Lovely girl = sensible+easy to provoke = soft persimmon "You see how quiet and lovely my sister is. Girls should be quiet. You can't shout. You are my sister. You should set an example for your brothers and sisters. They are naughty. You can't be like them. "
Your good girl has grown like this.
Favorite snacks, warm-hearted toys, dare not take the initiative to play with friends, for fear that others will be unhappy; Misunderstood, but without an explanation, they are honest, accustomed to observing words and feelings, accustomed to accepting resignation, and accustomed to catering to the needs of others.
Please tell your daughter:
Life is not a fairy tale world. You can be naughty like a boy, not quiet You don't have to rely on Nuo Nuo to do what others ask you to do, let alone gain others' approval. You can do what you want naturally and confidently. You don't have to be nice to everyone, just be gentle with people who are equally kind.
May you grow up to be a graceful girl, not a harmless girl "-mother said."
What are the characteristics of natural and graceful girls?
1, know what you want.
Can calm down and make a choice, have a clear goal in life, and can go on firmly.
2. Be brave in expressing and have your own opinions.
Nuo Nuo will not be the only one who has his own views and opinions and dares to express them.
3, strong in heart, strong and brave
Able to face difficulties and setbacks correctly, gentle and firm in heart, and not easily interfered and negatively influenced by others.
4. Have your own opinions
Can think independently and have their own opinions. Be able to analyze problems rationally and make decisions.
5, humble, backward compatibility, social progress.
I don't feel inferior when I meet people who are better than myself, and I don't swell when I meet people who are worse than myself. I associate with people modestly and confidently.
How to cultivate a graceful girl?
1, show her the world more.
Avoid transmitting the thoughts of the poor. A person who has seen the world knows how to look at the world and how to shorten the gap between reality and ideal.
Step 2 show more love
Create a harmonious and relaxed family atmosphere, and children who grow up in a family environment full of love and relaxed atmosphere will also look at the world with love and an open mind.
3. Allow to express your feelings and needs.
Respect her right to say no to her children and teach her to express her emotions in an appropriate way.
4. Teach her to be more independent
In fact, girls need independence more than boys. Learn to let go, don't overcontrol and spoil your child, and leave her parents alone when the child's difficulties are acceptable.