy month-end experience!