Andy and Singularity used to be a couple we were looking forward to, but Singularity was defeated by Andy's life experience. Andy made the right decision, because Andy is more rational than anyone else, and he is not sure that his future marriage must be abandoned. This is in line with Andy's character: seeing big things clearly and doing them simply. Later, when I met Bao Xiao, I could see that Bao Xiao really fell in love with Andy at first sight. From the second season, Bao Xiao decided not to marry Andy. He gave Andy warm love and sincere care, and slowly showed his world to Andy bit by bit. His love is direct and forbearing, relaxed and not heavy, transparent and not depressed, which makes Andy's heart gradually rely on and slowly soothes her uneasy heart, which can be described as well-intentioned. Take Andy to his old factory, tell her about his childhood life and anecdotes, look at the sea and tell her that she is the only girl he brought here; Take Andy to the remote mountain area where she has invested, and let her share her happiness. The phrase "it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish" made Andy see Bao Yifan more profound and respectful than his appearance. I have no choice. Andy said, "I seem to like you a little." In a word, Bao Xiao is always ecstatic, and his feelings are based on the sea. Bao Xiao always uses a trick, which is perfect. Andy finally recognized this lovely Bao Xiao.
I have always felt that a beautiful love should be like the story of Bridges of Madison County. Two people who meet occasionally don't ask where they are, don't care about the way home, and don't care about their own state. Just attract each other. Even if this kind of love only exists for a second, it is enough to be unforgettable and memorable for a lifetime.
I have always thought that a girl like Andy is not suitable for marriage, which has nothing to do with whether she has fireworks or not, but because she is too independent, too decisive and too smart.
An independent woman can live well without a man, with economic foundation, social status and strong heart. On the contrary, marriage will become her burden and eventually get lost in marriage.
Decisive women are too rational, and too rational women will live a rigid life and lose a lot of interest in life. For example, Andy is not cooking at home. She thinks that time should not be wasted on these things, but marriage is so trivial, and everything is trivial.
Smart women can see through problems too much, which can be seen from Andy's email to Qin Ying. Andy's cleverness is a poison, poisoning the singularity. Once there is a future that she can't grasp, she will decisively give up the present, but marriage is uncertain. She doesn't want to be stupid in sweetness, so she can only choose to give up each other.
So Andy is more suitable for falling in love, jumping out of marriage and keeping the passion of love forever, which does not involve the reality in marriage. This is more suitable for a woman like Andy. Once marriage grinds love into affection, Andy's brilliance disappears.
The love in each of us is different, and the love we yearn for is also different. Perfection in others' eyes is not necessarily their own happiness, but their own happiness is realized by themselves. When two people are hungry, she or he can push the only bowl of porridge in front of you. I think that's enough. This is what love looks like.