I'm impressed.

If a person's mood is always in a low state, then it is useless to take the best tonic.

And the people who are most likely to affect our mood are often the people closest to us.

Being close to people who make us happy and staying away from people who make us feel uncomfortable is the best way to keep fit.

People who get along well will not cross the line.

There is a saying that "respect each other as guests."

The more intimate the relationship, the more you need a feeling of "respecting each other as guests".

San Mao said: "No matter how close friends are, they should be measured and think they are familiar. As a result, they were isolated. "

If you think the relationship is close, you will have no scruples. Regardless of you and me, it will only cause many contradictions in the original close relationship.

Some people, once they are familiar with each other, like to play jokes on each other, whether they mind or not.

As a result, the other person often stays away from him.

People with a sense of boundaries will respect each other's wishes, even if they are familiar with them.

If their jokes will hurt each other, then they won't play so-called jokes again.

Some people, relying on their intimate relationship, like to interfere in each other's private affairs, forcing each other to do what they want, and call themselves "warm-hearted."

The result can only be to make the other party feel disgusted.

People with a sense of boundaries will not interfere in each other's affairs at will. They know that others have the right to handle things by themselves, and arbitrary intervention is an infringement of others' rights.

As the saying goes, "distance produces beauty."

With people who have a sense of boundaries, they get along most comfortably and smoothly.

People who get along well with each other are not strange.

Mencius said, "People can change after they have passed."

A person's mistakes are not terrible, as long as they can be corrected.

In life, we will find that some people will aggressively blame others once they find their mistakes.

Even if others make trivial mistakes, they will stick to it;

Even if others have admitted their mistakes, they will always blame them.

Get along with such people, gradually, people will become timid, afraid of making mistakes, and attract their stormy accusations.

After a long time, I will get more and more tired.

And those who know how to tolerate us will make us realize that they are standing with us.

Therefore, even if we make a mistake, we will not be overly afraid, but know that they will face it with us.

When we know that no one will severely criticize us, it is easy for us to play our wisdom and solve problems when facing problems.

A person who is often tolerated and encouraged is often braver;

A person who is often accused and suppressed often becomes "afraid to take another step and say a word".

So, how should we face the storm of life?

People who get along well can change places.

Su Shi said: "From the side of the ridge, the height is different."

Looking at the same thing from different angles, the nature of things may change.

I see a picture.

From the front, it is an old woman with wrinkles;

On the other hand, she is a beautiful young girl.

The painting itself has not changed, but the angle of view has changed and the result has become bigger.

In life, some people always like to look at problems from their own standpoint.

Therefore, in the process of getting along with them, it is always easy to produce contradictions.

If a person always stands in his superior position and tries to solve other people's problems, then it is easy to make the mistake of "why not eat minced meat", which makes people laugh.

People who know how to put themselves in the other's shoes can think from the other's standpoint, so they can understand the other's difficulties.

They can understand each other and tolerate differences, so they can make people feel like spring breeze and get along well with each other.

Conclusion:

The sign of a person's maturity is not tact and sophistication, but "knowing the world and not being sophisticated."

The more things you experience, the more you will understand that many relationships cannot be forced.

Stay with whoever is comfortable with.

Nietzsche said: "Every day that never dances is a disappointment to life."

Being with people who are comfortable with each other is the best wealth in life.

* * * Encourage.