And a happy family can't be separated from a woman who knows everything.
It is said that a good life needs careful management.
My third aunt is such a person who manages herself and her family with care.
Grandparents have always had three sons, and we have lived in the same compound for many years. For the elderly, it is the happiest and most gratifying thing to have four generations of children and grandchildren under their knees. Dad and uncles are farming in the village, sowing in spring and harvesting in autumn. Year after year, they face the loess and face the sky, and their lives are always not rich.
At this time, Sanyi and Grandpa proposed to move out of the compound and go out to work. Sanyi said that she didn't want to be helpless in the face of poverty, and she didn't want to look after the children, and she couldn't even afford the tuition. However, Sanyi was opposed and dissatisfied by her grandparents. Grandma vowed that Sanyi was not a fuel-efficient lamp. Once she goes out, she may change her mind and her uncle's family will be separated. Third aunt is younger than third uncle 10 years old, but in ordinary days, third aunt has a decent style, and grandma is looking for such an excuse to stop third aunt from moving out.
Of course they were worried, but Third Aunt resolutely moved out with that strength. Third aunt is a person who loves to learn. Although she is only in the third grade of primary school, she will read Xinhua dictionary in her spare time and read one word at a time. Although the words are crooked, she can know the meaning of many complicated and difficult words and blurt them out. When the child asked me, she said I didn't want to know. She tried to improve herself as much as possible. If anyone has an unwanted book, she will come and read it at home. Therefore, Sangu's eloquence is getting better and better. Whether telling the truth or arguing with others, she can convince others with her clever mouth.
She moved out of the compound, borrowed money from relatives and friends, and spent 1 0,000 yuan to buy a family building in the mining area. Sanyi values that there are primary schools and junior high schools in the mining area, so children don't have to worry about going to school. At that time, the primary schools in the village had declined. By the third grade, all the children in the village had to go to private schools in further counties. Third aunt successfully let her sister and brother go to school, and there are also private schools in this place, so that third aunt can find a job. Although the third aunt did a very humble cleaning job, she was unambiguous. When others drag the stairs of the teaching building, Third Aunt always wipes them with a towel. She said that this not only exercises the body, but also cleans it cleanly and quickly, so that students will not be allowed to step on footprints everywhere.
Sanyi's seriousness has also been appreciated by the school leaders. Every time the school pays tribute to the outstanding staff of the school on Labor Day or New Year's Day, the third aunt will always take the stage to receive the award. Third aunt has been in this job for ten years and is still doing it. With her own seriousness, she won the recognition of others and the respect of the school leaders in a humble job, and also made Sanyi a small leader in managing logistics personnel, and she was able to pay Sanyi 300 yuan more every month.
Third aunt loves reading. She says it's never too old to learn. She didn't study well because of her family when she was a child. At that time, in rural areas that didn't attach importance to education, my third aunt said that I would let all my children study no matter how hard it was. She really did it. Even if my sister's academic performance is particularly poor, Sanyi tries her best to get her to go to school. Finally, her sister went to a junior college in Tianjin. Although my sister didn't learn a good knowledge, at least she broadened her horizons and ideas. Unlike other girls in her hometown who don't study, she gets married and has children early and repeats her parents' life. My sister is working in Beijing now, and her income is good. She said that her studies were particularly poor at that time and she felt that she was not cut out for study. However, under the strict and teaching of her third aunt, she dared not drop out of school. At that time, she was ignorant and didn't understand why she had such a mother, especially hating her third aunt.
In order to go to school, they can't have a big dinner during the Spring Festival. They can't wear new clothes like other children, they can only wear old clothes given by relatives and friends. She also had to go to a nearby restaurant as a waiter to wash dishes in winter and summer vacations, just to earn 800 yuan's living expenses. She thinks she doesn't like studying. It's really helpless for her mother to push herself like this. But now, she understands the good intentions of her third aunt, and now she is especially grateful to the heartless mother who forced her to go to school. She said that if Third Aunt wasn't too strict, she would really be a woman in the countryside now, hanging around her husband and children all day.
Although Sanyi doesn't earn much money every month, she is still a health expert. Of course, she won't bother with the recipes she read in books or learned from TV programs, but she cooks health meals in different ways every day. When I go to my third aunt's house for dinner, she can clearly tell what nutrients each dish contains and how to do it to have high nutritional value. Therefore, even if I go to my third aunt's house in winter, I can eat the corn stored in her refrigerator and study all kinds of delicious food.
Third aunt is also a person who loves sports. As long as she doesn't go to work in the morning, she will get up to exercise, she will play Tai Chi, and she will meet leg press at home and massage the acupoints herself. She will also keep up with the times, buy mask stickers and make her own egg white and honey mask. Therefore, Sanyi is the best activist and inspirational.
She manages herself carefully and makes her life rich and healthy. She manages her family seriously and makes her life better and better. Although his uncle is an honest man, he doesn't sweet talk or even take the initiative to care about others, but his aunt always uses a positive attitude to discover his uncle's advantages. She said that my old man made money, gave me every penny, didn't eat, drink or gamble, didn't need me to do heavy work at home, and always praised my food. I am very satisfied with such a husband.
Third aunt has a good housekeeping style. With the help of her uncle Qi Xin, she not only trained her younger sister and younger brother to go to college, but also bought a building and a shop in the county seat. She said that because my son was going to marry a daughter-in-law, I had to prepare a house for her. My daughter is getting married, but the rent of the shop can also be one of the economic sources for my sister to get married in the future. This is the third aunt, who can carry everything clearly and think clearly.
The three aunts run their own businesses seriously and live a busy life without money, but they are unable to do so.
Other women in rural areas, however, have time to talk about other people's right and wrong, but have no time to educate their children and let them grow wildly. I have time to play mahjong and have nothing to do, but I have no time to do something meaningful to make my family's life better. Nowadays, in rural areas, there is less simplicity and more blind comparison and unhealthy practices. Idle women are always talking about other people's lives, causing trouble and falling into quarrels. Paying attention to others is very fulfilling, and my life is a mess.
Many times, a woman, as long as she manages herself diligently and lives up to every day when the sun rises, will definitely make her life and life proud everywhere.