For friends who can't drink, it's best not to take the first sip. If you can't drink, don't drink, and eat with your rice bowl. This is definitely better than punching a swollen face and filling a fat man, and the back is more embarrassing. Don't drink with anyone if you can't drink, so as not to favor one over the other. Say no at first, and then you can drink better than anyone else, so that you won't be called hypocritical and battle-hardened
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If you are sure you can drink, look at these rules:
Don't try to persuade wine, don't put something like "deep feelings, boring; Love is superficial, lick it "is always on your lips,
The wine table is divided into different sizes, regardless of seating, dishes and drinks. The leaders drink each other before it is their turn to propose a toast. A person can respect a person, not many people, unless you are a leader. Give a toast to others and see their attitude. Never drink less than the other person. After I finish this sentence, you are free and generous. My position is low, remember to add wine to the leader, don't pour wine for others blindly. Even if the leader really can't drink well and wants to find someone to drink for him, the person who drinks for him should pretend that he wants to drink, not for him. The leader will accompany you to drink, no matter how much the leader wants you to drink, do it yourself first, remember to use your hands and put the cup down. Don't drink like a toast, it seems to be very drinkable.
Don't talk business at the dinner table. If you drink well, the business will be almost the same, and everyone knows it, otherwise people will not be free to drink with you. Saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, not pleading, and consciously punishing alcohol are the last word. There is bound to be a glass of stuffy wine in the end, so don't leave your glass empty.
Be careful not to make a slip of the tongue after drinking, don't tell me what to do and don't talk big. You'd better enjoy yourself on the wine table, and don't whisper. Try not to whisper to others and give others a sense of mystery, which often leads to jealousy of "just the two of you".
Moderate persuasion, don't force it. On the wine table, we often encounter the phenomenon of persuading wine. Some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic to drink enough. Be clear about each other's drinking capacity, otherwise people who drink less will be in trouble, and sometimes too much persuasion will completely destroy the original friendship.
If you are a party person, you should not take the initiative to order, but let the host order. If the other party asks in good faith, you can order a dish that is not too expensive or taboo. Remember to ask the people at the same table, especially "Is there anything not to eat?" Or "What do you prefer to eat?" Let everyone feel taken care of. If there are more men, you can add a table of dishes appropriately, preferably with meat and vegetables, hot and cold, as comprehensive as possible.
Guests must not make a toast in disorder, which is very impolite and disrespectful to the host. Generally, the reception time is longer, about two hours or more. Maybe after walking around and meeting some people, I will want to leave soon. When you want to leave halfway, don't say goodbye to everyone in the conversation circle, just quietly say hello to two or three people around you and leave. If you leave the reception halfway, you must explain and apologize to the host who invited you. You can't disappear in an instant. Say hello to your host, and then you should leave at once. Don't drag your master on in Daimon Masaru. This will make him (her) appear rude in front of other guests.