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She, a pregnant woman who can live a special life, has the traditional virtue of diligence and housekeeping. Speaking of thrift, perhaps in this age of material abundance, many people disdain to mention it, but in her case, she can pay the down payment for a house in just a few years.
When I first met her, she stood in the hot sun with a big belly, pulling a car full of vegetables, sweating with fatigue, and was not affected at all. I asked her curiously, "There is one in the supermarket downstairs. How much can I eat? Why run so far? " She turned out the notebook of her mobile phone and showed it to me. She began to introduce: "Look how fresh and cheap my food is. Chinese cabbage market 2.68 yuan, supermarket 3.68 yuan, market meat 14 yuan, supermarket 18 yuan. There is a fish supermarket that can eat two in the market ... "I disdained to look at it and thought that this woman was really tossing. As a pregnant woman, although I don't agree with her in practice, I still admire her.
Probably all pregnant mothers. We have so many endless topics that we almost become "little lovers" who have to meet every day.
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She, a gentle, kind, strong and independent mother, infected me with her persistence and simplicity. Do not pursue expensive luxury goods, do not compare with others' happiness, and live quietly and slowly. Like me, she gave birth to a white fat man in June of 14. However, the father of the child has not stayed at home for a few days since the birth of the child, and has been on business trips overseas all the year round, ranging from three months to one year. So the responsibility of taking care of the children falls entirely on her.
I remember one day, her child was hospitalized because of pneumonia, and when she saw that the child was ill, she was anxious, and as a result, she was accidentally infected with pneumonia by her child. While taking care of her sick son, she gently caressed his head in view of his physical discomfort, as if to tell him that we should not be afraid of the sky falling. A person who took his son's medicine suddenly recovered, never complaining or complaining.
Later, I asked her, "You are so tired alone, why don't you let him come back and take care of the children together?" She said earnestly: "I also hope that the family can be together, but there are old and young people in our family, and we have to let him work hard to make money." It is not easy for him to work overtime. Foreign countries are more suitable for his development. It doesn't matter what I try. "Say that finish face calm and understanding. I think it must be a blessing for her man to meet such an understanding and considerate wife.
At least my contribution to the family is not as good as hers, and I can't help blaming myself for dragging my husband down in my career.
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She is a self-disciplined, motivated and unwilling to be realistic. A person takes care of the children, insists on getting up at 5 o'clock every day, running, memorizing words, washing and cooking, working in the day shift, accompanying the baby and taking care of small businesses. I will live in an orderly way, and my pockets will get bigger every day.
She said: "After learning time management, my daily life is very full, and my children seem to be smarter and more sensible. After exercise, sweating feels really cool! Exercise makes me happy physically and mentally, and can stop anxiety and insomnia. Take pictures of your children and write about your daily life every day, and you will find yourself making progress every day. You should also exercise together. Only a strong body can take better care of family members. We are not only husbands' wives, but also children's mothers. We have to be ourselves in life. "
"Ok, I'll join you right away." Looking at her sincere invitation, I answered without hesitation.
Before giving birth to a child, she was a battle-hardened female warrior. Off the assembly line, set up a stall, worked as an accountant, opened a shop, unwilling and unyielding to reality, she set up a factory independently and managed the factory vividly. However, in the most prosperous time, she resolutely chose her family, chose her children and gave in to her husband. She enjoys the pleasure of being a mother with satisfaction.
Stay-at-home mothers also have many confused and helpless times. They will lack self-confidence and yearn for personal freedom and financial freedom. However, apart from recalling the glorious past and thinking about what I should do and where I will go in the future, there will inevitably be bouts of sadness and panic ... She inspires me with her own stories and actions, and I can't live in this life. It's not too late to start now.
After further heart-to-heart, I found that she had more hidden bright spots, which attracted me like gold panning. Like a bosom sister, she has been guiding and enlightening me. She said that writing doesn't need gorgeous words and won much praise. Write whatever you want and follow your heart. Running is not to lose weight deliberately, nor to show off one's ability, but to make it a fitness habit. It's not ridiculous to do small business. A stay-at-home mother, who wears several hats and earns money by her own labor, should be respected.
Yes, there are so many troubles, stay away from the negative energy around you, go your own way and let others talk! When it is in full bloom, the butterfly will come! 20 18, I will accompany you all the way forward, I believe you will create new legends.