Xiao Jing in the second trimester of pregnancy said,' I have been with my husband several times, but I am scared every time. My husband always asks how the baby is. Did the baby move? The psychological pressure is too great, and it is too great now. It's been more than six months now, so I resigned. Experts say that as long as you have certain posture and precautions, you can enjoy perfect sex in the second trimester.
1. Do a good job of personal hygiene.
Both sides should wash their private parts before and after sex, and don't forget to wash their hands to avoid bacterial infection.
2. Don't be too intense.
This truth can be understood without saying. During sexual intercourse, the husband should not plunge too deep, twitch slowly at the climax of sexual intercourse, and do not change positions frequently. During sex, if the expectant mother feels unwell, such as abdominal pain or bloating, dizziness, etc. Maybe it's not gentle enough. At this time, she should rest for a while.
3. Choose a position that does not oppress the abdomen.
For pregnant couples, this is an opportunity to explore and experience different sexual postures. They can try and experience postures suitable for pregnancy. Generally speaking, the following positions are suitable for expectant mothers and fathers:
1。 Woman in bed: A woman sits astride a man and lets him control the depth and angle of sexual intercourse. This posture will not squeeze the pregnant woman's abdomen.
2。 Lateral position: the man lies on the side of the woman's body and enters from the back.
3。 Back posture: the man kneels behind the woman, and the woman kneels on the ground with her arms crossed. This posture will not put pressure on the pregnant woman's abdomen.
4。 Traditional posture: If you take the posture of men on top and women on the bottom, let the husband on top spread his arms to support his body, and don't oppress the pregnant woman's abdomen.
What about the sexual taboo period?
Insufficient progesterone secretion in early pregnancy is likely to lead to miscarriage, and at this stage, if the expectant mother has early pregnancy reaction, her sexual desire may not be strong, so it is best not to have sex. In the last two months of pregnancy, expectant mothers will feel very heavy and tired when their bellies are high. They need more rest and should stop having sex.
How to satisfy yourself and him in the first and third trimester? For husbands, we can't just think of' no intercourse, no sex'. There are also colorful caresses between husband and wife. Hugging, touching and kissing can bring comfort and happiness to pregnant wives, and husbands can reach orgasm through other methods. For example, the wife lies on her side, and the husband inserts her thigh from behind, and then thinks that it can basically replace the real vaginal insertion. At the same time, the husband can surround his wife from behind, touch her breasts and kiss her neck, so that both sides can be satisfied.
There are other ways, such as the wife helping her husband release with her hands or mouth, or the husband can also use some flirting tools, inflatable dolls and other sex products. Of course, these should be acceptable to both sides.
Tips for ensuring safe sex:
1. When a man is in the upper position, the prospective father must support his strength with his arms.
2, remember not to insert too deep or sprint too hard, so as not to cause cervical injury and bleeding' or cause uterine contraction.
3. 3 months before pregnancy and 2 months after pregnancy, for the safety of the baby, it is best not to have sex.
4. If there is abdominal pain or vaginal bleeding after sexual life, there is a possibility of miscarriage or premature delivery, you should seek medical advice in time.
5. Pregnant women with multiple abortions or premature births should pay attention to reducing their sexual life as much as possible to avoid another abortion or premature birth.
6. If there are obstetric reasons such as placenta previa, the doctor will also inform you.
Tips for making expectant mothers more comfortable:
1. Remind prospective fathers to caress more before sex, especially don't forget to touch their stomachs.
2. Prepare some cushions. It is more convenient to have them when taking different positions.
3. Choose to have sex after getting enough sleep, such as early morning. Sufficient physical strength and energy are the best guarantee for orgasm.
You can increase your libido by watching some sex pictures and DVDs. Inviting him actively with intimate actions can often make both of them excited.
5. Pregnancy will make some people'
Expectant mother Anita said,' I'm just worried that he will cheat at this time, so I always treat him negatively and gently, but overall it's good. This time, he seems to be out of sight. In order to dispel his concerns, I told him that the second trimester was relatively safe and that it was okay to have infrequent sex, but he didn't hear me. \'
Fathers-to-be often feel embarrassed when faced with pregnant wives. Although' sex' was vigorous at first, I was worried that her physical inconvenience would have a bad influence on my baby when I saw the changes in my wife's body, so I deliberately suppressed my desire. Anita's husband said, "Sometimes we make love carefully. After doing it, we were under too much psychological pressure. Afraid of regretting it in a few days, I practiced it myself. '
In fact, if the prospective father knows that the doctor says that you can have sex in the second trimester of pregnancy, and this may be a good time for you to take a new posture and try new things, you can enjoy different sexual feelings. In the first three months of pregnancy,' expectant mothers are troubled by the discomfort of early pregnancy, and often have reduced sexual desire and even are not interested in sex'. But after the first trimester, more blood rushes to the vulva, vagina and breasts, and most expectant mothers' sexual desire will increase. If you have sex at this time, you will feel more wonderful and the quality of sex will be improved. Think about it, her breasts are getting fuller now, her figure is fuller than before, and her stomach is round. These changes should be novel and exciting for dad, which can bring different freshness to sex.
Q: Will semen affect fetal health?
A: Some people say that prostaglandin in semen can stimulate uterine contraction, and they advocate using condoms for sex during pregnancy. But obstetricians have clearly told us that premature delivery and miscarriage are not uncommon, because prostaglandin in semen can cause uterine contraction. Because the uterus is completely sealed by mucus during pregnancy, semen will not cause uterine infection and will not affect the safety and health of the fetus. As long as the pregnant woman is in stable condition, she can have sex with her husband.
Many expectant mothers say that having sex before pregnancy often worries about accidents. If they don't wear condoms once, they will feel uneasy afterwards. However, since you are pregnant, you don't have to worry about unexpected pregnancy. My husband also thinks that I don't need a condom and I don't need to interrupt sexual intercourse, so I can have fun.
New research shows that having sex during pregnancy is good for both the pregnant woman and the fetus. During sexual life, with the contraction of the uterus and the filling of blood vessels, more blood and nutrients can be transported, which is beneficial to the growth of the fetus. So we don't have to give up sex during pregnancy, we should enjoy it as much as possible. With the joy of the baby, the relationship between husband and wife will be warmer. The quality of life of husband and wife is unprecedented, and sex at this time will definitely have different sweet feelings.
Q: The husband's penis is 18 cm when he is erect. Will this length affect the reproductive health of pregnant women?
A: First of all, congratulations! Because you have a husband with such excellent physical structure. Although the length of a man's penis is not proportional to his sexual happiness, most women still think that a long and thick penis is really more satisfying to use during erection.
As for whether this length will affect the health of the expectant mother and the baby in the belly, the answer is no, but if you insert the penis at 18cm, you will feel very uncomfortable, such as abdominal pain, backache and swelling of the lower abdomen and uterus, which shows that he has inserted it too deeply. At this point, you should immediately stop having sex, have a rest, and tell him not to insert too much next time, and not to enter all of them.
You can also find some unconventional sexy love. For example, if you lie in the front, he lies in the back, and his legs are together,' he inserts from the back', so that the penis will not be completely inserted. Another example is the' rocking boat' posture you played when you were a child: you sat on the bed face to face with him, your legs were on his legs, he hugged your waist, and then began to insert. Even if he works hard, his penis can't be completely inserted.
Also tell you, don't worry that the penis can't be completely inserted and he won't get pleasure, and don't believe his complaints about this problem, because the most sensitive part of the male penis is not in the root, but in the front glans of the penis. As long as enough friction stimulation is given to the front of the penis, he can reach the high point quickly.