You are still young, why do you have so many excuses? There is a Japanese lady around me, who seems to live happily and powerfully every day. Some time ago, she lost her job, fell in love, and had minor health problems. But in the whole process, she didn't make a scene, didn't get discouraged, and didn't spoil herself. After shedding tears, exercising, growing flowers, cooking ... I like to do the same things. Ask her if she will worry about her future life. She said irrelevantly: ask me the happiest moment, that is, today, living in the present today.
Many times, we have the illusion that our present life is not what we want most. Once this illusion is deeply rooted, it is very terrible. It will make you invent many excuses to escape from your present life. It will make you forget the life you originally wanted to live and live every day in front of you casually.
There is a good roommate in the university, and the part of the dormitory that belongs to her is always in a mess. Books, rubbish, food and clothes are all mixed together. Even once found an unwashed sock in her book.
But judging from her glamorous appearance, it is hard to imagine that the goddess' dormitory would be so messy. However, the messy dormitory environment has also brought her a lot of troubles: she often can't find anything or bring something, the food she has eaten is not thrown out in time to attract a lot of cockroaches, and the tableware is not cleaned and moldy in time?
We all call her a kennel and ask her to clean it up more than once. She always said that the dormitory was too small to sleep in. Why should it be so clean? I will take good care of the house when I rent it in the future.
Is she out to work now? Spend a lot of money? I rented a small duplex in Guangzhou with a nice environment. We strongly urge to visit? A mansion? I went there and found that this small duplex was as messy as the previous dormitory. Everyone can't stand it. Help her clean the house. But it wasn't long before I went there again and found it was like a ruin. She also feels embarrassed, used to it, and it is hard to change.
What is a habit? Let's put it this way: your attitude towards the present life is your attitude towards the future. Life follows cause and effect. What attitude do you live with now? Correspondingly, what will your future life be like.
We have the right to choose how to live now, but we have no ability to choose how to live in the future. No one can be transformed into an ideal self at some point in the future.
Like my college roommate, I wasted four years trying to make excuses. Four years of sloppy and untidiness will not change because of the change of location. Unless she gets rid of this habit, she used to ask herself to be orderly bit by bit.
But there are also many people around us, and their lives have become more and more polished after a period of absence. It seems that time is good for them and enchants them. In fact, the truth is not difficult to understand: if you have a thousand excuses to give up the same thing you want to do and live a life, they also have a thousand reasons to stick to it.
I have a friend who just graduated a year ago and needs to rent a house to work. She didn't choose a low-priced village in the city like most graduates. Because she likes growing flowers and plants, she chose a house with a sunny roof. But it is far from the subway station and bus station, and the rent is not low.
Buying a house is the same as renting a house for her. Even if you only live for a month, you will carefully choose and decorate your house as you like, and you can't just spend a day.
Because of renting a house, her life has changed a lot: because of the inconvenient transportation, she has to get up early every day and must get rid of the habit of staying in bed; Get up early every day, lack of sleep, you must get rid of the habit of staying up late; The rent is almost half her salary. In order to cut expenses, she had to cook three meals a day to support herself. With the small rooftop, she began to grow flowers and grass, even vegetables, which made her feel very comfortable with her romantic days?
At first, she was also worried about traffic and money, but after all, there were always more ways than problems. After planning bit by bit and persisting in doing it, I was surprised to find that in order to overcome difficulties, I not only got rid of many bad habits, but also became more and more interesting. Today, a year later, she is very grateful for her persistence, and now she has realized the magic that a house can bring. Gradually live the life you imagined.
The hardest part is actually in the beginning What you want to do and what you want to live is always difficult at first. Didn't you say that it's the hardest to go from 1000 to 10000? The hardest thing is from 0 to 1. Anything, once you make up your mind to start, you will find that it is not as difficult as you think.
So from now on, don't make excuses for your indisputable present, please push down your excuses.
Don't delay. Do what you want. This society will never need a giant in thought or a dwarf in action.
Don't wait for the right time. The right time, the right place, the right person is hard to find. As long as you have enough courage, now is the best time.
Don't be unbearable. Always remember that life is bitter. If you don't suffer this, you will suffer that.
Don't be afraid of failure. There is nothing at this age. What can you lose if you fail?
Don't expect time to bring surprises. Expecting surprises will only make you unhappy.
Not to mention working harder in the future. What we do every minute now will affect the future. If you don't work hard now, you won't work hard in the future.
Everyone will have an ideal blueprint in mind. What matters is not how grand your blueprint is, but that you can live in the present and build your blueprint in reality bit by bit.
In fact, I think that as long as a person is not stupid and has a long-term vision, he will live a good day and move forward unhurriedly. Don't compare anything with others, believe in your choice. By then, everything will be available.
If you want to be a sunflower, you should live towards the sun. Whether the sun is hot or warm. If you are braver, you will live every day like the end of the world. The so-called living in the present probably means this.
You are young, neither stupid nor stupid. Don't make excuses for not working hard at present. At the age of nothing, doing whatever you want is the right way. No matter whether there is poetry or distance in the future. Compared with people who only dream about the future, at least they are closer to the song and closer. Over time, you will find poetry and distance, but you can't have it until you spend everything in the present.
Appreciation of American Inspirational Literature: Youth is for struggle. Many college students always feel that they have the ability to get along well before graduation. A few years after graduation, I found that society and school are completely different worlds. People who don't think often, inertia will always make people muddle along. Not thinking about the way forward means being content with the status quo, accepting a mediocre and humble life and losing the momentum and energy that young people should have. Don't think, do nothing, and kill your previous thoughts? Simple and happy life? I believe that this change has been taking place in a subtle way. If you don't calm down and think, you really don't feel that you are degenerating and lowering your life.
Time is the most precious asset, the most expensive cost and the fairest payment, but many people don't feel it disappearing bit by bit. For example, the age is increasing year by year. Although you look young, you can't hide your inner fears. Is it true that people older than you always say that you are young and have plenty of time? It was not until the third year of high school that you began to panic.
You know, we work for a better life and better entrepreneurial opportunities. A skilled entrepreneur has a much higher success rate than a dreamer! Only children without umbrellas know how to work hard!
Know who you work for, you work for yourself!
Whether you start your own business or work in a company, remember that you are not working for others, you are working for yourself! Take on more projects, draw more pictures, and make more friends. You can learn something that others can't take away, and you can add value to yourself at any time.
There is no future for muddling along, and the income is directly proportional to the input.
It's easy to handle one thing. Don't you think it's a waste of life after processing? Maybe you spent several times the time and energy of others to complete a project today, but in the end, you will find that your harvest is the greatest, and your ability to solve problems in an all-round way is impossible for others. When you go to work, you should remember that you don't work for others. You should tell yourself what I can learn by doing this. What others have learned can't be taken away, which may objectively create value for the company.
Which successful person likes to complain? It's no use complaining.
You will gradually find that this society is still relatively just and there are still many opportunities. Complaining about others will make your friends less and less, opportunities less and less, and life less and less happy, which is not good for you. Success depends not on complaining, but on the accumulation of a little ability.
Leave early if you don't like the work, and you will be successful if you are interested.
If you don't like your boss, why waste your life for his mistakes if you quit your job and don't see him for a minute? If you decide not to leave your job and go to work in the company today, you should do your job well. Some people say that there are several problems. I have personality, I don't like it, but personality is the patent of successful people. Of course you feel that you have a personality. If you succeed, others will look at you. Can I change rooms before I succeed? If personality can change houses, I have more personality than you, and our family has personality, but we can't change houses.
If youth no longer comes, You're screwed. will be late.
If you mess around, I'm sorry. In fact, you are fooling yourself. You mess around in many big companies. Can you hack the boss's money? Your annual salary is 65438+ 10,000 yuan, you have worked in the company for 10 years, and your middle and lower income is 1 10,000 yuan. For many companies, some people confuse me with 1 10,000, which does little harm to the company, but if they don't work hard for ten years, they may suddenly close down one day or be fired by this gangster. What should you do? Do you think you are competitive? Unless you have a good father.
We should steer our life by ourselves, not drift with the tide. Work hard and think more about the hardships you have experienced when starting a business. There is no starting over in life, but we can try to live a better future!
Appreciation of inspirational writing: youth is too good, no matter how you live, you feel that school is wasted. I want them to describe themselves, because I am their mentor and want to know more about them.
Freshmen, who are new to Success Ridge, are just like senior four at some point. They are very cooperative and describe themselves as much as possible.
When they finished, I suddenly felt surprised and unbelievable. As far as I know, they fall into two categories. One kind of theory? I used to like playing, but I didn't study hard. From now on, I will study hard? The other said:? I used to only know how to study. From now on, I will join some clubs or go for an outing. ?
Strangely, both have slight regrets and regrets.
Then I remembered an old story more than 30 years ago. At that time, there was a popular movie episode (probably called "Fishing Song Guangming"), and my uncles and aunts were singing with great interest. Young as I am, do I hear you? Moon bend Kyushu? I think it's acceptable, but another sentence puzzles me.
? Uncle, why are you singing? Little sister flows in the water of youth? And then what?
? Because she is the fisherman's daughter, the fisherman's daughter can't go to school, of course it's a waste of youth! ?
At that time, I only knew that I was not convinced at once, but because I was too young, I couldn't tell the reason and didn't know how to make a sound, so I had to stop talking, but my dissatisfaction was terrible and could be buried for more than 30 years.
When you get to middle school, okay? Spring is annoying? And never give up asking, spring is so good, why is it so good that others can't answer it, and that annoying even blinking evil eyes implies the troubles that spring brings to people? Sex? Related. But it must not be like this. There must be another truth, which I vaguely know but can't say.
A little bigger, after reading Faust, all the long-buried questions came together, and I vaguely knew there was an explanation.
Old Faust has known himself in his room all his life. In the shadow of the old book album, he caught a glimpse of April outside the window, and singing came, which was a noisy team celebrating Easter. At that moment, he regretted it. He felt that his whole life had been abandoned. He thinks that if he is young again, everything will change. As usual, what does Lao Dan always say on the stage of China Yuan Zaju? Flowers will reopen one day and people will no longer be young? Speak indifferently and definitely, and I don't know if the people watching the drama are surprised or not. Faust, on the other hand, exchanged soul gambling for a second-degree teenager and a young genius? Possible possibilities? . Poor Faust, a pedant, doesn't know that life is too beautiful, so beautiful that no matter what way you choose to spend it, it is like a waste.
Life is like a pearl in the mythical world, which comes from sand and belongs to sand. Shiny, just a short illusion in the middle! However, isn't it this short period of time that makes us upset? There is another similarity between pearls and life, that is, it is ok for you to spend all your money on a pearl, but on the other hand, it is useless for you to change clothes and eat pearls. Even hanging pearls on a beautiful woman's chest is helpless. It is nothing more than a kind of cooperation between the two? Slow-heating people are old and yellow? That's all. Pearl is just its colorful self. I can only watch helplessly. Can you only be happy or embarrassed? Because you caught it in time, it was gravel and must be restored to this section between the gravel.
And Faust doesn't know or doesn't know, he wants to find another time? Maybe? Just like a gambler who doesn't know whether it's because of bad skills or bad luck, he always thinks that as long as he is allowed to play another game, he will definitely turn over his losses. I finally know how to say a sentence I wanted to argue with my uncle more than 30 years ago. If a woman who fishes is a waste of time, a woman who collects firewood is also a waste of time. Although the name reading is beautiful, it makes people dizzy and hunched. Shouldn't it be a waste of youth? Besides, isn't unforgettable love just passing away? Isn't fame and fortune just rolling dust? No, youth is too good. No matter how you live it, you feel like throwing waves. When you look back, you will regret it.
? Spring is annoying? I understand that sentence now. What should I be most afraid of in the world? Soldiers can be stopped when they come, and water can cover the soil when it comes. As long as there are countermeasures, they are not afraid of each other's moves. I'm afraid I'm afraid that when a person is fighting with real life and painting, suddenly an opponent named Universe Dahua appears outside the array, and he makes an oblique name. Spring? As human beings, we are really caught off guard. How can the luxury and splendor of life keep us from losing our minds? At this moment, what should I regret if I don't do it? Regret what you did. Spring scenery makes people angry and stomps their feet, which means they are angry. We have nothing to do with it!
Looking back, I think all the students in my tutor's class are smart and open-minded, but they can't help regretting that they worked hard and loved to play? Just because I am too young, just because I am young, I think that in another way, everything will be reversed without regret. Son, no, it's really not like this! Life is too perfect, youth is too perfect, even the hurried spring is too perfect, perfect like a balloon in a child's hand in a holiday. It will cry when it flies, cry when it breaks, and make people cry even if it shrinks day by day!
So, son, can't you even see this simple truth? Life is a big creditor, and we are all his debtors. In this case, let's relax and have a drink. How much debt is there? All right! Since youth is a game? No matter what you do, it feels like a wave. This regret, why not think about it in turn, then, it is almost equal to? No matter what you have done sincerely, you don't have to regret it. Because you either study, play, fight or fish, just as another person laments that he can't do it.
? However, is this the case? Right? Facing life, can I be a teacher who treats others as children? Or am I just a young child, a child who doesn't believe in arguments and is vague?
The above are three pieces of inspirational appreciation of American literature that I carefully arranged and recommended for you. I hope you like them.