A close friend in a boudoir is a "close friend in a boudoir" and honey means "little honey". Look at the model letter below. The following is a letter to my best friend compiled by Bian Xiao. I hope it will help you.
A letter to my best friend 1
Dear Swallow:
We have known each other for almost 13 years. You are the best friend of all my friends. You accompanied me through the best time in my life and witnessed my transformation from a young girl to an independent and mature old girl. I think I watched you work so hard to get here.
I still remember your heartbreak when you were separated from KM. I also remember your happiness and sweetness with WX; I will remember your crying when you called me at midnight in Shenzhen. Later, this kind of phone call in the middle of the night was rarely answered. I'm surprised. Think about it, you and I are almost thirty years old, and we have learned to control our emotions. This is really good.
We always talk about gossip, fashion, entertainment news and, of course, love and men together, which is a permanent topic among girlfriends. When we were young, we were obsessed with being handsome, liked being handsome, and liked to dress in style. Sometimes we will put our feelings first, and when we meet the right person, we will be dead set and fight hard, and finally achieve nothing. We pay so much attention to the feeling of love that we finally forget what we want. Have you ever thought about whether you want love or love? Love is love at first sight, feeling is supreme, and the continuation of this love depends on love. If you just stick to your love of life, you will be disappointed. Going on depends on love, not just love. Mutual trust, effective communication, tolerance, completely accepting the imperfection of the other half's personality from the bottom of my heart, and being willing to promote the maturity of myself and the other half's mind through the same experience are the foundations of love and marriage.
A few days ago, I read Ceng Shiqiang's Talking about Love and Marriage. Chinese traditional thought holds that love is for marriage. We only fall in love once in our lives and then get married. I agree with one part of this view, and the other part seems to be unworkable and somewhat difficult in today's floating bath social environment. Taurus once taught me a lesson, because I want to get married so much that I will lose many beautiful things in love. I only agree with some of his views. Next time you meet the right person to fall in love, can you combine these two views and use them to talk about a marriage-oriented love? Let's stop being infatuated with flowers and feel that we are supreme. Let's look at his parents' family, his family style and family education, his friends and classmates' views on him, his way of doing things, and measure whether each other's personalities are suitable and whether the two families are suitable. Don't be in a hurry to give your feelings, learn to protect yourself, cherish yourself, and let yourself not be hurt again.
Growing up, I thought I was a good girl with a good personality and no emotions. It was not until I was 27 years old that I realized that I would be emotional and hysterical. I have never experienced this kind of emotion that I don't know how to deal with, but I will vent it simply and rudely. Later, after reading a lot of books, I realized that this thing can learn to observe emotions without venting and controlling. When I was with GYL, I learned to observe and feel my emotions. I understand that everything is impermanent, so I cherish my time with him, but I also keep a heart's distance from him. I can live normally without him. It was only later that something he and his family said aroused my disgust. Now that I think about it, I can't blame others I can only say that I haven't practiced enough At that time, I was most afraid that I would start to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, become hysterical and do some crazy things, so I made a mask every night, listened to the Heart Sutra and sat cross-legged on the ground to feel myself. It's hard to concentrate at first, but it will be better to practice more. This way, at least I can not do anything wrong when I am emotionally unstable.
In retrospect, love is really a very fragile thing. A promise made a year ago came to nothing a year later. I believe that he swore to be good to you, when planning your future, he was sincere, and the breakup after one year was also sincere. Love can't resist everything, and fragile things often can't stand stormy waves. Don't listen to what he says, but look at what he has done for you. It is wrong to be serious about such a thing as love. Don't be sad, don't be happy and don't make any noise. Only let it go.
We both have the same personality defect, that is, we are too self-centered and too stubborn. Most of the time we don't realize that our ego has hurt others. I put down my ego and obsession, and at the same time I put down a lot of troubles and started a quiet and comfortable life. Everything that comes together is impermanent, just the gathering and dispersion of karma. Never mind how good he used to be to you, but now he's suddenly unreasonable. When the fate is deep, you will be moved to be speechless. When there is no fate, it is useless to say more. If you used to like it, but now you don't, then get together and leave. Look ahead and love.
Swallow, no matter where I went or how far I walked, you can call me if you have something. Don't be afraid.
A letter to my best friend 2
Dear good friend:
Don't think that if you don't see each other often, your feelings will fade. With our original friendship, I dare to run wild in your life all my life. I don't know if you remember this sentence, dear.
You are my best friend. We can run wildly in the street. I'll give you advice on who you like and how to chase me. When you lose control, you cry, I help you pass the tissue, and you sit still and don't talk. I take it out on you who bully you, and I scold you when you are angry. We have no secrets, just like family. I think we'll still be friends when you grow up and get married. Whenever you turn around, I will be there.
Inadvertently saw such a sentence, my thoughts unconsciously flew to that small town, where there was a girl, which was my heart's desire. It's cool here. What about you? Everything here has changed. What about you?
I am chasing the tail of this summer, flying away by train, following my university, my dream, leaving the town where I grew up, leaving the town with you. I was on the train far away, looking at the photos of my family, looking at the photos of us together, my eyes were wet, but I didn't look back. You are in the steamer of the cram school for senior three, reliving our senior three, but there is no me in this classroom, and there is no you on the train I left.
The flowers and trees on campus are in full bloom, and the willows on campus are also growing. It's time for catkins to fly. Catkin is floating in the air, like snowflakes flying all over the sky. Pedestrians on the road seem to hate these catkins and hide their faces and flee. Some people take photos everywhere with their mobile phones, as if to keep those good times.
I am bathed in the sunshine of spring and miss the time that belongs to us. I miss the time when we talked about everything. I miss us getting wet together in summer and rainy season. I miss the 1 1 bus that dragged us around town on Valentine's Day. I miss the Monday when I sat all afternoon to kill time. Then, I call those times I miss the most beautiful.
The gears of the years are constantly turning. Winter goes and spring comes, and everything recovers. Summer is like a demon with heavy makeup. In this warm city full of flowers and catkins, I miss those wonderful times that belong to us, feel the changes of this season in this city, and lament that you can't enjoy this beauty with me. Do you listen carefully in that small town every day, ride your bike on that two-point and one-line road with your schoolbag on your back, and think about those times when I was by your side?
You once joked that I would marry you if you were a man, and I would marry you if I was a man. I'm kidding. Let's be gay. You said, "Go ahead, I have a normal sexual orientation." You said I would be your maid of honor when you got married. Well, I'm looking forward to it.
I remember the last few days of senior three, we planned the future together and looked forward to the university. Now you are away from me 1 13 1 m, I am not with you, and you are not with me. We are still each other, the only one. I hope you can do what you like in your favorite university and do the same thing with me.
I wish you all the best, dear.
A letter to my best friend 3
Dear girlfriends:
Maybe I should call you that. But, to be honest, I really don't know the true meaning of the word "best friend". In my opinion, a girlfriend is you and my friend who talks about everything. You have the same eyes when you go shopping with me on weekdays. Have dinner with me and have the same hobbies; Play with me and have the same friends; Of course, you should also understand who I am, what I think in my heart, why I am unhappy or suddenly feel dejected.
However, by this standard, I don't think I have a best friend so far. Perhaps, my standards are too high. In order to stop worrying, I call all my close female friends "girlfriends". In this way, the number of my girlfriends is really quite large, which also gives me some psychological comfort.
Dear girlfriends, I don't know what the purpose of your association with others is. In my opinion, being with others can make me happier, so who will I associate with and treat her sincerely. My association is rarely mixed with some utilitarian purposes, at least for now. I thought this standard also applies to you, so it seems that our communication is really pure and flawless.
However, I was all wet. When I was fooled again and again, I realized how naive and naive I was compared with you. Maybe, you will feel wronged, maybe, you really didn't mean to hurt me, maybe, you will think I am too stubborn, but I am such a person, and I don't want to be cheated.
And when I have been fooled by this for a year in a row, you may think how alert and sensitive I am to every request of your girlfriends.
I remember last year, a best friend carefully asked me that her mother was coming to see her. She didn't want her mother to know that she lived at her boyfriend's house, so she decided to move out and find a place to live by herself. I was very happy to hear that, thinking that I would not feel lonely when I went home every day, I promised her now. When I got home, I told my classmates about it. I didn't expect her to object, thinking it would be inconvenient. I don't understand after listening to it. I don't know how much trouble one more person will bring. So, I took the liberty of letting her live in. After her mother came to live here for a few days, she saw that her daughter was fine and went back contentedly. On the surface, the three of them get along well with each other, but my classmates repeatedly criticized this best friend's words and deeds on QQ and threatened to move out by themselves. This made me unbearable, and finally decided that my best friend and I would move out and live in another house. I finally found a house and just settled down. Unexpectedly, this girlfriend wants to move back to her boyfriend's house on the grounds that her boyfriend doesn't agree with her living outside. I immediately had a feeling of being used. In order not to be scolded by her mother, she moved to my house temporarily. After her mother left, she moved back immediately, without considering that my classmates and I had turned against each other for four years. I had to move twice for this, and she brought me harm! Although she later apologized to me and gave me various explanations, I was no longer angry about it, but our friendship may never be the same again, at least on my side. Perhaps, she didn't hurt me the most, but she caused me the biggest trouble. I spent half a year looking for a suitable house everywhere, and I was restless, so I had the idea of buying a house and living alone.
But more is something that seems irrelevant in your eyes. For example, some time ago, a girlfriend in Kaifeng told me that she wanted to come to Zhengzhou for media development and asked me if there was a suitable place to go. Thinking of a colleague who just went to Business Daily as the director, I called to ask about the situation. My colleague readily agreed and told me that she could go to work the next day. I told her the news and asked her to come here as soon as possible to meet this colleague and discuss related matters. Two days later, I received a phone call from my colleague, saying that I don't know why I haven't heard from her since we met that day until she said she wanted to discuss it with her family. I quickly called to ask about the situation. She said that things there were complicated, but she would give an answer as soon as possible. The next day, I was relieved to hear my colleague say that she had gone to work. But what I didn't expect was that in less than a week, my colleague called again and said that she sent him a short message this morning to resign. He didn't even know the reason, so he never saw her again! I wonder if you can understand how I felt at that time. I have only been in society for two years. For these so-called friends, I put on this not too old face and tried my best to help her. As a result, she treated my work like this!
Another one, an intern of the newspaper just finished her internship here, and I don't know where to go next. It sounds like she wants to find another newspaper internship, so she thought that a classmate spent money today. The work there is much easier than here, and it will definitely suit her. When I mentioned it to her, she excitedly urged me to ask about the situation. While waiting for the opinions of the leaders there, I accidentally saw her blog saying that she would start a new job the next day! Ask her, she said she didn't want to do that unpaid job any more, she wanted to make money. Shit, in that case, why let me ask you about your internship! I'm on tenterhooks every day these days, always afraid that my classmates will call and tell me that she can go to the internship. How can I explain it to him?
A few days ago, a graduate student in the south complained to me that it was not easy to find a job there. I told her that our newspaper won't be very tired, and if we work hard, we won't get a low salary. She was very moved and immediately said to send me a resume and let me help give it to the editor-in-chief, and put in a good word to see if she could work here. I began to hesitate: a graduate student of a famous university has a higher heart than the sky. If she uses this place as a springboard and changes jobs within a few days, how can I face the editor-in-chief! So, I think, after her resume is sent to the newspaper, I will directly transfer it to the editor-in-chief, but I won't say a word for her, even if we are classmates. I can only do so much.
Dear girlfriends, don't treat me like a weak person on weekdays. You treat me like this, I will never pretend that nothing happened. The above three girlfriends have all experienced completely different attitudes after I was used. Maybe, they think I am too sensitive, but after being cheated many times, she will unconsciously become sensitive unless she is not helping you sincerely.
So, dear girlfriends, if you need my help next time, please think clearly in advance. If you use me, there is only one consequence, and you will lose a friend who really treats you. You don't care about the consequences, but I will really despise you!
A letter to my best friend 4
Beautiful little fairy:
Hello!
Remember how we became good friends? It was in a math class in Grade Two. After school started, the teacher asked us to sit at the same table. We didn't say a word for several days because we were unfamiliar. Later in math class, the teacher asked us to tear a piece of paper with a length of 10 cm and a width of 8 cm. Seeing you looking at me inexplicably, I said without hesitation, "Let me help you!" " "From then on, we began to write friendship on that piece of paper with a length of 10 cm and a width of 8 cm.
I have known you for four years, and only I have seen you lose your temper. In the eyes of the teacher, you are a quiet and well-behaved girl, and you write beautifully and neatly. However, in front of me, your flamboyant and lively face is "true colors". I often talk and laugh with you. I am the first to tell you everything about idols, gossip, study and games. You listen to me carefully. You also often bring me good things from home. You are used to my failure to lose weight.
We are inseparable all day, regardless of each other. What is yours is mine, and what is mine is yours. We were born in the same year. We all have the same constellation, the same idol and the same hobby. This should be the so-called fate! We hardly have any major conflicts. At most, I mixed a few words in WeChat, and the cold war lasted for two days. A day or two without you talking to me really seems like a year. I am really uneasy, afraid of losing your good friend from now on. But no matter what the difference is, you won't take it to heart afterwards, and I, who only have seven seconds to remember, will soon forget it.
In the future, I hope you and I can continue to graduate hand in hand, talking and laughing, and continue to step into the middle school classroom. I also want to eat all kinds of delicious snacks you gave me, and I also want to tell you my mood! Leave me alone!
Finally, I want to send my most sincere blessing to you: I wish you more and more beautiful! Getting thinner and thinner! May our friendship last forever!
Your silly best friend Ming Xiaofeng
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